peytonpaw said:
How do you get someone to at least try it......I should have forced the issue when we were dating, but I thought I would have plenty of time to get to it....Now I just don't give a damn
Most of the girls Ive dated have eventually been up for it, if they like you a load, i find women will try pretty much anything. The girls I haven't done anal with were both prudes and girls i wasn't very close to.
Best thing to do is ask, say how much it would mean. Ive had girls say maybe.. then a few weeks later we are watching some porn with a DP etc and theyve said lets try anal.
As to what to do physically - Ive found women vary alot in the different sensitivities of various things. EG my ex HATED anal, but came like crazy if you tossed her salad, far more than the usual clit thing. Then you get girls who love a pinky finger then a thumb in their butt right from the go, others only like it whilst ur screwing doggy style.
Then the actual butt sex - half the girls Ive known need to rub their clits to come, others like my current GF come easily from just butt fucking them.
Fingers are rough, so if she is willing to try things a very slim butt plug as thin as a finger is a good idea for first time u put something up there, most girls get off on how submissive it is them being bent over and you pushing a dildo into their ass!
The fucking,go ver slow, get the head in, stop, wait 20 seconds or so for her ass to relax then slowly put the rest in. once ur in all the way, slow very small grinding thrusts are best to start off with, then as they get more turned on you can pump them harder and faster.
