What would you guys have done?

[Nuteboy]

Well I have a question for my home boys on this board. I'm getting ready for a contest. I have around 10 weeks. On the weekends I'm usually up till around 4 or 5am in the morning just watching my bodybuilding tapes and porn.

On the weekends I stop all carbs around 12 am so I'm just consuing turkey and portein shakes throughout the morning. I was bored and my wife was too sleepy so I decided I'd go out to a bar for a few hours.

I went to this retro bar which is around 10 minutes from my place. I took a cab so it did not take long to get there. I worn a nice "fitted" long sleve shirt and some nice boot leg jeans.

Now I don't drink any alcohol (PERIOD) offseason or precontest. So all i sipped on was bottle water. Well I get to the retro bar and around five minutes of getting their I get four "very attractive" women approaching me as they asked if I can take a photo with their friend becuz she's getting married. The "trick" is I'd have to take the photo with no shirt and they wanted me to hold her too.


I took a look at the woman who was getting married and she was HOT. However, I explained to them I don't do that. The women continued to ask and began begging. Although it was very flattering becuz they were attractive women I explained I don't do that.

The woman later ask if there's a way I can talk dirty to her friend since I won't take a picture with no shirt. I had to laugh on that one. I said "sorry" I don't do that.

After being at the bar for around two hours I left and that was the end of that night. Now how many of you would have taking the picture ( removing the shirt) for the ladies?

I'm 10 weeks out from the Jr. Nationals and everything is dialing in so my abs are very visible.

If any of you were in good "approaching" condition would you have "humor" the ladies and taken the picture? I'm married so I did feel a bit weird plus I'm shy around women. Don't get me wrong I'm a complete "freak" behind close doors but in an enviroment with lots of people I will freeze up.

Replies please.

 

[dolfe1]

Hey you probably did the right thing, taking a pic might not have hurt, I wouldn't have if I were married, at least not with my shirt off. What the hell were you doing at a bar anyways? You're not there to drink, not there to chase woman, went alone, what do you do there? No flame just curious.

 

[Patuba]

I don't see any harm of having your picture taken with the ladies. I would of done it. If you look good then you might as well show it off.

 

[Nuteboy]

The bar is more of a club bar. It as a dance floor. No I don't drink and never went to a bar to pick up women. In fact, I'm terrible at picking up women so I never approached a woman in my life ( besides my wife).

I was sitting in a corning listening to the music and watching people dance. It all looked funny watching people dance. I personally dont see any harm with taking a photo with some woman who's getting married and maybe wanted a picture for her photo book while she was single.

It's not like me and the woman were going to get a hotel and fuck before she married. They just wanted a photo with the bride to be. But for me I just felt funny doing it and I did feel nervous as I had four women all around me. It's a fucking trip.

Me and my wife go out to club/bars and we dance with each other. We don't drink and only have diet soda or water. We usually stay out around 2 or 3 hours and head back home.


However, having four women beg for a pictuer makes you feel like a king on top of the hill. The attention is great.

 

[ramboj70]

I don't see any harm of having your picture taken with the ladies. I would of done it. If you look good then you might as well show it off.

brother you need help, I would of took the shirt off and asked if they wanted me to take of my pants to, then I would have said ok but on one condition, you must take off your shirts to then we will take picture and we can talk dirty as much as you want, at least get a thrill out of it bro, so why even go to a bar? your alone, dont drink and wont take pictures with hot women, I see you just went out to kill some time!

 

[Chip Bronson]

nute, i think you did the right thing with these chicks. i mean, wtf?!!! they see you're a nicely-built dude and they want to take a pic of you as a sort of a trophy. fuck that shit. it's downright demeaning. now, if they offered you money... but, bro, at least you could've talked dirty to the hot skank. there's nothing wrong with that. you're not being treated as a piece of meat in that case. you're just 'talking', albeit dirty, to the skank, not posing for pics. we gotta talk man....

hey rambo, so you'd take your pants off huh? but what if you were wearing the wife's panties bro? lol...

 

[Nuteboy]

ramboj70 you're right. I went out to kill time. However, I'm a pussy around women. It's that 7th grade mind set why I'm so fucked up in the head. I remember in 7th grade I feel "DEEP" hard in love with this girl who was in 8th grade.

I mean she was drop dead beatiful. I still remeber her name and that was when I was in 7th grade. Well I had a friend ask her if I could be her boyfriend. She looked at me and said "NO."

Well this incident has fucked up my head to a point I feel uncomfortable around pretty women "especially" if they talk with me. I freeze up. So that's why I never approach women. Now my wife is beautiful so I approached her but ONLY becuz she kept looking at me.

I asked her name and if she was in school and etc. Just basic "getting to know you" questions. Six years later we are married. But I still get nervous around pretty women so nothing as changed.

 

[Nuteboy]

funny

Chip Bronson, that was a good one about offering some cash for the picture. If I ever place top five at the Nationals I'll have to start charging for request, lol.

Hey gotta pay those food and gear bills.

 

[ramboj70]

nute, i think you did the right thing with these chicks. i mean, wtf?!!! they see you're a nicely-built dude and they want to take a pic of you as a sort of a trophy. fuck that shit. it's downright demeaning. now, if they offered you money... but, bro, at least you could've talked dirty to the hot skank. there's nothing wrong with that. you're not being treated as a piece of meat in that case. you're just 'talking', albeit dirty, to the skank, not posing for pics. we gotta talk man....

hey rambo, so you'd take your pants off huh? but what if you were wearing the wife's panties bro? lol...

i am telling you bro, women get turned on like crazy if they see you in a speedo or wearing women panties, they like when the tea bag is just hanging out one side

 

[Nuteboy]

too funny

You guys are too damn funny. Got me laughing my ass off with these jokes, LOL.

 

[dolfe1]

brother you need help, I would of took the shirt off and asked if they wanted me to take of my pants to, then I would have said ok but on one condition, you must take off your shirts to then we will take picture and we can talk dirty as much as you want, at least get a thrill out of it bro, so why even go to a bar? your alone, dont drink and wont take pictures with hot women, I see you just went out to kill some time!

LMFAO Rambo's always looking for any reason to take his pants off.

 

[Chip Bronson]

i am telling you bro, women get turned on like crazy if they see you in a speedo or wearing women panties, they like when the tea bag is just hanging out one side

lmfao rambo!!! you're a sick, but funny, mofo... tea bag is just hanging out one side... lmfao!!!

 

[joe shmoe]

you did the right thing bro. i wouldnt have done it for other reasons though...married or not. if i went up to a good looking chick and asked if my friend could get a pic standing next to her while she's topless...i'd get smacked and possibly arrested for sexual harassment. but its OK for a chick to do that?? BULLSHIT!! whats with the double standard? thses bitches wanted the same rights as guys, but they still want "special rights" when its convenient for them. they can kiss my lilly white ass! if they stayed in the fucking kitchen where they belong, and they accepted the fact that they need a smack every now and again, then OK, i'd take my shirt off because for the most part they know their role . BITCHES!!

they cant have it both ways.

have a nice day

 

[ramboj70]

LMFAO Rambo's always looking for any reason to take his pants off.

shit I have been of the bean for over 12 weeks just about and my crank looks like a tic tac so I am not taking pants off at this time and with all the damn pain meds they have me on, my shit will never work

 

[Ronin_]

I wouldn't have no - it would be very garish and smug behaviour to flaunt your physique in the bar - doing so would have gained you the hatred of every male in there and all but the trashy girls would think you are up your own ass vain.

They were just drunken hen night idiots. you did the right thing

 

[thick]

i think u did the right thing nute. I feel it would be pretty disrespectful to your wife to take your shirt off for the girls and a picture. I would let them take a pic with all clothes on though. I like rambo's idea the best if you are single

 

[graybass]

one of the good guys

Nute boy, you should always follow your heart. If you were uncomfortable with any of it say no! Always trust your gut feeling.
Me, I would have been dancing on the bar naked.
Rambo, your killing me! I hope you feel better soon. Keep us posted on your injury.

 

[Nuteboy]

Correct brotha

Thanks for the reply guys. You're correct taking my shirt off would have been disrespectful and I just did not feel comfortable doing it. The next time some women ask if I can remove my shirt for pictures I will clearly say YES.

However, that will "only" be at the Jr. Nationals which I will have my shirt and pants off which will be 06/19/04. Also these ladies can see and take pictures of the other guys who, of course, will have no shirts or pants on.

So I'd suggest they better "get to" buying those tickets. Just think of it the ladies get a chance to see as many "half nude" men as they want, we- as bodybuilders- get money generated for the contest and everyone is happy