sometimes i think i went too far

niko

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i'm talking about being so big that it's a turn-off to girls. there are some huge members here, but i'm not. i'm 25, 5'9", 215, 9%B.F. i look like i take steroids, of course i have. i done it for 3 years now, maybe because i was a fat child. i trained like a freak since I was 17, and I was a model when i was 19 and 20. no, i'm not a fag, but go ahead and have some fun. i started saucing, thinking it would get me girls. girls take one look at me and think i'm a shallow, slutty (well, sluttys true at least), stuck-up, pretencious muscle head that values nothing over his body. my body isn't the center of my life, it's just a hobby. i never ever talk to girls about my eating, training, or drug use. i know it's tacky. it's too bad i'm really hooked. i haven't been of for 8 or 9 months. i run deca and winny together w/out test once in a while, but now i'm on 4 drugs. it seems to me i'm always the guy girls want to fuck on vacation, never the guy that girls want to get to know. niko
 
niko said:
it seems to me i'm always the guy girls want to fuck on vacation, never the guy that girls want to get to know. niko

I guess that is a good and bad thing depending on what you are after. But think of it this way, if a girl is not wanting to get to know you just because you are muscular, she's not worth your time.
 
do any of you guys feel that being big (outside of the gym) hurts your social life? i know the people i'm talking about aren't worth my time, but i like to be liked by everyone. damn, i'm a hippy. well slap my ass and call me sunshine!
 
Honestly, it helps mine immensely. Between being 285lbs and a professional fighter, people love to associate with me. I don't pay for cups at parties, I can walk down the street and get invited to a party, everyone knows who I am, etc. It also helps that I'm a cool guy, but many people wouldn't know that if they weren't intrigued by my exterior.

Sometimes I wish it was the opposite because I don't really like having to talk to everybody all the time. It's especially bad at bars and parties because there's always the one or two drunk guys who want to spend 30 minutes talking about how big I am and how they want to be like that and how do they do it, etc.
 
niko said:
do any of you guys feel that being big (outside of the gym) hurts your social life? i know the people i'm talking about aren't worth my time, but i like to be liked by everyone. damn, i'm a hippy. well slap my ass and call me sunshine!

Hey man when you figure women out you let me know.
alot of women like big guys and those are your girls. The ones that like out of shape or skinny guys probably want to control you anyway. Or they want your $ if you got any.
 
how old are you grizz, and i just kinda bashed your post about the coke. no offense to 285lbs. guys always want to talk to me. fuck them, i've got enough friends. maybe the girls are intimidated by the way i dress AND the way i look. i sound like a snob, please don't think i'm bragging, but i like to look good. this girl i work with shops for me. i like vintage stuff. i have about 15 vintage leather coats, each was less than 25 bucks. damn i sound queer. you get the point. niko
 
it seems to me i'm always the guy girls want to fuck on vacation, never the guy that girls want to get to know. niko

so go on vacation more often :) .

but seriously...if they cant get past the way you look, fuck 'em...they arent worth the time.

have a nice day
 
Fuck Niko, you better lay off the Clomid brother you are wayyyyyyyyy too sensitive. Go bang the vacationing chicks until the one for you comes along..... If thats no good, call me and I'll play the stunt cock for ya....
I have had the thought that when I look in the mirror at the gym my head is too small......... Does that count???
 
big rob said:
Fuck Niko, you better lay off the Clomid brother you are wayyyyyyyyy too sensitive. Go bang the vacationing chicks until the one for you comes along..... If thats no good, call me and I'll play the stunt cock for ya....
I have had the thought that when I look in the mirror at the gym my head is too small......... Does that count???


Well said, Big Rob...
 
Grizz, knowing how big you are, I would think that you'd intimidate a lot of people. Being 6'3 or 6'4 at 285 is no small feat (and those damn monstrous traps of yours).

Niko, chicks really think that 215 at 9% is huge? :confused: Maybe if a guy is 5' 5.

A bunch of us had this discussion back on the old board. Basically it came down to if a guy is 230+ and fairly low bodyfat levels, the only chicks that are normally interested in them are strippers, porn stars, and all around skanks. Most of us wouldnt consider 230 and 8-10% huge by any means, but normal chicks tend to disagree. Ask around at school or work or wherever, you will find that the majority of chicks would rather date a guy thats 185 pounds and 8% that looks like a sissy little wunway model as opposed to someone 225 and 8%.
 
Damn Mike it's good to see you out playin with the boys...... It seems that most of the other people on the board don't respond to me...... Oh well, I guess thats what happens when you are a newbie...... HAH THAT WAS SOME FUNNY SHIT.........

Bob, what's wrong with strippers and porn stars???? I happen to know and bang quite a few and they are really fuckin cool....... The strippers make a lot of cash......
 
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Bob Smith said:
Grizz, knowing how big you are, I would think that you'd intimidate a lot of people. Being 6'3 or 6'4 at 285 is no small feat (and those damn monstrous traps of yours).

Niko, chicks really think that 215 at 9% is huge? :confused: Maybe if a guy is 5' 5.

A bunch of us had this discussion back on the old board. Basically it came down to if a guy is 230+ and fairly low bodyfat levels, the only chicks that are normally interested in them are strippers, porn stars, and all around skanks. Most of us wouldnt consider 230 and 8-10% huge by any means, but normal chicks tend to disagree. Ask around at school or work or wherever, you will find that the majority of chicks would rather date a guy thats 185 pounds and 8% that looks like a sissy little wunway model as opposed to someone 225 and 8%.

I'd agree with the 230 comment and what that attracts. I think being large - to the average person anyway, attracts women who like to be treated like sluts, in other words they like "a bit of rough"

You do get the posh chicks however who want to slum it with some rough sex. Either way I think it comes down to something I read that women choose high testosterone guys to fuck and moderate test guys to date.

At the end of the day I think it's just extremes that put some people off, 185 model type look is bang in the middle, in shape

I also think Grizzly as you are tall it's a huge advantage. based on looks i think girls go for height, then looks then physique
 
You guys are stereotyping the shit outta women. Does that mean that anyone who is that large is married to a skank/slut/stripper etc?????? If you are only getting a certain "class" of woman and want a change...... Start fishing in a different lake. Clothes/accesories/jewlry etc... Whatever it takes but NEVER stop working out.
 
i think when it comes down to it....people judge you on your personality....in fact i like being muscular because it attracts people to me at first (at least out of curiosity)..and then when they get around to having a conversation with me they see that theres more to me than my looks...in fact im fucking hilarious!

all i can say about the negative attention is ..if you dont like it wear baggier clothes..but if you have the personality to go along with it, it shouldnt be a problem at all..and the people who dont even wanna get to know you because they assume youre a 'musclehead' arent worth you time anyway...so fuck em

ren
 
Bob Smith said:
Grizz, knowing how big you are, I would think that you'd intimidate a lot of people. Being 6'3 or 6'4 at 285 is no small feat (and those damn monstrous traps of yours).

I do intimidate a lot of people, especially tiny little girls, but I'm pretty goofy so they get over it. Every time I go to a fight, my "peeps" tell me not to talk to the opponent so that he won't think I'm a goofball and he'll still be scared. :)

Niko- The age is 25. I'll have to go see about the post you're referring to, then I'll decide if I like you or not. ;)
 
Grizz, I would really like to see a picture of you. You sound fucking huge bro!!!
(Not ment in any gay way)
 
I had some up on old meso before and I've lost the disk with those pictures on it. There's a couple on the internet, but they're in the wrong format for me to be able to post them here. Plus, they're just action shots from one of my fights.

Compared to national level competitors and pros, I'm not cutting the mustard, but compared to normal folks and the very vast majority of gym goers, yes, I'm a monster.

I've got a bit too much bf right now, but that's the purpose of the diet. Either way, without a concurrent loss of muscle, I couldn't make it to less than 255 without being near death.
 
What martial art do you practice?

I'm guessing Ultimate Fighting/K1-type.

I myself practice thai and Ultimate Fighting.
 
You guess correctly. I practice MMA. I'm a wrestler by origin, but I've picked up boxing and submissions.
 
Grizzly said:
You guess correctly. I practice MMA. I'm a wrestler by origin, but I've picked up boxing and submissions.
dude you can always go with the fat chicks, they like anybody!
 
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