Guys over 30 who got married young, do you regret it?

I got my high school sweet heart pregnant when I was 18. I did what I thought was best and got married shortly after. We were never meant to be and it sucked. We had another kid when I was 23 I guess thinking that would help (LOL). I spent almost all of my 20’s working 60-80 hours a week trying to support my family. Looking back I made mistakes, didn’t treat my wife how I should have, and sold my soul for a dollar.

A few years ago she had an affair and we got divorced shortly after. I’m now a few months away from 30. Working my ass off to pay the child support while simultaneously getting ass fucked by the IRS.

Now at the ripe age of 29.6 I’m lost. All I’ve ever known is essentially how to be a husband. It’s easy to pick up chicks, but it’s hard finding ones who are worth building a life with. I also pretty much don’t know who I am. I didn’t spend my 20’s partying, traveling, exploring, making memories and friendships that would stand the test of time. I spent them working. Most years 6 days a week. And now I’m lost. I can’t imagine a future where I think “damn, I’m happy”.



OP, if you find the one you know “this is her!” Don’t let her go. But I think their is value in spending your 20’s just living life and experiencing new things.
 
I got my high school sweet heart pregnant when I was 18. I did what I thought was best and got married shortly after. We were never meant to be and it sucked. We had another kid when I was 23 I guess thinking that would help (LOL). I spent almost all of my 20’s working 60-80 hours a week trying to support my family. Looking back I made mistakes, didn’t treat my wife how I should have, and sold my soul for a dollar.

A few years ago she had an affair and we got divorced shortly after. I’m now a few months away from 30. Working my ass off to pay the child support while simultaneously getting ass fucked by the IRS.

Now at the ripe age of 29.6 I’m lost. All I’ve ever known is essentially how to be a husband. It’s easy to pick up chicks, but it’s hard finding ones who are worth building a life with. I also pretty much don’t know who I am. I didn’t spend my 20’s partying, traveling, exploring, making memories and friendships that would stand the test of time. I spent them working. Most years 6 days a week. And now I’m lost. I can’t imagine a future where I think “damn, I’m happy”.



OP, if you find the one you know “this is her!” Don’t let her go. But I think their is value in spending your 20’s just living life and experiencing new things.

Started the same way as you, ended the same way too. Wasn’t until my late 30s until I started figuring out who I really was and what I really wanted.

Friendly piece of advice, don’t worry, be patient, and above all else and I mean all else, be honest with yourself.

It gets better. I’m almost 42, got another few years of child support, but spent the last few years tirelessly working on myself, and taking care of myself. Working out the answers to the hard questions. It’s all pretty much easy living now.

Just keep at it. Hard times create strong men.
 
I've seriously considered asking my wife if I can rub one out. When she pulls that I'm tired shit on me. But instead of phrasing at as a question, I would just nonchalantly request her to pass over since tissues.

I just find some humor in your emotional post with respect to your wife, while having some scantily clad beauty on all fours, tongue out, ready to fuck as your picture.
First time my girl says she's tired and can't get a load outta me i am cheating
 
Just celebrated 16 years of marriage. 3 kids. If I had to do it over again I would of remained single and when my duck stopped working I would settle down with a heterosexual man who enjoyed fishing, shooting as much as I do.
I hope this is a joke and no more) or do you still wish about your choice and children
 
Started the same way as you, ended the same way too. Wasn’t until my late 30s until I started figuring out who I really was and what I really wanted.

Friendly piece of advice, don’t worry, be patient, and above all else and I mean all else, be honest with yourself.

It gets better. I’m almost 42, got another few years of child support, but spent the last few years tirelessly working on myself, and taking care of myself. Working out the answers to the hard questions. It’s all pretty much easy living now.

Just keep at it. Hard times create strong men.
Very true words about difficult times I create a real little man. And wisdom and understanding comes over the years. The family must be created consciously
 
Women are whores. Anyone that gets married is stupid
Who offended you so much in life, or all such bad personal experiences with women that you got angry with the whole world. Do not take it negatively, this is just a question and I would like to understand your position, thanks in advance
 
Who offended you so much in life, or all such bad personal experiences with women that you got angry with the whole world. Do not take it negatively, this is just a question and I would like to understand your position, thanks in advance
Maybe I'm a little smarter than most, and I see the reality of life?

Life is a dog eat dog world. Everyone is out for their own benefit. Humans are not hard to understand, nor women. Most just don't want to accept the truth. Just basic animal behavior.

Watch some of Sam Kinison's video's, he nails it perfectly about women.
 
Men have to learn to cooperate again to solve the woman problem, the way we have for 100,000 years. Men know how to cooperate. We’ve solved the food problem, the water problem, the garbage problem etc.

A man has to know his investment in his wife and children are secure, and that any man who speaks to his wife without his consent his buddies will help him beat, and any man who spends a moment behind closed doors with with his wife his buddies will help him kill.

Women are not to the enemy. But they are always working for the enemy. There has to be no other option for survival other than being an obedient wife, living to serve the needs of her husband and children.

When a man’s rights are secure again, we can properly invest in our families again, and be free to reach for the stars.
 
Men have to learn to cooperate again to solve the woman problem, the way we have for 100,000 years. Men know how to cooperate. We’ve solved the food problem, the water problem, the garbage problem etc.

A man has to know his investment in his wife and children are secure, and that any man who speaks to his wife without his consent his buddies will help him beat, and any man who spends a moment behind closed doors with with his wife his buddies will help him kill.

Women are not to the enemy. But they are always working for the enemy. There has to be no other option for survival other than being an obedient wife, living to serve the needs of her husband and children.

When a man’s rights are secure again, we can properly invest in our families again, and be free to reach for the stars.
So true. The breakdown of society is because men are no longer the boss of their house. They can't discipline their wives,, their kids. They have no control, which leads to the breakdown of all of society.
 
Maybe I'm a little smarter than most, and I see the reality of life?

Life is a dog eat dog world. Everyone is out for their own benefit. Humans are not hard to understand, nor women. Most just don't want to accept the truth. Just basic animal behavior.

Watch some of Sam Kinison's video's, he nails it perfectly about women.
You may be smarter, but really smart and educated will not prelude to demonstrate this everywhere. I have a feeling that you are writing here to provoke attention on yourself, apparently your life is bored, guy) no offense
 
A woman is usually smarter than a man and more cunning). And external stupidity is just a game
Statistics show... men have higher IQ's on average.

There are twice as many men with IQ's above 120 VS women. And as the IQ's go up, men dominate!

Women brains are fucked up a greater percentage of the time, PMS, postpartum depression, Menopause, higher rate of mental illness. Women brains are fucked.
 
Statistics show... men have higher IQ's on average.

There are twice as many men with IQ's above 120 VS women. And as the IQ's go up, men dominate!

Women brains are fucked up a greater percentage of the time, PMS, postpartum depression, Menopause, higher rate of mental illness. Women brains are fucked.
Lmao fking incel
 

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