i am sorry to read about this situation - it is very familiar to me.
i have suffered panic disorder/anxiety/depression for 15 years and in that time i have tried many different SSRI/SNRI type medications, including: sertraline, venlafexine, desvenlafexine, vortioxetine, quetiapine (this is a fucking disgusting drug), agomelatine and duloxetine.
The last of these has proven to me to be the best in terms of minimising sexual disfunction. IMPORTANT: in all cases the sexual side effects seemed to get better (not much, but noticeably) after a couple of months. I now take cialis daily at about 10mg and it helps me alot.
i have never tried PT141 but intend to. I think masteron and anavar are both wonderful for people on SSRI/SNRI meds. add them into the mix of things to consider too.
Brother - never stop SNRI/SSRI meds without a plan and a doctor who is available to prescribe you things like valium/xanax - that is my advice. Certainly in my case, you can stop and suddenly find yourself in a fight for your life, where your opponent is the person staring back at you in the mirror.
wishing you the best of luck man
bear in mind that if you dont get another chance with this hot bitch, there are beautiful wh0res all around the world and all you need to do is hand them over some paper and fkn bang