"Open" Relationships

[NEU]

I'm bored and don't feel like writing my thesis so I thought I'd post this.

If you were in a long distance relationship (2 hours away) going on for say over a year, seeing each other few times a month and your girlfriend told you that she HONESTLY did not have a problem with you being with another girl as long as it wasn't an every day thing, because she knew regardless you still wanted to be with her and she was the one u wanted to be with as soon as you could organize living in the same area.... Would you:

1. Say hell yeah and go bang girls, stick with her, and if she happens to hook up with a guy and honestly tells you, be ok with it

2. Think she really doesn't care about you and drop her.

3. Tell her your not comfortable with an "open" relationship and its either only be with each or ending the relationship

Girl is a dime, 21 years old, 5'7", 110-115lbs, crazy in bed, occasional anal (just started recently), soon to be certified massage therapist **I'd toss a pic up, but don't have digitals right now**

 

[superman15]

option #3 is best. Because if you are going to get used to getting with other girls while going out with her, then it will be alot easier for you to cheat on her once yall do live in a closer location together. Plus i know she wouldnt be completely ok with you doing that, and i dont think you would agree with her going off and bangin other guys.

 

[NEU]

I don't know if you believe in the astrology and horoscope shit, however she is into it a little bit. She is a gemini and when I read the gemini profile, I almost shit my pants, because it was her to a t. Specifically, free spirit, needs space, and difficulty showing true emotions. Women are confusing as hell. Im aries, i read my shit and it was scary how true it was.
Even if you don't care check out yourself if you want to see if its true, for curiosity sake I guess
http://www.astro.com/cgi/aclch.cgi?btyp=syn&lang=e

 

[Bob Smith]

First, she's lying.

Second, if she suggested the open relationship, then shes already banging someone else.

Third, say that you arent interested in an open relationship.

 

[Phreezer]

Bro, in the subtle way that women speak..she is trying to tell you that there is someone she is interested in, and that a (at this time) open casual relationship is what she's looking for... I don't think I needed to tell you any of this.. you knew it allready or you wouldn't have posted this.. and it's obviously not something you want.. or you wouldn't have even thought up other options.. Sounds like you want to be with her and you want her to want to be with you (exclusivly)...but you're afraid that won't happen..

I could be wrong..Lord knows, I've had my fair share of being wrong lately... but I wish you luck either way!

 

[grisb81]

my thoughts exactly! she is trying to hint around to you that she has someone else that she is either srewing or seeing. My guess is that she still has feelings for you and doesn't want to just let you go just yet, but at the same time is starting to grow feelings toward this signigicant other. TYPICAL FEMALE

If I were you I would take up on her advice and have "open relationships" and when you see her sparingly have your crazy fourplay and get you a massage. GET THE BEST OUT OF BOTH WORLDS

 

[NEU]

The worst part about this is that you spend time tryin to build something and keep it going anticipating that you will get together soon and then something comes and fucks it up. All it takes is one goddamn guy that peaks her curiosity.
What am I thinking anyway having a relastionship when I am a senior in college, 21 yrs old and have hundreds of freshmen girls @ my disposal. I guess it takes a reality check sometimes to know sense into you.

 

[finafreak]

The worst part about this is that you spend time tryin to build something and keep it going anticipating that you will get together soon and then something comes and fucks it up. All it takes is one goddamn guy that peaks her curiosity.
What am I thinking anyway having a relastionship when I am a senior in college, 21 yrs old and have hundreds of freshmen girls @ my disposal. I guess it takes a reality check sometimes to know sense into you.

Sorry to hear that bro,.But don't get bitter over it,..Theres a ton of young tenders waiting to be trained.

But yeah she's telling you she's fucking someone else.


finafreak

 

[Grizzly]

21!?!? Jesus Christ, my man! Ok, so when I was 21, I thought a relationship was cute, too, but for fuck sake, bro, FUCK THAT STUPID BITCH. End of story. You absolutely SHOULD NOT be having any kids for atleast 7 years. So, what's the point of keeping some slut arond?

 

[shredalean]

21!?!? Jesus Christ, my man! Ok, so when I was 21, I thought a relationship was cute, too, but for fuck sake, bro, FUCK THAT STUPID BITCH. End of story. You absolutely SHOULD NOT be having any kids for atleast 7 years. So, what's the point of keeping some slut arond?

Lol!!! Take it from the older more experienced bros! She's fuckin other guys! get your ass out there and do the same (I don't mean fuck other guys though, OK?). Never cry over a chik just go out and find another one! It's easy as 1,2,3. I broke up with a girl I thought I liked 2 months ago and have been getting more game in the last two months from various broads than I know what to do with! They can smell it on you man.

She's just into anal recently? Another guy probably turned her onto the idea!

 

[BigDrip]

I agree with shredalean You need to move on bro. She just doesn't want to come out and tell you straight up that she's ready to move on. That's her way of telling you to move on bro.

Bang 'em all.

 

[pgjy]

First, she's lying.

Second, if she suggested the open relationship, then shes already banging someone else.

Third, say that you arent interested in an open relationship.

DITTO...

 

[MANWHORE]

21!?!? Jesus Christ, my man! Ok, so when I was 21, I thought a relationship was cute, too, but for fuck sake, bro, FUCK THAT STUPID BITCH. End of story. You absolutely SHOULD NOT be having any kids for atleast 7 years. So, what's the point of keeping some slut arond?

Although,i would have said it a little different,i agree .... She may not have someone else. Some girls just want to hear that you don't want to see other girls,which is why she told you it's ok(she wanted to hear what you had to say),but,if you get the chance,i think you should see other girls. I 1st went with my wife when i was 18,we went on our seperate ways,and got back together 8yrs later,and then 7 years after,we were married..... I think this board is getting a little soft,with all the relationship talk going around. Man,i hope no one from another board comes by and sees this shit

 

[MANWHORE]

I agree with shredalean You need to move on bro. She just doesn't want to come out and tell you straight up that she's ready to move on. That's her way of telling you to move on bro.

Bang 'em all.

It's funny how everyone interprets that in a different way. Not for once,did i think she was messing around,by what he said. I guess it all depends on individual experience

 

[NEU]

I think this board is getting a little soft,with all the relationship talk going around. Man,i hope no one from another board comes by and sees this shit

Ya, I would have never posted this shit if I hadn't seen it done more than once, but then again you can get honest, more impartial opinions here also.
I think I'm droppin her today, & telling her if she's ever in my area giv me a call and I can stick my cock in her ass.
Peace

 

[thick]

Honestly I would not dump her. Hook up with her a few times a month and have her there if you hit a dry spell in college. Just know that the relationship is not going to go anywhere. If she it that hot and good than keep fucking her. Seems like she is fine with that

Ya, I would have never posted this shit if I hadn't seen it done more than once, but then again you can get honest, more impartial opinions here also.
I think I'm droppin her today, & telling her if she's ever in my area giv me a call and I can stick my cock in her ass.
Peace

 

[Mark Kerr]

One of two things are happening here:

1) She is seeing or wants to see some other guy. This is what I think is happening.

2) She is baiting you. She wants to see what you would say. If you say "I want an open relationship," then she is going to think that YOU are seeing or want to see some other girl.

Either way, if you want to be with this girl, say you want an exclusive relationship. If you really dont care to be with this girl anymore, then just break it off and keep a casual friendship with her.

Listen, I am only a few years older than you and I graduated college last year. Let me tell you, YOU DONT WANT TO BE BARKING UP THE SLUT TREE IN COLLEGE. If you want a slut, just screw them and get the hell out. Do not try to have a relationship with a slut, because it will only lead to heartbreak.

P.S. Your first mistake was trusting a woman in a long distance relationship. I would rather shower naked with Clay Aiken.

P.S.S. Listen to Grizzly and thick...they are wise beyond their years...

 

[MANWHORE]

Honestly I would not dump her. Hook up with her a few times a month and have her there if you hit a dry spell in college. Just know that the relationship is not going to go anywhere. If she it that hot and good than keep fucking her. Seems like she is fine with that

Yes,that's what i would do

 

[esco]

"open" relationship doesn't really exist imho. you're either in a relationship or you're not. open relationship pretty much is just dating or friends with priveleges. just my .02

 

[kwik98gt]

First, she's lying.

Second, if she suggested the open relationship, then shes already banging someone else.

Third, say that you arent interested in an open relationship.

YUP!