I’m torn and I’ll probably get laughed at for this.

Mdrock98

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All the help needed fellas please. It’s about a girl I met, I know, women, smh. Anyways this shit was real, and I know I sound corny for this, but fuck it, it is what it is. I’m usually a shy dude, at clubs, bars, and the like. I never have luck there so I turned to bumble and tinder. Anyways, I meet this chic and took her out for drinks Saturday night, first date, and honest to god bro, I fell in love at first sight. My stomach jumped and got butterflies. Yah I’m a cornball, I know, but it’s the truth. We drank all night, had a blast and went back to her place and fucked all night. Durin sex and bein drunk i told her I loved her. I knew right there I fucked up. Needless to say, she got all scared and basically she ghosted me and lied to me. I shouldn’t be heartbroken after a one night/date fuck, but damn I feel fucked up, I really fucking liked this fucking girl. I’m tore the fuck up man and I know I shouldn’t be. What the fuck. Never happened like this before. Fuck.
 
I suggest you check your estro. You sound like a damn women. Be thankful you got some nice strange. The glass is half full :)

I just spent money on bloods like 3 months ago. Fuck. I’m runnin test e from bitch ass Goldline hope it’s not bunk.
 
All the help needed fellas please. It’s about a girl I met, I know, women, smh. Anyways this shit was real, and I know I sound corny for this, but fuck it, it is what it is. I’m usually a shy dude, at clubs, bars, and the like. I never have luck there so I turned to bumble and tinder. Anyways, I meet this chic and took her out for drinks Saturday night, first date, and honest to god bro, I fell in love at first sight. My stomach jumped and got butterflies. Yah I’m a cornball, I know, but it’s the truth. We drank all night, had a blast and went back to her place and fucked all night. Durin sex and bein drunk i told her I loved her. I knew right there I fucked up. Needless to say, she got all scared and basically she ghosted me and lied to me. I shouldn’t be heartbroken after a one night/date fuck, but damn I feel fucked up, I really fucking liked this fucking girl. I’m tore the fuck up man and I know I shouldn’t be. What the fuck. Never happened like this before. Fuck.

Sorry fam, you fucked up.

You fucked on the first date AND you told her you loved her. You don't even know this girl my dude.

The only girl I didn't fuck or try to fuck on the first date (or even the first several) turned out to be my wife.

In my experience (and granted I'm only 30), if you're looking for a solid relationship, you don't fuck on the first date. I'm sure other people have done it and have turned out to have great relationships with those people, but more often than not, it ain't gonna work out.

Just forget her man, that's the best thing you can do. She was just there for a good time, not all of that love stuff.
 
Sorry fam, you fucked up.

You fucked on the first date AND you told her you loved her. You don't even know this girl my dude.

The only girl I didn't fuck or try to fuck on the first date (or even the first several) turned out to be my wife.

In my experience (and granted I'm only 30), if you're looking for a solid relationship, you don't fuck on the first date. I'm sure other people have done it and have turned out to have great relationships with those people, but more often than not, it ain't gonna work out.

Just forget her man, that's the best thing you can do. She was just there for a good time, not all of that love stuff.

Thanks man I got drunk man and totally fucked up. I guess if they fuck on the first night they hoe material. I went in raw and busted a load in her too. I couldn’t help it. That ass was crazy
 
Thanks man I got drunk man and totally fucked up. I guess if they fuck on the first night they hoe material. I went in raw and busted a load in her too. I couldn’t help it. That ass was crazy

Well, unless you want to pay child support, you better hope she was on birth control or some shit man.
 
Sorry fam, you fucked up.

You fucked on the first date AND you told her you loved her. You don't even know this girl my dude.

The only girl I didn't fuck or try to fuck on the first date (or even the first several) turned out to be my wife.

In my experience (and granted I'm only 30), if you're looking for a solid relationship, you don't fuck on the first date. I'm sure other people have done it and have turned out to have great relationships with those people, but more often than not, it ain't gonna work out.

Just forget her man, that's the best thing you can do. She was just there for a good time, not all of that love stuff.
Overall good advice but always a few exceptions just like everything else. Me and my wife started out as fuck buddies and we've been happily married now going on 7 years and dated 2 years before that .
 
Rofl that doesn't mean anything dude. You know how many dudes I know that have gotten women pregnant after they told them they were on birth control?

Also, birth control ain't 100% effective either. My sister-inlaw has had 3 kids while on birth control.

She has the uvi ring in. I’m on 600mg of test and hcg .. not sure if theirs too many live ones in there lol
 
We've all got some crazy in us, but I love you on the first date would have me running too. Obviously I don't know anything about you. So if this doesn't apply then disregard. I have to be okay with being alone before I can be in a healthy relationship. The law of attraction is real and the people who don't pick up on red flags usually have a bunch themselves. If I get in any kind of long term relationship in the future, it's going to be because I want to share life with someone and not because I need someone.
 
We've all got some crazy in us, but I love you on the first date would have me running too. Obviously I don't know anything about you. So if this doesn't apply then disregard. I have to be okay with being alone before I can be in a healthy relationship. The law of attraction is real and the people who don't pick up on red flags usually have a bunch themselves. If I get in any kind of long term relationship in the future, it's going to be because I want to share life with someone and not because I need someone.

Yup, that's one of the biggest problems with people's relationships in my opinion.

People don't know how to be happy alone, or themselves and they rely on someone else to make them happy and set unreal/unfair expectations on their boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse expecting them to be their key to happiness.
 
So how do you deal with libido on test. I can’t do
The fwb really because it always ends bad. It just ended one because she caught feels.
 
You lack experience is all my man. There’s nothing wrong with you. Keep up with Bumble, you will find the best girls there. Also, OKcupid app is good too. Lots of hoes in Tinder. Careful...

I’ve been there. Confusing sex with emotions... you were just another dick for her. She likely would not have even saw you again even if you didn’t fuck up like you did. I mean, she lets dudes she just met cum inside of her hours within meeting her. You aren’t the first and surely you won’t be the last. She’s probably being banged out raw by some guy already. It’s not unusual at all man.

Get more experience and after you bang out a dozen hoes in a year you will start to appreciate things other than sex which really is the only thing you saw in this girl. You only knew her a couple hours. She’s a stranger bro. You will eventually begin to appreciate things like who the girl really is... you know, her personality and shit and how she cares for you and supports you and listens to you about things like what you really desire sexually.
Don’t feel bad man. You learned a lot in a single night. Enjoy the journey... sounds like you are looking for something special. Don’t give up and you will find it with the right person.
 
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