Hayes88
Member
Hi guys,
I am surprised how much I weep at the moment and today I almost passed out from hyper-ventilating, this is unusual for me and I can't seem to control it.
The last 2 years has been horrible, everything has been going sideways, but there is one issue that now crashes me - my love is in prison.
I made a thread a while back that a loved one was having legal problems, but I didn't mention it was my to be wife. During covid she was used and naive, did a crime without intent, and now 1.5 years later court wants her punished.
We thought this would blow over and I planned to fight my azoospermia so we could have kids. I was also going to propose November.
- Now Tuesday court said she gets 5 years on two accounts, and if she pleads guilty she gets 2.5 years (no other plea bargain possible) as a deal to speed things up.
- Lawyers says we have a strong case and can fight, if we win she goes free. However if she looses she risk 10 years! Which is crazy...
- Judge stated for her sake she should plead guilty, according to him it's better for her. They have not yet shown us their hand (proof).
I am in Thailand so everything is corrupt, and I cannot pay myself out of this. To make it worse, she needs to make a decision before 30th, and on top of that I am not allowed to see or talk to her before after the decision, so she needs to make it alone.
I might get to see the proof tomorrow, but when lawyers says "We have a strong case and might win, it's clear she's innocent to us, but there are no guarantees and if we choose to fight and loose she might get max sentence". Our proof is based on likelyhood, nothing concrete. Word against word.
Adding maybe win and maybe 10 years in the same sentence is crazy scary. So it almost forces her to plead for crimes she hasn't commited. Here "should have known" is legally binding and seen as intent, even if she didn't know.
I can't protect my future wife and no idea what to do besides holding my breath, and that is killing me inside with all that's happening around.
All forums regarding this is for women, anyone gone through similar?
I am surprised how much I weep at the moment and today I almost passed out from hyper-ventilating, this is unusual for me and I can't seem to control it.
The last 2 years has been horrible, everything has been going sideways, but there is one issue that now crashes me - my love is in prison.
I made a thread a while back that a loved one was having legal problems, but I didn't mention it was my to be wife. During covid she was used and naive, did a crime without intent, and now 1.5 years later court wants her punished.
We thought this would blow over and I planned to fight my azoospermia so we could have kids. I was also going to propose November.
- Now Tuesday court said she gets 5 years on two accounts, and if she pleads guilty she gets 2.5 years (no other plea bargain possible) as a deal to speed things up.
- Lawyers says we have a strong case and can fight, if we win she goes free. However if she looses she risk 10 years! Which is crazy...
- Judge stated for her sake she should plead guilty, according to him it's better for her. They have not yet shown us their hand (proof).
I am in Thailand so everything is corrupt, and I cannot pay myself out of this. To make it worse, she needs to make a decision before 30th, and on top of that I am not allowed to see or talk to her before after the decision, so she needs to make it alone.
I might get to see the proof tomorrow, but when lawyers says "We have a strong case and might win, it's clear she's innocent to us, but there are no guarantees and if we choose to fight and loose she might get max sentence". Our proof is based on likelyhood, nothing concrete. Word against word.
Adding maybe win and maybe 10 years in the same sentence is crazy scary. So it almost forces her to plead for crimes she hasn't commited. Here "should have known" is legally binding and seen as intent, even if she didn't know.
I can't protect my future wife and no idea what to do besides holding my breath, and that is killing me inside with all that's happening around.
All forums regarding this is for women, anyone gone through similar?