I’m torn and I’ll probably get laughed at for this.

[rpbb]

All the help needed fellas please. It’s about a girl I met, I know, women, smh. Anyways this shit was real, and I know I sound corny for this, but fuck it, it is what it is. I’m usually a shy dude, at clubs, bars, and the like. I never have luck there so I turned to bumble and tinder. Anyways, I meet this chic and took her out for drinks Saturday night, first date, and honest to god bro, I fell in love at first sight. My stomach jumped and got butterflies. Yah I’m a cornball, I know, but it’s the truth. We drank all night, had a blast and went back to her place and fucked all night. Durin sex and bein drunk i told her I loved her. I knew right there I fucked up. Needless to say, she got all scared and basically she ghosted me and lied to me. I shouldn’t be heartbroken after a one night/date fuck, but damn I feel fucked up, I really fucking liked this fucking girl. I’m tore the fuck up man and I know I shouldn’t be. What the fuck. Never happened like this before. Fuck.

The rational male is life changing

this thread and his website therationalmale.com would probably help as well

 

[Mdrock98]

You didn't screw anything up, you fucked a girl who gets drunk and fucks on the first date. Which I think is always fun, but they make poor choices as actual partners. There problem your having is not realizing there's alot more girls out there. So don't worry about it.

Thanks man

 

[Mdrock98]

You didn't screw anything up, you fucked a girl who gets drunk and fucks on the first date. Which I think is always fun, but they make poor choices as actual partners. There problem your having is not realizing there's alot more girls out there. So don't worry about it.

I still think about her. I kick myself because I scared her away.

 

[rpbb]

I still think about her. I kick myself because I scared her away.

things like that in life are an opportunity and gift, in that they force you to look at new ways of doing things, go to that website and read everything in the best of year one, it'll open your eyes. otherwise you'll just repeat the same stuff over and over again till you get it

 

[Mdrock98]

things like that in life are an opportunity and gift, in that they force you to look at new ways of doing things, go to that website and read everything in the best of year one, it'll open your eyes. otherwise you'll just repeat the same stuff over and over again till you get it

I understand, but it hurts so much because I wanted this one bad. She was fucking gorgeous. I felt out my league. It’s been two weeks and I’m still being a bitch about it.

 

[TideGear]

I understand, but it hurts so much because I wanted this one bad. She was fucking gorgeous. I felt out my league. It’s been two weeks and I’m still being a bitch about it.

Leagues only exist in ones ego. The rational male talks about this in better terms than I can regurgitate. We've all made the mistake of putting the pussy on a pedestal. The best you can do is learn from your mistakes.

 

[rpbb]

I understand, but it hurts so much because I wanted this one bad. She was fucking gorgeous. I felt out my league. It’s been two weeks and I’m still being a bitch about it.

another one of lifes lessons is that when you fuckup, you're going to feel some pain, it's what prompts you to learn and grow. but i still the fuckup was getting drunk and fucking a slut bareback. Her being hot has nothing to do. with anything. Follow the advice they guys here are giving you, and you'll feel alot better, and score the hot chicks anytime you want

 

[Dead]

I understand, but it hurts so much because I wanted this one bad. She was fucking gorgeous. I felt out my league. It’s been two weeks and I’m still being a bitch about it.

U should go watch the video by more plates more dates titled “how attractive do you have to be to get hit girls “ he touches on how most dudes are shut out by their lack of self worth towards dating a female.

honestly I say f that girl. If She couldn’t see u said u love her being drunk during sex, then her heads a little thick and she can’t put two and two together -that u were intoxicated. : she ain’t so special after all.
Women get hella reassurance through social media daily. Have u seen some of the unattractive chicks on social media? She gonna get 100 likes as long as she has friends and then her egos gonna run wild
U need to have some entitlement. At this day in age all dudes deserve these women. They ain’t nothin special man? Go ahead fuck one and see how u feel after LOL
It takes their looks to fade or some traumatic life shit to show them it’s not all about being a Barbie.

YOU ARE CHASING A MENTAL FEELING

THIS FEELING WOULDVE FADED AFTER THE HONEY MOON PERIOD IF YOU WERE DATING ANYWAYS

 

[Dead]

Leagues only exist in ones ego. The rational male talks about this in better terms than I can regurgitate. We've all made the mistake of putting the pussy on a pedestal. The best you can do is learn from your mistakes.

Love the start of this

 

[Dead]

Honestly I was like you.

then I ran my first tren cycle.

it was my first cycle

it lasted 6 months.

Anyways, during that time I became enraged that my sister didn’t care she cheated on her husband, I let it go a bit (tren brings all my problems back into my life that have gone away)

anyways big deal what really threw me off, hearing two chicks cheated on their boyfriends (one of which was his birthday) with one dude (my better friend who overdosed on fent- and sold that shit in xan pills to unknowing people) and I took that shit and fuckin snapped off with it.

Maybe this is immaturity speaking- but I been through a bit. What kinda fuckin man am I to put my loyalty faith and my happiness on a woman that could scrap all that with a single decision. I damn won’t do it in my 30s. Unless I find some girl real special. The type who went through shit young and has insight. These shallow hollow women don’t deserve the me that’s been through the shit I’ve been through.


I don’t search for love anymore. I feel I’m de-progressing when I catch a feeling.

I still find love, it comes from where the weights drop.

 

[Mdrock98]

U should go watch the video by more plates more dates titled “how attractive do you have to be to get hit girls “ he touches on how most dudes are shut out by their lack of self worth towards dating a female.

honestly I say f that girl. If She couldn’t see u said u love her being drunk during sex, then her heads a little thick and she can’t put two and two together -that u were intoxicated. : she ain’t so special after all.
Women get hella reassurance through social media daily. Have u seen some of the unattractive chicks on social media? She gonna get 100 likes as long as she has friends and then her egos gonna run wild
U need to have some entitlement. At this day in age all dudes deserve these women. They ain’t nothin special man? Go ahead fuck one and see how u feel after LOL
It takes their looks to fade or some traumatic life shit to show them it’s not all about being a Barbie.

YOU ARE CHASING A MENTAL FEELING

THIS FEELING WOULDVE FADED AFTER THE HONEY MOON PERIOD IF YOU WERE DATING ANYWAYS

Bro your right man, I don’t understand why she can see that it was a drunk night. Seriously. It’s true, they either have to have their looks to fade or some traumatic event to show them it’s not all about being a Barbie. It had me all fucked up, but I’m reading the rationale male and it’s liberating. How shallow can she be to not even talk about it after? She even came on strong herself telling me I’m her man and she wanted to go to a holloween bar crawl the next weekend. She got my head all big while I was drunk. Smh. Whatever man, at least I have a drawer full of gear..

 

[johntt44]

another one of lifes lessons is that when you fuckup, you're going to feel some pain, it's what prompts you to learn and grow. but i still the fuckup was getting drunk and fucking a slut bareback. Her being hot has nothing to do. with anything. Follow the advice they guys here are giving you, and you'll feel alot better, and score the hot chicks anytime you want

This is good advice right here.^ Theres so many women out there. I understand that she was hot but, hey, theres more like her out there. You'll be fine. Plus, if one hot chick fucked you that means there are others who'd want you, right?

 

[Mdrock98]

Honestly I was like you.

then I ran my first tren cycle.

it was my first cycle

it lasted 6 months.

Anyways, during that time I became enraged that my sister didn’t care she cheated on her husband, I let it go a bit (tren brings all my problems back into my life that have gone away)

anyways big deal what really threw me off, hearing two chicks cheated on their boyfriends (one of which was his birthday) with one dude (my better friend who overdosed on fent- and sold that shit in xan pills to unknowing people) and I took that shit and fuckin snapped off with it.

Maybe this is immaturity speaking- but I been through a bit. What kinda fuckin man am I to put my loyalty faith and my happiness on a woman that could scrap all that with a single decision. I damn won’t do it in my 30s. Unless I find some girl real special. The type who went through shit young and has insight. These shallow hollow women don’t deserve the me that’s been through the shit I’ve been through.


I don’t search for love anymore. I feel I’m de-progressing when I catch a feeling.

I still find love, it comes from where the weights drop.

Wow. That is all the way fucked up
On what your talking about man. Unbelievable. How can good dudes like us win? Or is it all a fucking bullshit game anymore. Even when the honeymoon period expires, I still value and appreciate my women I’m starting to believe true love is the weight room too.

 

[Dead]

Wow. That is all the way fucked up
On what your talking about man. Unbelievable. How can good dudes like us win? Or is it all a fucking bullshit game anymore. Even when the honeymoon period expires, I still value and appreciate my women I’m starting to believe true love is the weight room too.

I mean just don’t be a “good dude” simple?

good dude in my case meant I was being a bitch n putting women higher than they deserve

don’t value and appreciate women. They are humans just like u and they shit and sleep

 

[Dead]

Wow. That is all the way fucked up
On what your talking about man. Unbelievable. How can good dudes like us win? Or is it all a fucking bullshit game anymore. Even when the honeymoon period expires, I still value and appreciate my women I’m starting to believe true love is the weight room too.

Oh and by the way the point I was making with that post was fuck them n move on.

 

[Mdrock98]

Oh and by the way the point I was making with that post was fuck them n move on.

Yeah I know. It’s crazy because a lot of women anymore seems to expect men to worship them. Fuck all that

 

[Sdryx]

People stressing over women’s looks...

The only thing OP mentioned is her looks. Nothing else... Well I mean what else would you have to go off of after one drunken night... And being upset over a girl because she was “hot” is some naive and shortsighted shit I must admit.

I was young and inexperienced once too and can see where you are all coming from though. However, after sleeping with many women, a bunch of whom were “hot,” it starts to lose its power over the inexperienced male.

Trust me, looks matter, but only enough that you are attracted to someone. Other shit matters WAAAAY more than looks AND can be just as attractive.

Ever make a baby with a piece of shit magazine swimsuit model??? You know, the hottest of the hottest that men all over are jerking off to? I did and it was the worst mistake of my life. Her and I lived together and my time I gave to that girl I would do anything to take back. She was “hot” and more importantly, completely worthless... much like the girl that you cry about here OP. Our son is turning 11 tomorrow and he hasn’t seen or heard from her in many, many years...

Then one time I dated this completely average looking girl... just because I was bored and wanted a date so I could practice my game for the “hot” chicks. Well, this completely average looking girl ended up having one of the most sincere, loving, caring, fun and downright sweetest personalities of any girl I have ever met before and I fell madly in love with her. This girl... my practice girl... filled my entire life with love, wild fulfilling sex, endless fun and adventures. I was attracted to this girl more than any other girl I had been with before. After a year my son started calling her “Mom.”

When you date many more women and gain experience you will learn to value more than the looks lottery. They didn’t do anything to create those looks. It was given to them... unlike a winning personality and strong morals.

And for those saying all women are cheats... I just shrug to that. That’s the equivalent of women saying all men are dogs. Short sighted and shows that you don’t put the same amount of effort into finding someone as you do in the gym. A prize woman is something that is rare and must be searched for through time and diligence through dating many, many women. You see, I went through this girl’s phone once just to see a years worth of her getting texts from men from her past that she denied over and over again, saying that she was with me. I felt like shit for sneaking through her phone only to realize that she was even more respectful than I could have imagined...

Finding a mate is hard WORK, but people, especially young people, treat women as if they are a drug; to binge upon their looks. There lies the error.

 

[Mdrock98]

People stressing over women’s looks...

The only thing OP mentioned is her looks. Nothing else... Well I mean what else would you have to go off of after one drunken night... And being upset over a girl because she was “hot” is some naive and shortsighted shit I must admit.

I was young and inexperienced once too and can see where you are all coming from though. However, after sleeping with many women, a bunch of whom were “hot,” it starts to lose its power over the inexperienced male.

Trust me, looks matter, but only enough that you are attracted to someone. Other shit matters WAAAAY more than looks AND can be just as attractive.

Ever make a baby with a piece of shit magazine swimsuit model??? You know, the hottest of the hottest that men all over are jerking off to? I did and it was the worst mistake of my life. Her and I lived together and my time I gave to that girl I would do anything to take back. She was “hot” and more importantly, completely worthless... much like the girl that you cry about here OP. Our son is turning 11 tomorrow and he hasn’t seen or heard from her in many, many years...

Then one time I dated this completely average looking girl... just because I was bored and wanted a date so I could practice my game for the “hot” chicks. Well, this completely average looking girl ended up having one of the most sincere, loving, caring, fun and downright sweetest personalities of any girl I have ever met before and I fell madly in love with her. This girl... my practice girl... filled my entire life with love, wild fulfilling sex, endless fun and adventures. I was attracted to this girl more than any other girl I had been with before. After a year my son started calling her “Mom.”

When you date many more women and gain experience you will learn to value more than the looks lottery. They didn’t do anything to create those looks. It was given to them... unlike a winning personality and strong morals.

And for those saying all women are cheats... I just shrug to that. That’s the equivalent of women saying all men are dogs. Short sighted and shows that you don’t put the same amount of effort into finding someone as you do in the gym. A prize woman is something that is rare and must be searched for through time and diligence through dating many, many women. You see, I went through this girl’s phone once just to see a years worth of her getting texts from men from her past that she denied over and over again, saying that she was with me. I felt like shit for sneaking through her phone only to realize that she was even more respectful than I could have imagined...

Finding a mate is hard WORK, but people, especially young people, treat women as if they are a drug; to binge upon their looks. There lies the error.

I can understand where you are coming from, and totally agree. I know it was one night, but we talked how we shared the same faith, (Catholicism), she liked to run, I used to run for boxing, so I visioned us running together, she liked to play hoops, and I used to hoop in high-school. Everything added up, besides the fact that she smoked weed, I’m not a fan due to personal experiences.. I had stars in my eyes man... [emoji57][emoji53]

 

[Jankauskas]

You lack experience is all my man. There’s nothing wrong with you. Keep up with Bumble, you will find the best girls there. Also, OKcupid app is good too. Lots of hoes in Tinder. Careful...

I’ve been there. Confusing sex with emotions... you were just another dick for her. She likely would not have even saw you again even if you didn’t fuck up like you did. I mean, she lets dudes she just met cum inside of her hours within meeting her. You aren’t the first and surely you won’t be the last. She’s probably being banged out raw by some guy already. It’s not unusual at all man.

Get more experience and after you bang out a dozen hoes in a year you will start to appreciate things other than sex which really is the only thing you saw in this girl. You only knew her a couple hours. She’s a stranger bro. You will eventually begin to appreciate things like who the girl really is... you know, her personality and shit and how she cares for you and supports you and listens to you about things like what you really desire sexually.
Don’t feel bad man. You learned a lot in a single night. Enjoy the journey... sounds like you are looking for something special. Don’t give up and you will find it with the right person.

I honestly don’t know how you people find dates with online dating apps.

I have spend dozens of hours in pretty much all dating apps known to mankind and I haven’t had a single fucking date.

What I have found is that most online dating apps profiles are sex workers (camgirls, escorts, whatever), flatout fake (maybe for catfishing purposes), hot girls that are there just for ego boosting with no intention of dating whatsoever, and the only real profiles looking to date there, are those of unattractive women.

I have matched with a few smoking hot girls in there, but then when I talked to them, one of 2 things happened:

Either we have a conversation and then I asked them out and they said yes, but after that they stop replying (probably the above mentioned girls that are there just to get an ego boost from knowing other guys find them attractive to the point of going out with them) or they just flat out never respond or say a word and just stay matched for whatever reason (maybe to show their female friends.

I have heard plenty people with great stories about dating apps in the past, but in my experience dating in the present they are all terrible and a waste of time.

I had much better success dating (or just getting some action) in real life than on dating apps/websites.

 

[johntt44]

I honestly don’t know how you people find dates with online dating apps.

I have spend dozens of hours in pretty much all dating apps known to mankind and I haven’t had a single fucking date.

What I have found is that most online dating apps profiles are sex workers (camgirls, escorts, whatever), flatout fake (maybe for catfishing purposes), hot girls that are there just for ego boosting with no intention of dating whatsoever, and the only real profiles looking to date there, are those of unattractive women.

I have matched with a few smoking hot girls in there, but then when I talked to them, one of 2 things happened:

Either we have a conversation and then I asked them out and they said yes, but after that they stop replying (probably the above mentioned girls that are there just to get an ego boost from knowing other guys find them attractive to the point of going out with them) or they just flat out never respond or say a word and just stay matched for whatever reason (maybe to show their female friends.

I have heard plenty people with great stories about dating apps in the past, but in my experience dating in the present they are all terrible and a waste of time.

I had much better success dating (or just getting some action) in real life than on dating apps/websites.

Yeah, face to face is the best. If somebody's a hooker, fat, ugly, stupid, or an ahole you can figure it out in 10mins. This goes for men and women just to be fair.