Surprised I haven't seen that discussed here considering the first lesson is to go to the gym and lift heavy
Well, the first step is to
get your shit together.
Bodybuilding doesn't pay the bills.
If you are flat broke, then you could get a PART TIME job as a personal trainer at some upscale gym to pay the bills
and get some skills, but bodybuilding shouldn't be your priority,
your career is.
Taken from the rational male thread. All about living the same old way , or taking the red pill and seeing things differently, mainly the relationships between men and women. I'm taking it as mostly a constant way to improve as a male. But I'm still to new to it to quantify it
You should improve yourself in ALL areas in your life.
Your career/money, your looks (no, not just muscles, pay attention to your clothes and hair too), your manners (not too vulgar, not too snobby), your conversation skills, your spirituality, and so on.
There's a process, a lot of reading etc, but the first rule is to get back in the gym and lift heavy. That part I've figured out lol
While lifting can teach you discipline
it hurts, yet you shouldn't quit
BBing ain't a high priority goal by itself, your career or business should be.
So anyways, without the drama, I'm enjoying the philosophy, two main tenets so far, being the best man you can be, and that feminism is very very bad for everyone
(Most) women can't get their head straight, not even on the most basic things
What made them thing they can lead other women, men and society lives?
Let's hear it?! I know it pains you to say it... Are you here to grow or are you here to just say nice things about yourself?
What I have grown to learn about myself:
Narcisstic
Low self-esteem and confidence
Trust issues
Control issues
Abusive
Lack empathy and understand of other people's emotions and situations
Self-destructive behaviors - I got rid of those but it took A LOT of thinking to realize what I was doing.
I learned that I had been living my whole life as an asshole and was pushing people away from me rather than empower them! That really hurt coming to terms with that. I have created a lot of insecurities for my family members because of it. I am talking life changing things, my little bro has weight problems as a result of my abuse. I changed his whole self-perception.
That's not a problem by itself
as long as you have a goal and a plan to work on.
Just look at Donald Trump
He has all the above "issues" and more
yet he became a billionaire, and our President on his first try despite having the media, Hollywood, the demo-rats and
@Michael Scally MD against him
He had a goal and a plan and he got away with it
(but he doesn't have any confidence or self-destructive issues)
Again, having a goal and a plan and working on them is the key.