Finding new friends?

[luex]

Hey meso. So basically I’m gonna give you the short speel of my situation. I was dating a girl for 5 years and we broke up awhile ago.- I didn’t really notice I didn’t have many friends to do stuff with because I had always had her. So basically it’s been over for awhile and I just feel sort of lonely..I have some friends from school that I could hangout with but they always want to drink/do things that don’t really match up with my goals. I was curious how do you guys meet other people that are interested in this same sport/lifestyle? Feeling lonely at 21 years old is not normal at all I believe...especially being in college. I just feel like everyone around me has completely different goals right now. Not saying I don’t like to drink or party but I just know my time could be spent doing better things.

Sorry for the long read.

 

[Skull]

Find em in the gym. Those guys will more likely be into the same things as you...Goal wise. Hope the best for ya bro. I just recently ended a 11yr engagement thats got me pretty down an out, until i jus recently hooked up with one of my longtime best friends. Hes into the same shit im into so it worked out pretty well.

 

[DrinkFlintWater]

Never really set out to find friends, however, looking back over the years, 100s of friendships were made with people from work or wherever I was at that time in my life. True friends will find their way into your life organicallly and vice versa. I keep in contact with a handful of them to this day. Now when im not having quality time with my kids, I find myself hanging out with my neighbor usually building shit and he's got about 20 yrs on me..Anyway, I would keep at the dating scene. Youre young and single bud...if i could only go back to 21

 

[JackSmooth]

Exactly what @Skull said. No better place to find people that love what you do at the place you love to be.
Ive always been curious about how many of us on meso have possibly seen each other or even workout at the same gym and never knew it.

 

[MisterSuperGod]

Tinder = good bye loneliness... Possibly hello STD, but we'll cross that bridge when we come to it.

 

[ickyrica]

if i could only go back to 21

amen

 

[Skull]

Tinder = good bye loneliness... Possibly hello STD, but we'll cross that bridge when we come to it.

Bahahah lmfao...and Ewww thats nasty

 

[Seven]

I just recently ended a 11yr engagement thats got me pretty down an out

Bro? Sorry to hear that. Hang in there and be smart.

 

[rugerjitsu]

Stand up straight with your shoulders back and be fierce about what you want out of life. Take advantage of being lonely and free...fill your empty schedule with activities that improve your situation. Eventually, you will make friends organically...which is how good friends are made.

 

[Skull]

Bro? Sorry to hear that. Hang in there and be smart.

Thanks 7DG. Yeah bro it sucks big time but the constant fightin infront of the kids shit was gettin old an they don't need to be seein that shit. It was time for me to step, so i did wit my head held high. A day later, i was replaced smfdh. It is what it is smh. Im a survivor an will keep on keepin on

 

[Sk8man101]

Tinder = good bye loneliness... Possibly hello STD, but we'll cross that bridge when we come to it.

Haha yeah that’s for a different thread lol

 

[Sk8man101]

Find em in the gym. Those guys will more likely be into the same things as you...Goal wise. Hope the best for ya bro. I just recently ended a 11yr engagement thats got me pretty down an out, until i jus recently hooked up with one of my longtime best friends. Hes into the same shit im into so it worked out pretty well.

Was it that same tattoo chick??

 

[macabremitch]

so much shit you could do to meet new people dude you just gotta go out there. try the meetup app and go play some football or rugby with some guys, they’ll most likely be into working out etc

try a powerlifting gym/meet and get into that. that’s always fun

lately i’ve been bringing home cooked dishes to this organization that sets up near homeless ppl so they can eat. nice group of ppl to hang out with

get a motorcycle , tons of opportunities to meet ppl and fun events

start to smoke cigars, cigar shops are always a lot of fun, fun events , easy going pepole.

you’re single now, hit the gym hard, eat right, get some pussy and enjoy this summer.

 

[x11]

OP learn your lesson, that girl systematically isolated you from your friends so you could devote your entire existence to pleasing the narcissistic resource extracting bitch and you didn't notice cos you got high on her touching your dik occasionally.

If you don't learn from your error then get wat deserve and be a blue pill simp provider that cleans up after the true alphas for the rest of your life.

Didn't they learn you this at college, WTF you paying all those tuition for?

Also I can be your pal bro.

 

[Skull]

Was it that same tattoo chick??

Yes sir

 

[johntt44]

Yes sir

Sorry to hear! Hope everything turns around for you!

 

[wedorecover]

Find em in the gym. Those guys will more likely be into the same things as you...Goal wise. Hope the best for ya bro. I just recently ended a 11yr engagement thats got me pretty down an out, until i jus recently hooked up with one of my longtime best friends. Hes into the same shit im into so it worked out pretty well.

Wait a min are you saying you and the misses broke up ?

 

[Skull]

Wait a min are you saying you and the misses broke up ?

Sadly yes

 

[wedorecover]

Sadly yes

No fucking way sorry to hear that brother going thru the same shit let me know if u need anything man .....

 

[Skull]

No fucking way sorry to hear that brother going thru the same shit let me know if u need anything man .....

Thanks WDR. Im tryin to make the most of a bad situation. It was inevitable anyways. We lost trust a few years after my son was born, which was 8yrs ago. Bitch wants to keep keepn roun, then she can keep her ass away from me....