Is it wrong that I don't Allow People to work in with me?

[BoloYang2023]

I really thought the others were too harsh with you until you dropped this.

Now, I would even run on the same treadmill with you on it.

can we stepmill together but serious lol i got it im taking it as a grain of salt and gonna try and do better.

 

[Mongo966]

Imagine someone actually looking at another’s “message to reaction ratio” and thinking it matters.
Good stuff.

It only matters if you're the kind of person who wants to be heard when they speak. A ratio like yours might indicate that nobody appreciates a thing you have to say about anything. On this board you have the privilege of being told directly by lots of people that your attitude towards others is complete dogshit. Rather than appreciating the feedback and self-reflecting, you keep telling yourself it's everyone else in the room who has the problem and not you. That's why we're here once again in numbers, calling you the fuckstick that you continue to be. You're welcome once again.

 

[JeffroCat]

can we stepmill together but serious lol i got it im taking it as a grain of salt and gonna try and do better.

Thumbs up for taking your beating like a man.

 

[Spaceman Spiff]

serious lol i got it im taking it as a grain of salt and gonna try and do better.

yea, I think just look at it as situational for sure.

Maybe its a sign you need to switch gyms lol

 

[BoloYang2023]

Thumbs up for taking your beating like a man.

lol its more of my own mental beating its odd when i try to explain that things in the physical world are never as bad as the prison im locked in inside my mind. lol but its just maybe i figured i should do better

 

[Benf15harp]

can we stepmill together but serious lol i got it im taking it as a grain of salt and gonna try and do better.

Don’t acquiesce to anyone. Especially not people on the internet. Ffs.

 

[Mongo966]

Don’t acquiesce to anyone. Especially not people on the internet. Ffs.

Ben doesn't ask questions unless he already knows the answer.
Right, Ben?

 

[narta]

Ben doesn't ask questions unless he already knows the answer.
Right, Ben?

Ben is an ex athlete that knows everything, except basic things.

 

[BoloYang2023]

lmfao this is so far off topic... howd we get here lmfao. its like the game of telephone i feel like lol, but i did share weights with someone today lmfao baby steps

 

[buck]

I find that people that have issues in the gym seem to be people that have issues with life. Nothing has never gone the way i would hope and don't expect it to. But it is entertaining watching the chaos.

 

[BoloYang2023]

there is always a online dr phil and oprah lurking in the shadows. but non the less I do appreciate your outlook and opinion. good old freedom of speech naw but some yes and some no. some people are just assholes ie me lol

 

[BoloYang2023]

It only matters if you're the kind of person who wants to be heard when they speak. A ratio like yours might indicate that nobody appreciates a thing you have to say about anything. On this board you have the privilege of being told directly by lots of people that your attitude towards others is complete dogshit. Rather than appreciating the feedback and self-reflecting, you keep telling yourself it's everyone else in the room who has the problem and not you. That's why we're here once again in numbers, calling you the fuckstick that you continue to be. You're welcome once again.

lol i just read this lmfao and fucking died laughing but this is why i love the internet because god damn if people in real life was as honest as people here on the forum maybe the usa wouldnt be such a fucking shitbox currently lol. and i wouldnt be such a fucking dick lol maybe at least id be better than i am now lol.

 

[Mongo966]

lol i just read this lmfao and fucking died laughing but this is why i love the internet because god damn if people in real life was as honest as people here on the forum maybe the usa wouldnt be such a fucking shitbox currently lol. and i wouldnt be such a fucking dick lol maybe at least id be better than i am now lol.

Yeah, humans generally don't appreciate brutal honesty in any form.

The level of honesty we can have on the internet can be a good or bad thing, depending on how you look at it. I don't think it's done much to reduce the number of fucksticks we have in society.

Even before the internet, when being punched between the eyes was considered a reasonable part of the social contract we all signed every time we went out in public, there would be fistfights all the time. I just think douchebags will be douchebags whether we tell them about it or not. They rarely see it from our perspective.
I'm glad you aren't a douchebag, as you're obviously attempting to consider the advice you've been given. In that way, you're an exception.

One of the reasons the fellas on this board come down on people so aggressively is because they know there is a really good chance the person isn't going to listen in the first place, and that's a shitty feeling when all you want to do is set someone in the right direction.

 

[Coconutz]

I'm not going to make a judgment about what's right or wrong. But if you were using equipment in the gym that I wanted to share, I wouldn't give you a choice.

Bahahaha. You must get smacked in the mouth a lot.

I personally NEVER ask to use equipment someone else is using. There plenty of other stuff i could be using. So therefore when somebody asks ME to work in, I say "your gonna have to wait for this just like I did" as I grab my phone and start sending an email just to see what the tough guy wants to do about it.

 

[Coconutz]

The guys who do not like anybody working in typically look the same now as they did three years ago.

Or maybe those guys train in martial arts gyms as well. Ever check those guys ears??

 

[JeffroCat]

You must get smacked in the mouth a lot.

Only a manic depressive with an estrogen addiction would be crazy enough to try and smack me in the mouth. Smoking crack would be better for your health.

I personally NEVER ask to use equipment someone else is using.

No one cares what you do at the gym. You don't even care what you do at the gym. If and when you do go to the gym, you almost certainly sit on a random piece of equipment you don't know how to use and read a romance novel for an hour.

 

[sfbizercer]

i just dont see the big deal and apparently it is. Like I've literally waited 12 mins for a rack or a bench so im confused why its such a big deal that i dont allow others to work in when i dont expect them to allow me to work in

Well your first problem is expecting everyone to have the patience, and most importantly the time, that you do. Most people, believe it or not, would rather have a short interaction and get straight to work, than stare at someone talking/sitting on their phone and intermittently hitting sets for 10-15 minutes

 

[laclark89]

Only a manic depressive with an estrogen addiction would be crazy enough to try and smack me in the mouth. Smoking crack would be better for your health.

No one cares what you do at the gym. You don't even care what you do at the gym. If and when you do go to the gym, you almost certainly sit on a random piece of equipment you don't know how to use and read a romance novel for an hour.

What did ice cube say in check yo self,

You better check yourself before u wreck yourself, cuz messin with me is bad for your health. Lmao.

 

[Coconutz]

Only a manic depressive with an estrogen addiction would be crazy enough to try and smack me in the mouth. Smoking crack would be better for your health.

No one cares what you do at the gym. You don't even care what you do at the gym. If and when you do go to the gym, you almost certainly sit on a random piece of equipment you don't know how to use and read a romance novel for an hour.

Bahahahahah! I love getting you meat heads panties in a twist! Lifting weights and not listening to somebody that doesnt want you to work in with them, doesn't make you tough one bit. Makes you a coward bullying pussy. I'll admit that I roll much more often than stare at myself in the mirror next to you ego freaks. My muscles grow from picking grown men up these days. My days of trying to reach 300lbs are way gone at 42, and im healthier than ive ever been. I'd love to see that fragile ego and even more fragile tendons and ligaments try to bring that attitude around MY gym.

It's comical how the majority of bodybuilders get their tendons literally ripped from the bone on the mats when they think they are tougher than somebody that gets choked out for fun. At 6'2 225 and my brown belt and TRT, i'd put you in the fucking hospital with strictly my legs you bitch. Then you can tell all your friends an estrogen addicted, manic depressive, crack smoker, reading romance novels was the one who put you on crutches for 3 months as your fake ass muscles fizzle away.

I'll put my money where my mouth is ANY day of the week young man. I do this daily for fun. Why don't we both be entrepreneurs about all this. Lets video this live on a social media platform for 10 bucks and donate it to board. Im dead fucking serious.

 

[Spaceman Spiff]

Bahahahahah! I love getting you meat heads panties in a twist! Lifting weights and not listening to somebody that doesnt want you to work in with them, doesn't make you tough one bit. Makes you a coward bullying pussy. I'll admit that I roll much more often than stare at myself in the mirror next to you ego freaks. My muscles grow from picking grown men up these days. My days of trying to reach 300lbs are way gone at 42, and im healthier than ive ever been. I'd love to see that fragile ego and even more fragile tendons and ligaments try to bring that attitude around MY gym.

It's comical how the majority of bodybuilders get their tendons literally ripped from the bone on the mats when they think they are tougher than somebody that gets choked out for fun. At 6'2 225 and my brown belt and TRT, i'd put you in the fucking hospital with strictly my legs you bitch. Then you can tell all your friends an estrogen addicted, manic depressive, crack smoker, reading romance novels was the one who put you on crutches for 3 months as your fake ass muscles fizzle away.

I'll put my money where my mouth is ANY day of the week young man. I do this daily for fun. Why don't we both be entrepreneurs about all this. Lets video this live on a social media platform for 10 bucks and donate it to board. Im dead fucking serious.

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