It gets really fucking annoying because I can last 30min to an hour before I can cum. Which sounds amazing to most but it’s so tiresome, it almost feels like cardio session to the point my legs are shaking from muscle spasms. Also by that time my girl is in pain and starts to get dry.
Seriously how long do you guys last with your partners? Also any tips so I could possibly cum faster?
Depending on the day and the amount of foreplay and dirty talk. When my girl talks dirty it helps me cum faster. Usually I'd say we average around 15 minutes or so. I could easily keep going if I wanted to though, but she gets sore. Usually it's by 10 mins I have made her internally cum a couple times (not counting if I went down on her, which I love to do and do often), then she is satisfied and wants me to cum. Then she starts talking real dirty and I'll fuck her more intenstly/harder and that makes me cum faster. I always cum inside as I gor a vasectomy (best thing I ever did). The sex me and my girl have, both of us are highly focused on pleasuring the other person. Sometimes my favorite thing to do is say "I love you," then cum inside her (pussy or ass) while just making intense eye contact an saying. It's incredibly intimate and I just absolurely love it. I never want to cum before her though. Basically I can pretty much last as long as I want to, more or less... but it pretty much always takes at least 8-10 minutes.
There's been times when I have taken 30, 45 mins or so, usually because I am on a cycle or something and something is a little out of whack.
Imo you taking a break from all sexual activity and ceasec all exposure to porn or gang naked women pics for a week will like bring your time down.
Idk if you take any medications or recreational drugs. But any of the following can cause delayed and less intense orgasm: various antidepressants; benzos like lorazepam or xanax; opioid painkillers/kratom/tramadol; too much THC (marijuana); too much alcohol; and of course hormones being whacked out due to gear usage or PCT. All things to consider. Also if you use a fleshlight or other toy to jerk it then that can totally desensitized you down there.
My girl talking dirty, "I want you to cum inside my tight pussy/ass" "I want your cum" "Cum for me baby" blah blah all that stuff helps me cum.
Sexy lingerie helps me cum.
One other thing, instead if fixating my vision on the dick going in and out of the pussy/ass, I will look at like her lower back and half-focus on the bigger picture. The shape of her body, her big ass bouncing, then use more energy to focus on the FEELING of what's happening to my dick. That can often help A LOT. Really makes a big difference!
Have you had your prolactin and estrogen checked? Might be worth trying some P5P, 100 MG twice per day.
Do you jerk off in the morning or something and then take a long time at night? Solution, stop the morning sessions!