you cats are fucking weird. lmfao. i've never even heard of this. i remember in the past, i used to eat really late just before going to bed in hopes of having nightmares and that usually works. damn, i love a good nightmare! but i've never ever experienced what you bros are describing. perhaps the common denominator here is something (like a psychoactive drug, for example) that you all are taking.
now, i still do practice lucid dreaming once in a while, but that's the total opposite of what you are describing. in lucid dreaming i can guide my dreams and i'm in total control. i can take out all opponents, fly, shit horizontally, etc. maybe you all need to smoke some weed as this is known to short-circuit the portion of your brain responsible for attending to the dreamstate. good luck, you freaks...