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Ngtmarpete

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The wife and I are going to a swingers bar tonight! The last few months are relationship has been getting a lot closer, only been married for two years and I'm pretty distant. Well, these last few weeks we have been talking about our fantasies and found out my wife is attracted to very hot women :D so after doing some research, going out and letting here flirt at the bars we have decided to hit up a swingers bar. She told me she does not want another guy, but she may want me with her and another girl :)! Wish me luck to night!
 
WOW you guys are so incredibly lucky!!! LOL my wife and I don't really even have sex much anymore, let alone invite others into the bedroom. LUCKY LUCKY LUCKY!
 
Good luck bro, my wife is bi and we hook up with females on occasion here and there and visit swinger clubs when we go out of time! It's a fun time but remember it's not about u so don't be pushy!

Thanks! I definitely know not to be pushy about it. She told me that she fantasies about watching with another woman but she's still not sure she can do it. I just told her it's ultimately her decision! What never push it because I really don't want to see some guys cock in her mouth, pussy or ass! So I'm going to be totally understanding.

WOW you guys are so incredibly lucky!!! LOL my wife and I don't really even have sex much anymore, let alone invite others into the bedroom. LUCKY LUCKY LUCKY!

I think it's pretty sweet that she's open to this!
 
Thanks! I definitely know not to be pushy about it. She told me that she fantasies about watching with another woman but she's still not sure she can do it. I just told her it's ultimately her decision! What never push it because I really don't want to see some guys cock in her mouth, pussy or ass! So I'm going to be totally understanding.

Yea sounds like you kno what's up, just don't be eager to jump in the fold with them let her play and when it's time for u she will signal for you to come over and then the fun really begins!
I also made the mistake of being too into another chick one time I mean let's be real your girl is not always gonna be the best you ever had or have shit happens in the moment so check yourself
 
Any luck last night at the swingers bar brother?

It was a blast! I know I may be a little bias, but my wife really is fucking hot! We were with a large group that we had just met and you could tell, plus they told me how much they loved my wife. Did a lot of dancing and when the time was right I stripped her down in the middle of the dance floor and that's how she spent the rest of the night;)

At one point I took her up to the play area, started eating her out and next thing I knew two girls hot chicks were kissing her and touching. I knew it was time for me to let her play with her new friends ;)

It was a hot night!
 
It was a blast! I know I may be a little bias, but my wife really is fucking hot! We were with a large group that we had just met and you could tell, plus they told me how much they loved my wife. Did a lot of dancing and when the time was right I stripped her down in the middle of the dance floor and that's how she spent the rest of the night;)

At one point I took her up to the play area, started eating her out and next thing I knew two girls hot chicks were kissing her and touching. I knew it was time for me to let her play with her new friends ;)

It was a hot night!
You sir are a Champion.
 
It was a blast! I know I may be a little bias, but my wife really is fucking hot! We were with a large group that we had just met and you could tell, plus they told me how much they loved my wife. Did a lot of dancing and when the time was right I stripped her down in the middle of the dance floor and that's how she spent the rest of the night;)

At one point I took her up to the play area, started eating her out and next thing I knew two girls hot chicks were kissing her and touching. I knew it was time for me to let her play with her new friends ;)

It was a hot night!
That's great and a lot of your fears have been unfounded and it must been a real boost for you and your wife'.
 
Man that is soooo awesome. Thanks for sharing this with us brother - it lets those of us who don't really get any at all to live vicariously through you!

Hope the awesome continues on!
 
I hate to be the one to say this BUT BE very very careful when doing this type of stuff it can turn on you in a second and have you saying WTF went wrong? thought we discussed the rules and boundries. next thing your not watching her You are actually catching her with other people male or female. the same can go for you as well...Just be aware of everything and don't just assume your relationship is getting better because you guys are doing this...that's all my 2 cents...
 
I hate to be the one to say this BUT BE very very careful when doing this type of stuff it can turn on you in a second and have you saying WTF went wrong? thought we discussed the rules and boundries. next thing your not watching her You are actually catching her with other people male or female. the same can go for you as well...Just be aware of everything and don't just assume your relationship is getting better because you guys are doing this...that's all my 2 cents...

I definitely know there are risks involved. We have been talking about pretty extensively. We have set up bounderies. She's going to break the hearts of the men in our group as she lets them know she is not interested in them. I told her if she ever decides that she wants that then we need to talk about it. For now it's just her and the girls and when she's ready she's want an experience with herself, another woman and I'm in the middle. Until then, it's just for her. We have a great group that will not Preasure her at all.
 
The wife and I are going to a swingers bar tonight! The last few months are relationship has been getting a lot closer, only been married for two years and I'm pretty distant. Well, these last few weeks we have been talking about our fantasies and found out my wife is attracted to very hot women :D so after doing some research, going out and letting here flirt at the bars we have decided to hit up a swingers bar. She told me she does not want another guy, but she may want me with her and another girl :)! Wish me luck to night!

As a MARRIED COUPLE for many danger lurks in those waters!

Why? Have you ever heard of the seven deadly sins?

They all have the tendency to manifest themselves in such relationships.

Let's look at ENVY for starters.

Hmm are you really going to be as free spirited when you discover she is more attracted to another male or will her GLUTTONY make you ENVIOUS and want VENGEANCE.

If you want your marriage to last don't do this or DONT get married.

That's just my two cents fella and I'm not being puritanical.
 
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