How long do you last in bed? Seriously

It gets really fucking annoying because I can last 30min to an hour before I can cum. Which sounds amazing to most but it’s so tiresome, it almost feels like cardio session to the point my legs are shaking from muscle spasms. Also by that time my girl is in pain and starts to get dry.
Seriously how long do you guys last with your partners? Also any tips so I could possibly cum faster?
Depending on the day and the amount of foreplay and dirty talk. When my girl talks dirty it helps me cum faster. Usually I'd say we average around 15 minutes or so. I could easily keep going if I wanted to though, but she gets sore. Usually it's by 10 mins I have made her internally cum a couple times (not counting if I went down on her, which I love to do and do often), then she is satisfied and wants me to cum. Then she starts talking real dirty and I'll fuck her more intenstly/harder and that makes me cum faster. I always cum inside as I gor a vasectomy (best thing I ever did). The sex me and my girl have, both of us are highly focused on pleasuring the other person. Sometimes my favorite thing to do is say "I love you," then cum inside her (pussy or ass) while just making intense eye contact an saying. It's incredibly intimate and I just absolurely love it. I never want to cum before her though. Basically I can pretty much last as long as I want to, more or less... but it pretty much always takes at least 8-10 minutes.

There's been times when I have taken 30, 45 mins or so, usually because I am on a cycle or something and something is a little out of whack.

Imo you taking a break from all sexual activity and ceasec all exposure to porn or gang naked women pics for a week will like bring your time down.

Idk if you take any medications or recreational drugs. But any of the following can cause delayed and less intense orgasm: various antidepressants; benzos like lorazepam or xanax; opioid painkillers/kratom/tramadol; too much THC (marijuana); too much alcohol; and of course hormones being whacked out due to gear usage or PCT. All things to consider. Also if you use a fleshlight or other toy to jerk it then that can totally desensitized you down there.

My girl talking dirty, "I want you to cum inside my tight pussy/ass" "I want your cum" "Cum for me baby" blah blah all that stuff helps me cum.

Sexy lingerie helps me cum.

One other thing, instead if fixating my vision on the dick going in and out of the pussy/ass, I will look at like her lower back and half-focus on the bigger picture. The shape of her body, her big ass bouncing, then use more energy to focus on the FEELING of what's happening to my dick. That can often help A LOT. Really makes a big difference!

Have you had your prolactin and estrogen checked? Might be worth trying some P5P, 100 MG twice per day.

Do you jerk off in the morning or something and then take a long time at night? Solution, stop the morning sessions!
 
Depending on the day and the amount of foreplay and dirty talk. When my girl talks dirty it helps me cum faster. Usually I'd say we average around 15 minutes or so. I could easily keep going if I wanted to though, but she gets sore. Usually it's by 10 mins I have made her internally cum a couple times (not counting if I went down on her, which I love to do and do often), then she is satisfied and wants me to cum. Then she starts talking real dirty and I'll fuck her more intenstly/harder and that makes me cum faster. I always cum inside as I gor a vasectomy (best thing I ever did). The sex me and my girl have, both of us are highly focused on pleasuring the other person. Sometimes my favorite thing to do is say "I love you," then cum inside her (pussy or ass) while just making intense eye contact an saying. It's incredibly intimate and I just absolurely love it. I never want to cum before her though. Basically I can pretty much last as long as I want to, more or less... but it pretty much always takes at least 8-10 minutes.

There's been times when I have taken 30, 45 mins or so, usually because I am on a cycle or something and something is a little out of whack.

Imo you taking a break from all sexual activity and ceasec all exposure to porn or gang naked women pics for a week will like bring your time down.

Idk if you take any medications or recreational drugs. But any of the following can cause delayed and less intense orgasm: various antidepressants; benzos like lorazepam or xanax; opioid painkillers/kratom/tramadol; too much THC (marijuana); too much alcohol; and of course hormones being whacked out due to gear usage or PCT. All things to consider. Also if you use a fleshlight or other toy to jerk it then that can totally desensitized you down there.

My girl talking dirty, "I want you to cum inside my tight pussy/ass" "I want your cum" "Cum for me baby" blah blah all that stuff helps me cum.

Sexy lingerie helps me cum.

One other thing, instead if fixating my vision on the dick going in and out of the pussy/ass, I will look at like her lower back and half-focus on the bigger picture. The shape of her body, her big ass bouncing, then use more energy to focus on the FEELING of what's happening to my dick. That can often help A LOT. Really makes a big difference!

Have you had your prolactin and estrogen checked? Might be worth trying some P5P, 100 MG twice per day.

Do you jerk off in the morning or something and then take a long time at night? Solution, stop the morning sessions!

I was fucking this girl and she was like angry with it...she would like grit her teeth and say "cum in me! Cum in me!". Dude, that made me blast off like hand grenade.
 
Either y’all have ugly ass partners or you’re 10000% lying for no reason on an Internet forum.

Not one single one of you idiots are FUCKING for 1 hour straight or lmao 2 hours.

Keep thinking your in 9th grade tryin to impress.

Girls literally enjoy 10-25 mins tops , unless you guys are getting up to get snacks in between lol
 
It gets really fucking annoying because I can last 30min to an hour before I can cum. Which sounds amazing to most but it’s so tiresome, it almost feels like cardio session to the point my legs are shaking from muscle spasms. Also by that time my girl is in pain and starts to get dry.
Seriously how long do you guys last with your partners? Also any tips so I could possibly cum faster?
You need to stop masturbating and looking at porn. I assure you will have 10x better sex if you at least give yourself a tolerance break. Are your hormones in balance? Do you take any sedatives? I have this problem sometimes related to these things. Also do you feel good about the relationship? My dick is a good barometer for how things are going. If im not attracted to the person anymore because of relationship issues then i have trouble cumming and getting hard sometimes. If I feel good about a girl im like if superman and a pornstar had a baby but thats also dose dependant lol.
Oh yea I forgot one thing. Body temp. Ive heard there is a relationship betweeb blood pressure and orgasm. The hotter it is the higher the blood pressure the harder it is to come. So if the ambient temp is high or your overworked this can prevent you from coming
 
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Either y’all have ugly ass partners or you’re 10000% lying for no reason on an Internet forum.

Not one single one of you idiots are FUCKING for 1 hour straight or lmao 2 hours.

Keep thinking your in 9th grade tryin to impress.

Girls literally enjoy 10-25 mins tops , unless you guys are getting up to get snacks in between lol
You can't do it without snacks lol. Keep a mini fridge next to the bed with hydration and snacks.
 
Either y’all have ugly ass partners or you’re 10000% lying for no reason on an Internet forum.

Not one single one of you idiots are FUCKING for 1 hour straight or lmao 2 hours.

Keep thinking your in 9th grade tryin to impress.

Girls literally enjoy 10-25 mins tops , unless you guys are getting up to get snacks in between lol

I don't lie or brag on this forum. Dude....I've fucked for an hour straight many times. It's usually with girls that are new or that I'm not that familiar with. Some of them love it. For some reason, the ones you are with for a while just know how to make you cum. Or maybe it's something in your brain...I don't know.
 
For me it's just I really enjoy the time. Sure we may fuck for like 45min max rest 15 go again for 20 more or less rest again 20 rest ect. But just nothing else but going as soon as you are both ready again.
If your not just getting yours and doing other stuff maybe not even penetration but working her up in between I don't think it counts as stopping either.
 
I don't lie or brag on this forum. Dude....I've fucked for an hour straight many times. It's usually with girls that are new or that I'm not that familiar with. Some of them love it. For some reason, the ones you are with for a while just know how to make you cum. Or maybe it's something in your brain...I don't know.

Also, it could be a proprietary thing. Like when your fucking your long term partner, you think in your brain "this is my pussy", and then it makes you cum faster.

But I hope you all know the danger in thinking that any girl is "yours". That's why the Red Pill guys came up with a great little slogan "SHE'S NOT YOURS, ITS JUST YOUR TURN".

That way when she has a change of heart or cheats on you, you have no hurt feelings about the matter. You just move on to the next one. Don't ever get emotionally invested in a woman. Ever.
 
Solid 30mins. Girl always gets off first. If I take all the sexual enhancers out now with dapoxetine in them say goodbye to ever cumming. Some major blue balls.
 
Either y’all have ugly ass partners or you’re 10000% lying for no reason on an Internet forum.

Not one single one of you idiots are FUCKING for 1 hour straight or lmao 2 hours.

Keep thinking your in 9th grade tryin to impress.

Girls literally enjoy 10-25 mins tops , unless you guys are getting up to get snacks in between lol
This is how I know you’ve never run tren before
 
As much as I like fucking an anus, it just doesn't have the same feeling as a vagina squeezing on your shaft.
That’s because your fucking a woman’s ass. Try a man’s ass, It’s as tight as a drum. I squat 5 plates and I can’t even fit my pointer finger in my ass.
 
That’s because your fucking a woman’s ass. Try a man’s ass, It’s as tight as a drum. I squat 5 plates and I can’t even fit my pointer finger in my ass.
I'm only doing 150mg of Tren weekly right now. I'd definitely have to get closer to 500mg to get that point. But it sounds intriguing.
 
If I take enough vaigara or cialis, I can't cum unless I put some really hard pressure on my penis....or she's sucking it. Suck jobs will make me cum regardless.
Same man lol. I beat off with a death grip. Unless my girl is flexing her vagina or is using two hands to grip my dick while she sucks it, It’s difficult to cum.
 
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