Good experiences with women. Do they exist?

One of the reasons I think we end up in similar situations with women, good or bad, is because we are attracted to a certain type of person. We might have range, but when it really comes down it, most of us are drawn to a certain type.

For some of us, the certain type of chick that we are attracted to always do that same thing the last chick did. You wonder why and then finally figure out, because you keep going after the same type of chick.

Personally, it took me a while to figure out that I kept ending up with these girls that most people would never have known were insecure. They were fun and gorgeous, but man they had some insecurities. As many of you probably know, girls with insecurities do all kinds of dumb shit that makes life difficult.

I switched up my type when I realized I kept going for the same. I found equally beautiful confident women that were just so much easier to get along with and didn’t come with all the drama.

If you keep ending up in the same situation, it might be time to switch it up. You know what they say, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over while expecting a different result.
 
I’m pushing 30 yrs old, even that’s just a crazy thought.

But I’ve been thru it all with women, I have a lot of types and things I like or am attracted to. Physically I went for these type of women.
Tatted up, blonde, fit, thicc, goth/emo, bimbo Barbie. Never had a favorite. Just into them all.

And I’ve been cheated on, played, lied to, manipulated etc. you name it. It’s happened. And it always happened from those “damaged” girls/women. Usually daddy issues of course. Or those who aren’t mentally and emotionally mature even at an older age.

Wasn’t until I actually realized the stupid things I’d deal with or just over look in women. All the red flags I’d just shrug off.
Going forward anytime I’d see those red flags I’d back off and move on to the next.

And from doing that. My girl now is completely different & amazing. The only person who has insanely changed my life. And given me a whole new view on everything. She has had my back thru some crazy stuff. And nothing has changed between us.

Just have to pick and choose them right I guess. As hot & freaky horny as the damaged people may be… you’re setting yourself up for a disaster lol
 
Maybe my perspectives is skewed or I just need to meet more people. But in all my life I have never had a consistently good experience with women. I dont want to be a misogynist but it sure seems like facts support that perspective.
I have never been cheated on but trying to help, love, save, or just be friends with a woman has always been the catalyst for my life falling apart.
Nowadays it looks like they have become even worse. I have as good a wife as you can get and I still don't see it lasting. I have never met a single woman that didn't tell me how their ex was a narcissist. Never met a single woman that didn't cheat, lie, manipulate, and be fake asf. So post your good experiences and I will tell you how it is all gonna fall apart lol.
You can't tell me that. Unless you have some special power. It's about waiting at least 3 yrs before marriage for one.
A person can't hide their true colors indefinitely. If you start seeing red flags wait even longer. Live together a few years , at least, if you see more red flags wait longer. Or end the relationship.
 
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