Hey Brother,
Here are my thoughts: I was in a long-term relationship with my girlfriend for about four years, and during that time, I was on a low dose of testosterone. From the beginning, she knew I had a passion for training, diet, bodybuilding, and performance-enhancing supplements. I never fully opened up to her about my use, even though she would make comments like, “It’s your body, so it’s your choice.” For some reason, I never felt comfortable trusting her with that information, so I kept my gear hidden in my work/gym bag. At the time, I had a city job in London, waking up at 4 a.m. to catch the train, shower, and head to work.
One day, she asked me for something from my bag, and without thinking, I said, “Yep, it’s in the side pouch.” Unfortunately, that’s where my gear was, and she saw everything—the vials, needles, swabs, and sharps container. From that moment, she acted differently around me. I tried to reassure her that I was being safe and reminded her of her earlier comments, but the shock of seeing all that was too much for her. She asked me to stop, which I did for a while, but eventually, I went back to using without telling her.
We ended up moving across the world together, but after a year of unrelated issues (a long story and a rough breakup), we separated. I then met my fiancé, who I’ve been with for nearly seven years. We have two beautiful kids together, and I’m completely open with her about everything! She knows what I take, the dosages, and I even keep my peptides and GH in a special refrigerator that’s out of reach of the kids. I use them in front of her each morning and evening, but never around the children.
What I’m trying to say is that life is so much easier now that she knows. She’s even taken an interest in learning about it, reading studies, and we have meaningful discussions about it.
In short: life is way easier now!
Plus my Mrs now is way hotter