Did any of you average looking guys date a female bodybuilder? How did it go?

[Desibaba]

From the time I was 16 till about 34 I was huge into bodybuilding and size. After seeing the deaths of so many of my idols and finding a great career in the car business as a sales manager I switched to a trt regimen and started going to the gym only 2 times a week or so. Without all the gear, less training and eating more like a normal person if you look at me today you probably tell I work out but I am far from a bodybuilder with my belly where you cant see any abs and I am healthier, happier and much better off financially than I was 10 years ago as a broke bodybuilder.

A couple weeks ago I see this chick on plenty of fish where I could tell she was larger than a regular fit girl. Im not talking Ms Olympia muscles but enough to get a couple of extra glances on her muscularity if you see her. Started talking to her and found out she never competed and is a personal trainer. She doesnt have any of the usual virilization symtoms that I am used to seeing on pro female bodybuilders and she has a very feminine face and voice. I live in south florida and most of the women I have been with in my past have hispanic. Usually big natural boobs, big ass and thighs and I guess I have liked the extra cushion for the pushin. I have never dated anyone in the fitness industry before. I really like this girl's personality and I saw her naked on facetime but this is completely new to me. Have any of you average guys with a dad body dated a girl like that. If so how was it? Any advice?

 

[LeoTC]

I've gone out with chicks that for everything from Cross-fit / Oly / PL to Classic Physique. Whatever the Women's equivalent is anyway, same as Dana Bailey.

So I've been with some pretty well built girls both on and off gas.

I dunno, I love strong women though and I'm not exactly hung up on gender norms.

 

[Btcowboy]

My brother inlaw who is a hardcore drinker, heavy smoker, doesnt workout, not fat but not fit dated a competing bodybuilder girl. She also had a great job, where my brother inlaw is pretty much broke. Anyways they date off and on and I have no idea what she sees in him. Him on other hand has told me she is intimidating lol

 

[JP1979]

I never been interested, but there is this one kinda ripped/built older Asian lady at my Gym.... she would definitely get the business end of my maglite.

 

[Mac11wildcat]

Serious post incoming.

If she maintains that sort of physique JUST BECAUSE, there are things you need to be aware of:
1. The gym and her physical appearance are a priority. Almost guarantee more so than you (if you date) maybe until marriage is a consideration. It isn’t a joke. You will be skipped to make sure she trains and eats.
2. She’s probably mildly narcissistic. Not necessarily a bad thing. Just recognize that she’s probably going to glance at mirrors and care what she eats on dates..
3. Great potential that she’s not spontaneous, carefree, going to be easily swayed from her routine. You will have to fit in, not expected to have room made for you.

 

[LeoTC]

Serious post incoming.

If she maintains that sort of physique JUST BECAUSE, there are things you need to be aware of:
1. The gym and her physical appearance are a priority. Almost guarantee more so than you (if you date) maybe until marriage is a consideration. It isn’t a joke. You will be skipped to make sure she trains and eats.
2. She’s probably mildly narcissistic. Not necessarily a bad thing. Just recognize that she’s probably going to glance at mirrors and care what she eats on dates..
3. Great potential that she’s not spontaneous, carefree, going to be easily swayed from her routine. You will have to fit in, not expected to have room made for you.

All the reasons those relationships have actually been awesome for me.

But I thrive on routine so...

 

[Mac11wildcat]

All the reasons those relationships have actually been awesome for me.

But I thrive on routine so...

It’s definitely for some people and not for others.

 

[TideGear]

Serious post incoming.

If she maintains that sort of physique JUST BECAUSE, there are things you need to be aware of:
1. The gym and her physical appearance are a priority. Almost guarantee more so than you (if you date) maybe until marriage is a consideration. It isn’t a joke. You will be skipped to make sure she trains and eats.
2. She’s probably mildly narcissistic. Not necessarily a bad thing. Just recognize that she’s probably going to glance at mirrors and care what she eats on dates..
3. Great potential that she’s not spontaneous, carefree, going to be easily swayed from her routine. You will have to fit in, not expected to have room made for you.

Wow, that's very insightful.. You kinda described me. That's kind of eye opening...

 

[Perrin Aybara]

Wow, that's very insightful.. You kinda described me. That's kind of eye opening...

Same here. Been a problem in past relationships, but luckily my current girlfriend is really cool about it.

 

[88general88]

Serious post incoming.

If she maintains that sort of physique JUST BECAUSE, there are things you need to be aware of:
1. The gym and her physical appearance are a priority. Almost guarantee more so than you (if you date) maybe until marriage is a consideration. It isn’t a joke. You will be skipped to make sure she trains and eats.
2. She’s probably mildly narcissistic. Not necessarily a bad thing. Just recognize that she’s probably going to glance at mirrors and care what she eats on dates..
3. Great potential that she’s not spontaneous, carefree, going to be easily swayed from her routine. You will have to fit in, not expected to have room made for you.

Damn sounds like you just described the female version of me

 

[TideGear]

Same here. Been a problem in past relationships, but luckily my current girlfriend is really cool about it.

My last chick was a doormat (see profile pic) so she didn't care what I did. Total turn off

 

[Mac11wildcat]

When a common interest is involved men’s and women’s habits become extremely similar IMO. So it shouldn’t surprise anyone that a female who maintains an extraordinary physique is similar to any males that do it.

Now, If she competed...I’d tell you she’s probably psycho. Most women I’ve known that compete are absolutely batshit crazy. At the extremes I think the men v women side of things diverges again. Just my experience.

 

[88general88]

When a common interest is involved men’s and women’s habits become extremely similar IMO. So it shouldn’t surprise anyone that a female who maintains an extraordinary physique is similar to any males that do it.

Now, If she competed...I’d tell you she’s probably psycho. Most women I’ve known that compete are absolutely batshit crazy. At the extremes I think the men v women side of things diverges again. Just my experience.

I have heard the same thing. Something about a woman who could flex her pussy and possibly snap your dick in 2 doesnt really appeal to me.

 

[jaymaximus]

Serious post incoming.

If she maintains that sort of physique JUST BECAUSE, there are things you need to be aware of:
1. The gym and her physical appearance are a priority. Almost guarantee more so than you (if you date) maybe until marriage is a consideration. It isn’t a joke. You will be skipped to make sure she trains and eats.
2. She’s probably mildly narcissistic. Not necessarily a bad thing. Just recognize that she’s probably going to glance at mirrors and care what she eats on dates..
3. Great potential that she’s not spontaneous, carefree, going to be easily swayed from her routine. You will have to fit in, not expected to have room made for you.

This is exactly what women (who know) say about us