My wife had a hysterectomy 7 months ago. For many years prior she didn't have much of a libido and now it's non-existent after the hysterectomy. To top it off, she gets almost 0 pleasure from intercourse now. She's always had orgasms from vaginal stimulation, not clitoral, which was awesome because she was multi-orgasmic from penetration. Once she got started, the more she orgasms she had from harder and faster strokes. Now that everything has been removed (all but ovaries) she doesn't get much of any pleasure from intercourse. Since she never had clitoral orgasms before, spending time there isn't much help either. So basically we're in a vicious cycle of no libido and when we do have sex (pity sex) she gets nothing out of it so negative feedback which doesn't help with the libido.
Ideas?
Ideas?