Has nothing to do with that man, she is overweight as of now, but the advice I was searching for and what you were offering are completely different. It was the "Drugz" comment, last time I checked we were on an AAS forum. SO is still a smoke show, unfortunately went through a bout of depression due to some of our life circumstances and I'm using my expertise as much as I can to help her.
Training and diet were never a part of my original question - and while I'm sure many here could use that advice, it's something I'm well versed in.