MESO-Rx Exclusive Bodybuilding monsters: For a bodybuilder to be called a ‘monster’...

[Millard]

Maybe Millard and his friend misinterpreted her tone. Tonal communication is often misconstrued and straight up miscommunicated by the person talking. They might think they are sounding one when when their voice actually sounds totally different, because we aren't in their head. You know when you heard yourself over the phone and you're like...wtf who is that? Maybe that was her that day.

Maybe she's like Dee Reynolds from Always Sunny and she thinks that by insulting guys and putting them down, they'll eventually get worn out and have sex with her.

I say we can't know anything we don't know by analyzing it years later in third person

Yeah, who knows? I guess it wasn't really the point of my post for me.

My friend and I both took her comments at face value: that she was truly disgusted by his physical appearance and considered him a freak (or monster) in the most negative sense of the word. Her expression was priceless.

And THAT was incredibly cool! He didn't need to believe she secretly wanted to fuck him to maintain his self-esteem and the legitimacy of his physique goals. His belief that she rejected his bodybuilding deviance was exactly what was self-rewarding!

 

[JesterBOB]

I know a lot of bodybuilders want to believe that all women are attracted to the bodybuilding physique and those who say there aren't secretly desire them but cannot admit it due to some psychological resistance. I don't agree. Preferences are all over the place for women (and men). I tend to believe the most obvious and simple explanation is the correct one in most cases.

That's right, I have the same opinion on this case.

 

[JesterBOB]

I'm with Mair on this one. People who feel superior often take it upon themselves to promote their idea of how individuals should look and behave and put others in their place even if no one asked for their opinion.

This is generally a modern problem. They consider themselves the smartest and the right to teach how to live and their point of view is the only true one.

 

[MairUnderwood(Researcher)]

I know a lot of bodybuilders want to believe that all women are attracted to the bodybuilding physique and those who say there aren't secretly desire them but cannot admit it due to some psychological resistance. I don't agree. Preferences are all over the place for women (and men). I tend to believe the most obvious and simple explanation is the correct one in most cases.

I wanted to say that but didn't want to upset anyone who uses this strategy to protect their self-esteem

 

[JesterBOB]

I wanted to say that but didn't want to upset anyone who uses this strategy to protect their self-esteem

I think they will not take it personally and too deeply, with resentment in their hearts