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I hear you on that. Dude catch her coming out of the shower- check this. Maybe she's stressed the hell out. Listen.
Get food prepared. Tell her to shower while you cook. Have it all ready, and catch her coming out of the shower- grab her and tell her how it's going to go down. Tell her no excuses the kids are out, supper is done, and everything is perfect. Set yourself up.
Flabby
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Sounds good except I do prepare her meals and cook and clean for the next day either while she's showering or not (we usually shower together). I'm literally just at a loss. I think I'm just gonna give up and think about other things and try to just get over it lol
Hey @corbin i know your pain bud...definitely get her hormones checked i went through the exact issue with my wife it makes you feel about as wanted as spray farts in church.
We did a test and found my wifes estrogen was sky high and her test levels where non existent. Long story short shes leveling out now and its gotten alot better. So if its hormones theirs still hope man.
We did a test and found my wifes estrogen was sky high and her test levels where non existent. Long story short shes leveling out now and its gotten alot better. So if its hormones theirs still hope man.
Flabby
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I might ask her to go to the obgyn and get her hormones tested.. Yeah man, I just want to feel wanted. Like she wants me around. She's happy to see me after work. But that physical attraction is still needed. Especially when I work my ass off for 2 hours a day in the gym. She does too and I fucking drool when she gets naked whether she's at her worst or best.
Believe me i know its miserable.. If it is hormonal it still will take a minute to get her on track but if you love her its worth the wait
Flabby
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I have every intention of asking her to marry me. That's the thing. If I didn't care, this thread wouldn't exist. If it was just about getting my rocks off, I wouldn't care.
If it's her hormones, you can't take it personally brother. You need to mention the issue, if she's unwilling to address it and look into it, you might want to consider moving on.... If she denies your feelings/concerns now.... It'll only get worse. Good luck .
ILUV2LIFT
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People want what they can't have. With that in mind, stop kissing her ass and making it so easy for her to not want you. Looks like you are doing all the work and she doesn't have to do shit. I've been with nice guys like you. Guess what...the guys that I had to pine for lasted longer in my life than they guys who made it too easy. I'm not saying treat her like shit, but do pull back a little. Make her do some of the work.
Don't want her so bad...or at least don't show that you want her so bad.
Don't want her so bad...or at least don't show that you want her so bad.
Flabby
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I'm probably going to stop staying with her for a while and see how that works out. The heart yearns for what it can't have? I guess? I dunno. Lol. I've got a few more months left in my apartment and I think I'm going to spend some time away to make sure she really wants what I have to offer
Flabby
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Stuff like that makes it harder when there's a kid involved though
it's not your kid isn't it?
Flabby
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No but I'm the closest thing to a real father he's ever had and I love the kid like he's my own. Spitting image of me.
you are seriously digging a hole for yourself.
Older woman, no sex, kid that's not yours... I mean... you should really reconsider the whole thing. You are too young to understand it but you will... and probably will hit you hard in the face.
ILUV2LIFT
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I agree with Sampei.
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