I hear ya. I train at a place were the cities pro Cheerleaders train.....and they are pretty much the average there. Motivates me to keep my diet in check...except for the chocolate I just ate. My wife says I have a "staring problem" to which I responded "thats why God Gave my eyes and a neck."
What I do now is completely ignore them, like some self centered arrogant prick bodybuilder who only cares about his training....actually, that is me.
Women are like cats, walk away and they might pursue, come up w/ some line and they will step away (well, except for my "jealous girlfriend line")
Also a properly designed neg hit (but be very careful these can back fire if not done right) can do wonders.
One of the most adorable gals walked by me the other day and I looked at her and said "you are over-training." Then I walked away. She came after me and said "what do you mean, over-training?: I asked her about her workout, blah blah blah, and then gave her a pos hit, saying "you have a really nice figure but take a day off or 2." We started talking, told her about grad school in NY and then my patented "I came to Texas and found that women here actually cook line (to long to explain here). And she said "I love to cook for my man." I then ended the convo saying that she was going to make some man very happy someday.
I then went into the martial arts room...and I couldn't believe it, but she came in and started doing stretches right in front of me, I mean her tight/perfect rear was pointing directly at me for nearly 20 minutes. Of course I am not going to cheat on my wife, but I couldn't believe that such a young (26) hot thing would even give me the time of day, let alone a view of her perfect derriere.