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I left my girlfriend because I thought she was cheating, did I make the right choice?

Wings_of_pain

Wings_of_pain

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So to start I apologise for the bullshit drama, and in fact haven't been on meso in quite a bit. But to get to the point I thought my at the time gf was cheating because of a few things and have bouts of regret that waiver depending.

Specifically, strike one was that when we first met she lied about not having been with other men for some time and was still having sex with other guys about a week into dating. At first I was livid to find she lied. We had a week period where we were trying to be good but it ate at me . One night while looking for a gift for her I saw a text from an old FWB asking about her and her saying they could not fuck anymore basically because she was in a relationship. I got drunk that night and was nasty to her which is apologized over but still rregret.We got through it and I figured that people are or can be very promiscuous these days. Then I demanded she block all these past flings on social media and while she did the next day wanted to break up.

Then about 4 days ago we were in her car (where we often have sex) and when I went to grab something from the glove box condoms flew out. I was upset but didn't show it at all. I was quiet and merely said you know exactly what this looks like. The thing is we never used condoms because the ones I had tried we're uncomfortable, but days before she did mention finding some eventually to try. I mean this has been hard as fuck because I was immensely loving and I am a devoted man. However, I feel like my heart was begging me to finish it because in the pit I know she is cheating no matter how much I try to or want to think she's not.

I know this is leaving out huge details and Is only my side as opposed to when I was shitty to her but I never cheated despite having the opportunity to. I don't know I can be paranoid and it kills me because aside from this incident with wondering about cheating we we're perfect. She understood me on a level no other girl has, and she was very very similar. I feel like if she cheated then I made the right choice but if she didn't I let my paranoia destroy this. I wondered why she would post on Snapchat she was broken up and sad emojis if she was already seeing other men. I wonder why she would buy condoms for other men when she was also on the pill and most guys have their own condoms. Some of it doesn't totally add up but my instinct told me first thing the next morning to end it. Opinions on my dramatic recollection? Lol
 
My opinion is you made the right decision. There are millions of women out there, do not settle. Especially for one that you dont fully trust or that makes you feel like she is cheating. Why go through that? The right one will not put that doubt in your head. If you are a good man, then you can find an amazing woman. Trust me on that.

I should really dig up the quote from a book I read, but it talks about your "gut" instinct, where it comes from, why you get it, etc. But your gut instinct is unconscious but based off previous life experiences. It is not always right but more often then not it is. There is a reason you are feeling that, recognize it.

And if I found condoms in my girls car and we dont use them, then yes it most certainly would be over.
 
movingiron88 said:
My opinion is you made the right decision. There are millions of women out there, do not settle. Especially for one that you dont fully trust or that makes you feel like she is cheating. Why go through that? The right one will not put that doubt in your head. If you are a good man, then you can find an amazing woman. Trust me on that.

I should really dig up the quote from a book I read, but it talks about your "gut" instinct, where it comes from, why you get it, etc. But your gut instinct is unconscious but based off previous life experiences. It is not always right but more often then not it is. There is a reason you are feeling that, recognize it.

And if I found condoms in my girls car and we dont use them, then yes it most certainly would be over.
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Yeah I know. I just hate that I have to wonder and considered if it's worse to have stayed and found out for sure or to have gone and had to wonder. It also seems strange because she had been the one who asked me to be her boyfriend, initiated the whole relationship and wanted me. I just don't understand any of it if I'm being honest, and it bothers me that women are so conceited and egotistical that they would rather let a relationship end than at least cop to their mistake and apologize
 
Wings_of_pain said:
Yeah I know. I just hate that I have to wonder and considered if it's worse to have stayed and found out for sure or to have gone and had to wonder. It also seems strange because she had been the one who asked me to be her boyfriend, initiated the whole relationship and wanted me. I just don't understand any of it if I'm being honest, and it bothers me that women are so conceited and egotistical that they would rather let a relationship end than at least cop to their mistake and apologize
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Bro her asking to be in a relationship with u means nothing she could be trying to make someone else jealous or not wanting u to fuck any1 else an if u have doubt bro trust your gut ur mind will play with u an feeling regretful or lonely initially is normal it will pass imo u made the right choice don't settle to many people do an are miserable later there is many other women who will understand you better than her its just a matter of time trust me
 
You sound like a jealous asshole. Nothing personal.

You're mad because your girl had sex with someone before you.

You're mad because you read a text where she turned a guy down for sex.

You're mad because you found condoms, after she told you she wanted to try some.

Are you on tren?
 
Wings_of_pain said:
I wonder why she would buy condoms for other men when she was also on the pill and most guys have their own condoms.
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One thing to point out is this doesn't make sense to me. I don't know of many guys who use condoms unless the girl makes them so it would make perfect sense she'd have them to protect against stds with random guys yet not worry about using them when she's with her bf.
 
Good choice bud,even if it's jealousy or insecurity doesn't matter if she brings that out of you something's wrong,you LL never be content with her with this mysterys floating around move on bud I know it sucks and your questioning yourself but in a few months you be just fine
 
Gbro said:
You sound like a jealous asshole. Nothing personal.

You're mad because your girl had sex with someone before you.

You're mad because you read a text where she turned a guy down for sex.

You're mad because you found condoms, after she told you she wanted to try some.

Are you on tren?
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Oh I don't deny I can be jelous but u got better. We had talked and she had said that the constant reassuring was an issue. I stopped being so needy and let her be. My thing is it just felt like shit didn't line up. BTW it wasn't that she was having sex that pissed me off it's that when I asked her she bold faced lied to me and then when I searched her phone that wasn't the case.
 
Bro don't put yourself threw it ,if your are the jelouse type witch a lot of US are certain types of females just bring it out more
 
You had a doubt. Game is over.

Once doubt is there it rarely ever leaves and never without a fight. Move on, plenty of jealous, overthinking, irrational mates to be found.
 
Wings_of_pain said:
So to start I apologise for the bullshit drama, and in fact haven't been on meso in quite a bit. But to get to the point I thought my at the time gf was cheating because of a few things and have bouts of regret that waiver depending.

Specifically, strike one was that when we first met she lied about not having been with other men for some time and was still having sex with other guys about a week into dating. At first I was livid to find she lied. We had a week period where we were trying to be good but it ate at me . One night while looking for a gift for her I saw a text from an old FWB asking about her and her saying they could not fuck anymore basically because she was in a relationship. I got drunk that night and was nasty to her which is apologized over but still rregret.We got through it and I figured that people are or can be very promiscuous these days. Then I demanded she block all these past flings on social media and while she did the next day wanted to break up.

Then about 4 days ago we were in her car (where we often have sex) and when I went to grab something from the glove box condoms flew out. I was upset but didn't show it at all. I was quiet and merely said you know exactly what this looks like. The thing is we never used condoms because the ones I had tried we're uncomfortable, but days before she did mention finding some eventually to try. I mean this has been hard as fuck because I was immensely loving and I am a devoted man. However, I feel like my heart was begging me to finish it because in the pit I know she is cheating no matter how much I try to or want to think she's not.

I know this is leaving out huge details and Is only my side as opposed to when I was shitty to her but I never cheated despite having the opportunity to. I don't know I can be paranoid and it kills me because aside from this incident with wondering about cheating we we're perfect. She understood me on a level no other girl has, and she was very very similar. I feel like if she cheated then I made the right choice but if she didn't I let my paranoia destroy this. I wondered why she would post on Snapchat she was broken up and sad emojis if she was already seeing other men. I wonder why she would buy condoms for other men when she was also on the pill and most guys have their own condoms. Some of it doesn't totally add up but my instinct told me first thing the next morning to end it. Opinions on my dramatic recollection? Lol
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First thing - she lied. She can NEVER be trusted because of one lie. Her behavior is super suspicious and you’re better off without her. You definitely made the right choice. Move on and find someone who will be loyal and honest.
 
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