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Banned
Brothers,
It's funny that we are discussing this topic, because I recently started talking again to a girl that, even with my cold heart, I used to truly love years ago, and thought I could be with in a long term relationship with.
Here's the thing, it was magical and lovely when it was hot and heavy, but we ended on a bad note, infidelity on both sides. But hers toward me really hurt me, because it was in the midst of her expressing her deep love toward me. You see, I wasn't playing the game. I lost my alpha frame. I thought she was "different". I thought that love was real, when in reality, it's just a fleeting feeling. I lost my view that women are women.
Here's the caution brothers: You can never ever ever repair a broken relationship. Once the garbage has been taken out the curb, there's no use in picking though it. No matter how much you "love" a woman, in the back of your mind there will always be the time in Cancun she banged the guy. In the back of your mind there will always be the guy at the office she had an affair with. Whatever your situation may be.
You can say "well you fucked around too", but here's the thing. Men and women are different. When women cheat, it means something emotionally. When men cheat, they just need to get a physical release.
You never take a woman back who strays on you. It is over as over can be. A woman will never respect you if you take her back after she cheats. That I promise you. And you want a woman to respect you more than she loves you.
It's funny that we are discussing this topic, because I recently started talking again to a girl that, even with my cold heart, I used to truly love years ago, and thought I could be with in a long term relationship with.
Here's the thing, it was magical and lovely when it was hot and heavy, but we ended on a bad note, infidelity on both sides. But hers toward me really hurt me, because it was in the midst of her expressing her deep love toward me. You see, I wasn't playing the game. I lost my alpha frame. I thought she was "different". I thought that love was real, when in reality, it's just a fleeting feeling. I lost my view that women are women.
Here's the caution brothers: You can never ever ever repair a broken relationship. Once the garbage has been taken out the curb, there's no use in picking though it. No matter how much you "love" a woman, in the back of your mind there will always be the time in Cancun she banged the guy. In the back of your mind there will always be the guy at the office she had an affair with. Whatever your situation may be.
You can say "well you fucked around too", but here's the thing. Men and women are different. When women cheat, it means something emotionally. When men cheat, they just need to get a physical release.
You never take a woman back who strays on you. It is over as over can be. A woman will never respect you if you take her back after she cheats. That I promise you. And you want a woman to respect you more than she loves you.
