She cries everytime she sees Nelson Mandela cheered on TV. Basically what happened was his group was going house to house in the white neighborhood telling all the black houseworkers to join their "freedom cause." When they came to her house and found her there alone with her black nanny, they asked the nanny to leave and join them. When she refused, they made her watch my GF be raped and then shot the nanny in the head in front of my GF.
The police later found out who did it, but they were unable to make an arrest because the group wouldnt release the men who did it.