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Sadly there's no perfect solution, only trade-offs. You get into a relationship, this kinda stuff usually will occur and take up vast time and energy. You don't get into a relationship, you'll have to wonder the earth like a ghost and find ways to deal with your existential angst.
 
Funny how different things bother different people because once I’ve finished with a relationship, I could’ve cared less who was fucking her. I was just glad I wasn’t having to deal with the crap that I had left behind when I walked away.
Yeah what really bothered me was a brother telling me he would never do that to me when I confronted him. I had the proof at that point. It wasn't that bitch that made it terrible. It was losing a friendship with him. But hey if they're happy then that makes me happy. And they showed me their true colors. Plus the insanity of wondering if that shit was actually happening was relieved. Learned a lot about myself from that.
 
Just found out yesterday that my wife who is struggling with alcohol addiction and won’t accept any help, has been buying her piece of shit friend at work lunch so that her friend will repay her with liquor (because I watch the accounts).

Also found out yesterday that she has been talking to her “first love” on Facebook and made plans to meet him when she was traveling for work. I started going through her social media because of all the damn lies!

She won’t tell me yet if they met or not because she is too upset that I looked at her phone! Are you fucking kidding me!

We have been married 14 years and have kids. I used to be a player in the day and I have been an angle since we met. That didn’t get me shit apparently.
Damn man. Sorry to hear this. I know it's grim but screenshot messages and shit. I hope things work out for you.
 
Thanks man. If it weren’t for the kids, I would be out the door. Obviously there is a lot more to the story than I just posted.

I want the best for my kids and feel like I have to try. The wife swears that she hasn’t cheated, but I can’t trust shit she says because she has lied to me for years about getting help and not drinking (and taking pain pills)!
Once they lie and cover shit, it’s hardly worth it bro. You can never trust a liar or a cheater.
 
Yeah what really bothered me was a brother telling me he would never do that to me when I confronted him. I had the proof at that point. It wasn't that bitch that made it terrible. It was losing a friendship with him. But hey if they're happy then that makes me happy. And they showed me their true colors. Plus the insanity of wondering if that shit was actually happening was relieved. Learned a lot about myself from that.
How you get them is how you lose them. Hopefully.
 
Amen to that.... then I also get into my head about the times where I gave the benefit of doubt when it was suspicious.

Vicious cycle...
OMG these last couple pages have my fucking wheels spinning!!! Holy shit if you guys only knew how much bullshit reading all of this actually dug up from deep inside of me. Some women are some slimy, sneaky, greasy, grimy, dirt bags lol. For real. It's so hard for me to fully trust anyone now because I know what people are capable of doing. Sucks
 
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I wouldn't just isolate it to women. People are just some damn back stabbing fucks, as some have shared how "friends" got over on them too.

My ex-wife went into therapy for my out of control alcoholism and ended up fucking the "help". To top it off I had to find out Christmas Eve night after fucking her brains out, in the second house I was paying for. I was blaming myself. So I paying for her living situation to be away from me. I was sold hook and sinker it was me the whole time. 4 months of therapy and she was convinced her therapist was gonna leave his wife to be with her.

Didn't happen. Left her holding a pile of shit and I wasn't taking her back. So I know what @Urgentfury12 feels about knocking the ex's teeth out. I'd love to.... but my kids love her.

And add kids into the mix.... nothing on this earth can hurt me except my kids. So yeah it sucks!

I'm glad Valentine's Day is over!!
The love game is a dog eat dog world until you find the right one...which is very hard to find. I've learned in my later years that alot of people only give a fuck about themselves. Most of the women in my life say the words, put on the smile, and play the part...but at the end of the day they could give 2 fucks. I cant stand people who are incapable of stopping and thinking about how their actions, words, or lackthereof, could possibly be fucking you up inside. Shit I'm a broken ass dude and this forum has given me an outlet this past year for real.
 
Just found out yesterday that my wife who is struggling with alcohol addiction and won’t accept any help, has been buying her piece of shit friend at work lunch so that her friend will repay her with liquor (because I watch the accounts).

Also found out yesterday that she has been talking to her “first love” on Facebook and made plans to meet him when she was traveling for work. I started going through her social media because of all the damn lies!

She won’t tell me yet if they met or not because she is too upset that I looked at her phone! Are you fucking kidding me!

We have been married 14 years and have kids. I used to be a player in the day and I have been an angle since we met. That didn’t get me shit apparently.
Sorry to hear that buddy. Word of advice. Get a lawyer and start documenting the alcohol issues and the social media/texts. If you start now you stand a chance at keeping your kids and not getting royally fucked. The system is designed the protect the custodial parent. Usually the mother. If you walk into divorce court with no proof of anything she’s gonna roll you hard. Protect yourself and your kids. Doesn’t matter if you were a great guy bad guy that’s the past. You need to deal with the present and the future.
 
Thanks man. If it weren’t for the kids, I would be out the door. Obviously there is a lot more to the story than I just posted.

I want the best for my kids and feel like I have to try. The wife swears that she hasn’t cheated, but I can’t trust shit she says because she has lied to me for years about getting help and not drinking (and taking pain pills)!
Read my first reply to you. It’s over. It’s a harsh reality. Trust me I know. The problem you’re having right now is she is much farther down the road to ending the relationship and your way behind. You need to catch up quick and accept what’s going on before it’s to late.
 
Read my first reply to you. It’s over. It’s a harsh reality. Trust me I know. The problem you’re having right now is she is much farther down the road to ending the relationship and your way behind. You need to catch up quick and accept what’s going on before it’s to late.

This is so spot on. Can’t believe I never realized this on my own. This shit moved me lol
 
OMG these last couple pages have my fucking wheels spinning!!! Holy shit if you guys only knew how much bullshit reading all of this actually dug up from deep inside of me. Some women are some slimy, sneaky, greasy, grimy, dirt bags lol. For real. It's so hard for me to fully trust anyone now because I know what people are capable of doing. Sucks
OMG these last couple pages have my fucking wheels spinning!!! Holy shit if you guys only knew how much bullshit reading all of this actually dug up from deep inside of me. Some women are some slimy, sneaky, greasy, grimy, dirt bags lol. For real. It's so hard for me to fully trust anyone now because I know what people are capable of doing. Sucks
Right there with you!!
 
Just found out yesterday that my wife who is struggling with alcohol addiction and won’t accept any help, has been buying her piece of shit friend at work lunch so that her friend will repay her with liquor (because I watch the accounts).

Also found out yesterday that she has been talking to her “first love” on Facebook and made plans to meet him when she was traveling for work. I started going through her social media because of all the damn lies!

She won’t tell me yet if they met or not because she is too upset that I looked at her phone! Are you fucking kidding me!

We have been married 14 years and have kids. I used to be a player in the day and I have been an angle since we met. That didn’t get me shit apparently.
Sad
 
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