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Try using MUSE again. It comes (pun not intended) in different strengths as well, so see if you can get the strongest (another pun not intended).I took a good dose of MT2 and 100 mg of Viagra last night. Got an erection 3 times but lost it by the time I went to put it in her. She was a good sport. The 4 Try was actually successful but the damn buildup that went on for 45 minutes before was too much and I came within 2 minutes. I got her off with my fingers and mouth beforehand and she kept saying " no no its fine, I don't need dick". But immediately afrer we finished up the fastest sex in the world, she had the biggest smile on her face. My performance was awful, but just showed me how much she needed intercourse even for a minute to feel better.
I feel pretty bad about everything, but the mental thing may play a huge part. I noticed when I lost it the first time, she was encouraging and just cuddled me and said not to worry so much. It gradually started to come back as I cuddled and just tried to relax.
I'm calling my urologist today to get x-rays. If this is mental, its one hell of a mental block.
I'll say this about alprostadil, with viagra if I get ahead of my wife I got to not think about sex but there is a risk of loosing the erection. With the injection, I can turn sex off and stay the hardest I've ever experienced. Zero pressure sex. So obviously I like this med. I've had ED my whole life. But only at 57 was I diagnosed with venous leak. Its a mild one but its been a thorn in the side.
Venous leaks can be repaired but usually return within a couple years. TRT can fix a third of them. If one doesn't respond to alprostadil, then one can get an implant.
Read one case of a guy that could only get erection while standing. So leaks can be positional. Its all weird and docs admit that little is actually known. But there are options. YOU have options. Pursue this med, talk with a good urologist, and also do the shrink thing.
Since trazadone worked at times, I suspect a touchy neurological thing as well.