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Hey gents,

I'm going on a cruise for a Bachelor party in a few weeks for one of my fraternity brothers. I don't think it's gay. I think going out with the gang is the farthest thing from being gay. Now if I were to put on in the butt of one of my friends then we might have to re-open the discussions.

However don't worry my friends. I plan on tearing up he high sea with a couple of ho's while on this cruise.

Have a nice day
K-
 
Thanks KTCK&brooklyn&buffpants

Thanks for the kind words. I never claimed to be a playa or pimp. I came on here and fessed up to my brutha's in iron. I didn't want to talk to some dickhead. I thought guys who lift weights like I do would understand. Then again I guess not.
 
plmuscle said:
I tried to dump one broad last night but the bitch called my cell phone crying.
She complains that I have a wife. I told the female if I can't be the only man you fuck then I don't want you, this dumb broad fell for it.I wish females were this easy when I was in college.

statements like this dont really convey much remorse bro!!

the bad thing is you use yourself esteem issues to basically fuck over on 3 or 4 other people....but like you said it does feel good when you know a lot of chicks dig you.....and its very easy to slip into something like this as we are all selfish and self centered....i dont know if telling the wife is the best thing to do, but you definitely need to stop seeing the other chicks, i doubt you will though, just by the tone of your post.....good luck though and try to learn from these mistakes so that you dont have to repeat them.
 
Just because it feels good, doesnt make it the right thing to do... The question is,, do you love your wife? I think the answer is obvious,, but if you do,, then cut her loose so she can heal and move on to something that will be much brighter and better... People say "you only live once" which is true,,,, BUT IT IS TRUE FOR HER ASWELL, you are robbing her of more than you could ever imagine.... If you have issues,, thats understandable, we all do,,, but there is nothing admirable about what you are doing, and if you are "hurting on the inside" for fucking around on the woman whom YOU promised to honor when you put a ring her finger,, then do as you said, and if you are not capable,,, then be a man and tell her you are uncapable of fullfilling the vows that you made to her. good luck
 
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plmuscle said:
Thanks KTCK&brooklyn&buffpants

Thanks for the kind words. I never claimed to be a playa or pimp. I came on here and fessed up to my brutha's in iron. I didn't want to talk to some dickhead. I thought guys who lift weights like I do would understand. Then again I guess not.
We understand the attention imposed by women when we are bigger and/or leaner than the other 99% of the population. We also understand that marriage is a bond between two people that is meant to be sacred and honored, not thrown away so that one person can feed their ego in a meager attempt at boosting their self-esteem. We understand the physical aspect of what you are talking about.

I would also say that a large percentage of us are good upstanding members of our communities. We want to provide for our families, improve our own little world, and do be the best we can be. For most of the guys that are married, they have stated how important that connection is with their wife. They dont take that lightly. Others of us are in long term committed relationships that are moving towards marriage. We arent married yet, but we still hold to those ideals of honoring our girl. Sleeping with a bunch of other chicks is not honoring a gf/wife, nor is it in any way beneficial to one's relationship.

IMO, your marriage is doomed and stands a small chance of survival. I would highly recommend that you seek out the school psychologist wherever you are and talk this over with a professional. Dump the other chicks immediately and cease all contact with them. Hopefully you didnt give them your home phone number or address. i would also suggest withdrawing from your fraternity and finding somewhere else to get a positive influence.
 
plmuscle said:
rambo,

You are completely right, my wife does look better than all these women, hands down. She has a better body. I feel like I'm trapped or something, this cheating stuff makes me feel good. I have been working out for 9 years and I grew up being told I was fat and ugly. Now it seems like alot of females flock to me. It also doesn't help that I'm in a fraternity.

I have a good wife. She cooks all my meals, washes my clothes, cleans the house, goes to college full-time, and she works a full-time job(I told her she doesn't need to work over 20 hours a week but she insists).

I'm not trying to sound like an asshole or a pimp. I posted this because I'm hurting on the inside and I needed to get it off my chest. I refuse to talk to the people around me because I know what they will say. Her grandfather paid for the last 2 years of college for me, he put in a good word for me at my job(basically that's why I was hired).

bro you aint post cause you are hirting dont try to hop the wagon now you came on the first post tryin to sound all bad ass that you are banging these 2 college chicks that give such good head dont soud like you are hirtin to me more like you just want some immature dude here to tell you, that you are the man thats proly what your frat buddies do and shit huh whoever said you are insecure is right thats proly why you felt you need a frat for acceptance as well now you need to cheat to make your self accepet yourself truly maybe because you were called fat and ugly before or maybe cause you are just an asshole who knows
 
if your women is as good as you say then you do not deserve her and your marrige is already begun to end you are gonna relise what you have right before you loose it buddy and you will never be able to do anything about it. then you are gonna really understand your actions bro
 
quedog123 said:
bro you aint post cause you are hirting dont try to hop the wagon now you came on the first post tryin to sound all bad ass that you are banging these 2 college chicks that give such good head dont soud like you are hirtin to me more like you just want some immature dude here to tell you, that you are the man thats proly what your frat buddies do and shit huh whoever said you are insecure is right thats proly why you felt you need a frat for acceptance as well now you need to cheat to make your self accepet yourself truly maybe because you were called fat and ugly before or maybe cause you are just an asshole who knows
Dude, try this... www.webgrammar.com
 
crewboss said:
ummmmmm dude......you just tried to preach virtuosity in a 300 word sentance in semi-ebonics.
And only one punctuation mark, which is a comma placed about 200 words in.
 
quedog123 said:
lol fuck you guys. wow i was kind off heated i just looked back over it and it is pretty bad lol. Screw it im not even going to edit it ill keep it there so people can make fun of me. Oh well ill try to work on that.

This is probably a bad habit i should break i get the idea. ok this guy is messing around on his wife but ill take the bashing on this post cause of my grammer hmm. whatever. I guess i deserve it for flaming this guy pretty hard. Probably should have shown a little more empathy but it is hard to for this fellow from his statments.
 
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I am shocked at the betrayal of what sounds like a truely wonderfull woman..and the outright fucking nerve you have to assume that we are all a bunch of womanizing guidos or something that are gonna pat you on the back and say its ok.

This womans family gave you a job and payed for your education and you come on here talking about nutting in some chicks mouth.

I really hope she doesnt find out because there is no reason to hurt her just so you can feel better however, make a decision now and stick to it. She deserves better.

Grow up.
 
quedog, you are absolutley right this guy has a wee bit of growing up to do I don't know why anyone would want to be hundreds of dollars just to feel accepted. All this does it spell one thing which has been mentioned a thousand times INSECURITY. These silly faggots pay all this money just to get pussy. I am not sure about you guys, I go to college, and if I had to pay all that money for pussy I would go to Vegas and get me a top of the line hooker.
 
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