malfeasance
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Are you in the same state as bigboichoi?
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malfeasance
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People found out about my speeding tickets from three years ago. I live in a small town, so now I have to leave the state.
This sounds seriously disconnected from reality.
This sounds seriously disconnected from reality.
AlexDavis43
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No, but I know where it is and am familiar with laws there. Up to him if he wants to disclose.
It's 3 points per year lol why would I troll on here I've been a member for 10 years smh
Some people are actually giving legit advice on here
My state I took the defensive driving course once I move there's probably more programs in other states
malfeasance
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So . . . you are driving more slowly now, as you have not had tickets in three years, and you have already decreased your points by 9 (3 x 3 = 9), plus whatever points the class removed, so what is the issue?
I am truly at a loss to understand.
I am truly at a loss to understand.
Sounds trolly
I still have 12 points I had a bit more than 20 it's a lot but it'll get better once I move I can take more classes to dismiss the points
malfeasance
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Eh, it will all be gone in four years no matter what unless you start driving like a jackass again.
Pick something else to make a priority in life, like maximizing your income.
Pick something else to make a priority in life, like maximizing your income.
Yeah exactly I am working on jobs and just moving cause my parents don't support my bodybuilding lifestyle
Definitely not gonna get pulled over again man the tickets made my life hell
BigDadd7
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The points don't go away when you move. They transfer to your new license.
You FAFO'd. Stick it out where you are. Learn a trade and start a career.
AlexDavis43
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One more caveat. If you get another speeding ticket, the clock starts over on point reduction. You need 12 consecutive months with no violations to get the 3 point reduction. There is no partial credit.
Best bets are a State-sponsored defensive driving program & iirc AAA offers a point reduction program. So that could be 8 points off per year if no violations.
ComancheChief
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I don’t mean to speak for op, but how would you recommend he go about maximizing income given his current situation?
AlexDavis43
Member
I will suggest a different mindset.
"I will obey traffic rules" instead of "I'm not going to get caught"
AlexDavis43
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Going back to school to hopefully gain some marketable skills is a great long-term strategy. Right now, he's talking about basically minimum wage jobs.
In the meantime, work for UPS or FedEx. Good pay, low skill, great health insurance. They offer shift work if that better suits his schedule (juggling with school courses).
Uber. Gotta hustle.
If he has some close friends or a significant other to live with, share the rent/bills/etc., to help him get out of his parent's house.
BigDadd7
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A full time job is a good start. Maybe even a second part time job. Life isn't going to get any easier while he's broke.
malfeasance
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He is not even working one full time job.
When I was his age, I was working full time. I was also working part time. I was also going to school full time.
Yes, none of that is a typo.
I was also not living at home with my parents while doing all of that.
Sorry, but money does not just fall in your lap for no reason. America has a great saying, "To make money."
You make it.
Money represents value which is exchanged. Whatever you are doing is worth more to the person paying than the money is worth. Otherwise, he would not pay it. This is very similar to you buying something. An item may be worth more to you than the money in your pocket. Raise the price high enough, and you say, "No, thanks." But a restored old Ford Bronco with 33" tall tires is probably worth more to you than, say, one 10cc vial of testosterone cypionate.
Value.
Money is value.
What value can you provide?
Whatever it is, get to providing it to somebody who values it more than their money.
So how to provide value in bigboichoi's current circumstances, right now, is to work. Do anything. But do it well. I have an acquaintance who started a lawn care related business with a pickup. Decades later he is a multimillionaire running that same business.
Others have made some specific suggestions above.
I do not know bigboichoi's IQ, level of diligence, or work ethic, so I cannot make specific recommendations. The reality is that IQ has a lot to do with one's level of income (in fact, I would argue that the correlation is far higher than most would expect and may be higher than any other single factor). But anybody, even very low IQ persons, can work a full time job and take part time work and make it in society without living with mom and dad. An average person (that's most Americans) can do better than just be stable and save and invest enough to be a millionaire before old age or retirement.
So, work.
That's step one.
That is my answer.
malfeasance
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Honestly, we are all reading this thinking, "Um, ok, that's nice. Now stop whining about it and go get a job."
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Yeah I think NJ only has one defensive driving course which I took I'm gonna talk to them about another driving improvement program...
Also been looking into moving to another state some states don't have point system I don't have any misdemeanor or anything so yeah trying to move asap none of this stuff shows up on background check
Also been looking into moving to another state some states don't have point system I don't have any misdemeanor or anything so yeah trying to move asap none of this stuff shows up on background check
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