You have no idea what you have got yourself into. There is a small group of people who are a little "different" than most here who are going to make your life hell. Sorry, unfortunately the best you can do is hit IGNORE for the crazies and then try to communicate with those who are are not. It won't take take long to find out which are which.
Their intentions all started in the right place but their methods became the uncontrolled behavior you are about to see. There are some people who can try to guide you in there right direction here on Meso, but not theses individuals.
You need to test and you can use Stanford's thread to see what an up and up domestic source does.