Help guys i need some big help

[moneyman]

Ok this is the low down, about 3 weeks ago my wife and I got in to a fight. My mother called her to say that I had some type of card at her house in the mail. My wife told her that she should just bring it by the house but my mother told her that she has to check with me first. So my wife called me with all this shit like " what do u have to hide, why does your mother feel like she cant bring your mail by the house with out u here". I told her that i didnt know what the hell she was talking about and she should chill out. She flipped out telling me that im hinding shit and that I shouldnt come home until i told her the truth. So i call my mother then tried to call my wife on 3-way at her parents house no one answer but the answering machine picked up. I didnt know this at the time but the machine was taping all the shit my mother and I were saying. I was pissed so I said stuff like " fuck her, she always thinks im hinding shit and I dont need that bitch" and my mother pretty much was going along with what i was saying and that she has control proplems. Every thing is ok now until i just got a call from my wife telling me that everything was taped and her father asked her why did she delete the message. My wife asked him why did it matter and he said that he was saving it for the family to hear. So now im pissed, fucking mad and my wife feels hurt because its like her parent wanted to make people look down on us or something. So tonite im going out their house and fucking snap. I cant believe that people in their 60's can act like this, what they were going to do was low down and down right shady. So if any bros can give me a lil help with a way to handle this with out fucking some one up??

 

[joe shmoe]

well first off...dont go anywhere. stop! you need to relax. after you relax, you need to have a talk with the wife and make sure you both agree on one thing...that your relationship is your(yours and hers) business and nobody elses. then go to her folks house and you and the wife tell them that things will be OK and that their sticking there noses in your(yours and your wifes) business is not appreciated.

dont go there pissed off. you might wind up breaking something, cops showing up, you getting arrested. nothing good will come of you going there all pissed off.

have a nice day

 

[moneyman]

dude but im so damn pissed because they walk around on their high horse and talk down about people who do shit like this and now i find out that they do the same. And i talked to my wife and she feels the same as i do .

 

[Bob Smith]

Joe had some good advice. You AND your wife need to address this isue with them together. And settle down or else everyone will get all fired up and emotional, thereby getting absolutely nothing accomplished.

 

[moneyman]

But how do u talk to people who think that they are right ?? They dont see the wrong in taking a tape of my mother and I for others hear. How do u talk to people like this.?? All they do is sit on a damn high horse

 

[joe shmoe]

if they refuse to listen to you and the mrs, then just up and leave. sooner or later they'll get the hint to sit down, shut the fuck up and listen.

have a nice day

 

[krom]

I say fuck em bro, lifes to short to give a shit what they think. If you and your wife are getting along then don't worry about their meddling bullshit and mind games. They need to get a life not you.

 

[moneyman]

but bro what can I do for the long run?? if i dont say something now I know ill kick their ass. I dont have a problem fucking them up, the only reason i havent is because of my wife. Dude they are like the "Old White richs people". like some people have money but they had to work for it, like Michael Jordon would have new money, and people like my inlaws have old money. They act like little batches, I cant stand people like that.

 

[Ian Smith]

If you and your gal have an understanding about the whole matter, then Id let her deal with it first, and if they dont listen to her,,, then the hell with them... Thats a bad situation, I cant speak for everyone, but I know from my past relationships that Ive said things like that when I was pissed at who I was dating at the time, (to someone else), you were just blowing off steam.. Hell, I bet she probably did the same thing, only her conversation wasnt recorded... good luck

 

[Salvia]

bust your father-inlaw in the jaw.........

 

[moneyman]

i feel so mislead by these ass hole. Ive known them for like 11 years now and they act as if they where church going people with no room for sin or shit like this in their life. Fucking ass holes, I think im mosty pissed because ive lost so much respect for them

 

[Bob Smith]

i feel so mislead by these ass hole. Ive known them for like 11 years now and they act as if they where church going people with no room for sin or shit like this in their life. Fucking ass holes, I think im mosty pissed because ive lost so much respect for them

You DID call their daughter a bitch and said you had no use for her.

 

[moneyman]

thats not the point Bob, the point is if that pissed u off say so, dont go behind some ones back and let people hear it. Thats fucking fony

 

[Bob Smith]

If you bite your tongue from the beginning, then you would have nothing to be all upset about. YOU were the one that gave these people the ammo.

 

[moneyman]

Like calling me thier son and shit like " oh we are happy she married u" and on my birthday spent something like 30k on my birthday and this was after they heard the tape.

 

[moneyman]

If you bite your tongue from the beginning, then you would have nothing to be all upset about. YOU were the one that gave these people the ammo.

Bro i understand what u are saying but is not like i recorded the tape and said here this is for u. My mother and I were talking not knowing that the damn tape recorded was playing.

 

[Bob Smith]

Bro i understand what u are saying but is not like i recorded the tape and said here this is for u. My mother and I were talking not knowing that the damn tape recorded was playing.

And that makes it any better?? So not only do you talk shit about your wife, you do it behind her back to your mom and you get caught.

 

[moneyman]

my wife and I both talk shit, she talks shit to them about me all the time trust me. Any way Bob my point is that I do understand if they were pissed about hearing that message but to be fony about it is the part that got me and my wife is even more pissed then I because she says that they always look down on people who do shit like that but to have them do it has really messed her up. She just told me that her mother has for the first time pushed them apart with this. She told me that her mother told her that she shouldnt have touched her machine and she could do what ever she wants to do. So my wife feels that theres more to it then oh he was talking shit about their Baby girl

 

[Slick Arrado]

Not trying to talk down to you bro, but i feel the exact same way that Bob feels. Each one of his responses echoes my sentiments. I hope everything works out.

 

[ramboj70]

Not trying to talk down to you bro, but i feel the exact same way that Bob feels. Each one of his responses echoes my sentiments. I hope everything works out.

good luck bro, calm down things will work out,