Is Meso Losing Its Edge?

[Earthworm Jim]

take @Bandern @DoubleDeez for example, they are a couple and they got banned for using "alts" when one them is posting in woman threads about woman bloodwork and the other is posting pictures of himself and his bodybuilding progress. both me and them tried to contact meso about and we're completely ignored by the mods

completely bs bans on alot of good folks

its not that i dont wanna participate

it just gets god damn boring when the new members are everywhere ruining every thread and the active posters keeping the culture up gets punished. @Ateam2023 for example is having a headache from the mods because he is critizing new members breaking the forum ettique.

im not reading these tiktok stacks over and over again. people quoting ai, theres just not much interesting left back on the forum, neither content or integrity or orginality is found in any post

for me thats why i stopped posting much on regular threads.

They were also trolls who used memetics warfare to breakdown useful, intelligent discussions.

 

[Earthworm Jim]

Sounds like some of you should go read a book called Non-Violent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg then sit and think about what the effect of your words really are

 

[Superchicken]

Keep the UG readable if you pay, but restrict commenting for 3 months minimal.
New members can still, find sources, Observe, Learn, Fail and Figure it out like the rest of us did. Half the BS in that subforum would disappear instantly. Also adjust the forum so that once a new member is accepted, they can't do anything till going through the new member section and creating a post... A template post should be used.

I’m part of another online community and this is exactly what’s done. If people mess up after that 3 mos period, they lose posting privileges for 2 weeks and then get banned if they fuck up again.

 

[IndividualMan]

Sounds like some of you should go read a book called Non-Violent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg then sit and think about what the effect of your words really are

the one work of literature to be propagated by corporate midwits and truly ruin social interactions in the workplace and public spaces until this day.

few things have been as groundbreakingly numbing as seeing non-curious and non-inquisitive corporate induviduals "learn" about nonviolent communication from a shitty pastel powerpoint read off by a failed supplement salesperson and advertiser on his newest grift as a systemic conflict resolution coach.

The aftermath of half listening to someone telling you about parts of a mid book and then discussing amongst the half listeners, further misunderstanding the points made more and more as time goes on, resulting in:"anything that might hurt someone feelings in any way shape or form should be prohibited"
has been horrendous

 

[Earthworm Jim]

the one work of literature to be propagated by corporate midwits and truly ruin social interactions in the workplace and public spaces until this day.

few things have been as groundbreakingly numbing as seeing non-curious and non-inquisitive corporate induviduals "learn" about nonviolent communication from a shitty pastel powerpoint read off by a failed supplement salesperson and advertiser on his newest grift as a systemic conflict resolution coach.

The aftermath of half listening to someone telling you about parts of a mid book and then discussing amongst the half listeners, further misunderstanding the points made more and more as time goes on, resulting in:"anything that might hurt someone feelings in any way shape or form should be prohibited"
has been horrendous

It has helped my marriage a ton. Haha. Now when someone gets agitated I can parse what their saying into what they are feeling, needing, and requesting. Helped me get by in prison too.

 

[IndividualMan]

It has helped my marriage a ton. Haha. Now when someone gets agitated I can parse what their saying into what they are feeling, needing, and requesting. Helped me get by in prison too.

fair. actually reading it can be very productive.
But for me it will always be soured because of those fuckaaaah presentations that were held in the mid 2010s in every company I know, with noone actually reading the damn thing and only taking the most braindead aspects/misunderstandings with them.

 

[SmallTitsIRL]

It has helped my marriage a ton. Haha. Now when someone gets agitated I can parse what their saying into what they are feeling, needing, and requesting. Helped me get by in prison too.

I mean if you went from beating your spouse to actually talking, ofc it helped your marriage lmao