Parent? Read this important info about their behaviors and what they mean.

[MisterSuperGod]

You don't have to make people laugh to make them happy man. Just be there and give yourself. That's the way. People love you for you, not the superficial crap. Do you really think that if you weren't funny anymore and if you lost your traps that people wouldn't love you?! Stop that thinking. Stop beating yourself up.

Why do you love yourself?
If you want to copy paste this answer then do it: "Why wouldn't I love myself"

i love myself because there's only one of me and i am unique. If there was two of me, i'd marry the other me and fuck my brains out every night without an ounce of second thought or apprehension.

 

[Sworder]

i love myself because there's only one of me and i am unique. If there was two of me, i'd marry the other me and fuck my brains out every night without an ounce of second thought or apprehension.

There we go!

But not the fudging part, because fudging isn't love. Right? Just because we marry and fudge somebody doesn't mean we love them. We love with our hearts and minds, not our phallus.

 

[Sworder]

When a parent is stressed. The kids will feed off that energy and become stressed and throw those red flags out there.

We all like to think we are happy. And we can be. However, do you think there is no room for improvement?

 

[LeoTC]

When a parent is stressed. The kids will feed off that energy and become stressed and throw those red flags out there.

We all like to think we are happy. And we can be. However, do you think there is no room for improvement?

Room for improvement doesn't equate to a lack of happiness.

 

[Sworder]

Room for improvement doesn't equate to a lack of happiness.

I didn't say there is 0 happiness! I am saying, if your happiness level is at 50. Let's go to 60!

What makes you happy?

 

[Sworder]

You need to let down that mask because life has been SO HARD!!! Once you do that, you can start feeling peoples emotions better. Let your guard down. It's been up for too long as a self defense mechanism.
Relax, disarm yourself and be defensive in life instead of offensive and aggressive. Drive slow and not in the fast lane +10, calling people left and right stupid in traffic. Life is too short.

I can see it in your words. They are bleeding! You are not your tattoos, piercings, beards, all that. You are already a man, nothing to prove. You are unique already. Stop feeding the ego.
Stop watching porn and degrading women type of stuff. You are basically conditioning your brain to think lowly of women. Calling a woman a "bitch" is a LEARNED behavior. That is why things are so shocking when one person says a politically incorrect statement. It says A LOT about them.

Wake up. I know you guys are smart so in 6 months you are going to start to notice these behaviors. Messy, overweight, rock/rap, any weird mannerism too, stutters is especially rare in females. All phobias are learned, your self defense mechanism is learned so you could survive the hard years. Open up more, stop comparing. Tren doesn't help..

 

[johntt44]

You need to let down that mask because life has been SO HARD!!! Once you do that, you can start feeling peoples emotions better. Let your guard down. It's been up for too long as a self defense mechanism.
Relax, disarm yourself and be defensive in life instead of offensive and aggressive. Drive slow and not in the fast lane +10, calling people left and right stupid in traffic. Life is too short.

I can see it in your words. They are bleeding! You are not your tattoos, piercings, beards, all that. You are already a man, nothing to prove. You are unique already. Stop feeding the ego.
Stop watching porn and degrading women type of stuff. You are basically conditioning your brain to think lowly of women. Calling a woman a "bitch" is a LEARNED behavior. That is why things are so shocking when one person says a politically incorrect statement. It says A LOT about them.

Wake up. I know you guys are smart so in 6 months you are going to start to notice these behaviors. Messy, overweight, rock/rap, any weird mannerism too, stutters is especially rare in females. All phobias are learned, your self defense mechanism is learned so you could survive the hard years. Open up more, stop comparing. Tren doesn't help..

Ivre never called a woman "bitch" in my life.

 

[Havah]

Hello,

Female:
-The music she listens to is going to reveal her mood.
-The clothes she wears, if it is brand names. Does she have tank tops that show a lot of skin? That is a sign of a lack of a father figure.
-Is her room messy? What about the car? Car is more about how much she values it. If it is dirty all the time that is because she didn't earn it herself. Somebody gave it to her. The room being messy tells you about their mental state. Messy means there is some stress.
-Is she depressed??
-Does she spend a lot of time with a dog, or animals and kids?

If your daughter exhibits these signs.
If you have a son, what types of video games he plays says a lot.
Is he mean to other kids? Any bullying on him?

You need to start loving her more, show love and support. Don't worry about being right all the time. You are probably forcing her to compete a lot to prove she is worth something. You don't want this to go on past 18 as she will then have "Daddy issues" and some abusive SOB will take advantage of her. PM me if interested.

Also, you should NEVER let your child watch R rated movies.

What a huge load of bullshit, its insane, lol

Are you a psychologist ?

 

[johntt44]

Political correctness is mostly crap nowadays. It's gone way too far down the rabbit hole. You have tits and a dick, wear eyeshadow with a mustache? I'm supposed to know what pronoun to use, really?

 

[Sworder]

What a huge load of bullshit, its insane, lol

Are you a psychologist ?

Well, if I am a psychologist or not is irrelevant. That's an argument from authority. Basically, if I say yes, that gives me more credibility. You can't make arguments that way! Just because a person is a MD doesn't make them correct or give them special knowledge. We like to think that way, but that's wrong.

Anyway, why don't you tell me about your daughter? Or her boyfriend? What type of guys does she date?

 

[Sworder]

Ivre never called a woman "bitch" in my life.

Good! When people call women bitches that's a huge red flag! Men that call other men "bitches" is also a red flag. You can learn A LOT from what language a person uses if you put your glasses on. Everything we do is learned, same goes for me.

Same goes for using racial slurs. Physical violence is learned behavior too.

 

[Sworder]

Room for improvement doesn't equate to a lack of happiness.

If you are going to flash that "Die Empty" tattoo, let's hear what makes you happy!

I really hope you get to a place one day where you get rid of that tattoo. You are conditioning yourself with negativity with that. Put a sun or something warm by the exit of your house. Condition positive messages!

 

[Sworder]

Political correctness is mostly crap nowadays. It's gone way too far down the rabbit hole. You have tits and a dick, wear eyeshadow with a mustache? I'm supposed to know what pronoun to use, really?

The root cause to all of that is what I am talking about. Self love. Forget about the world.

Do you think the media can push people's psyche so hard that they want to change genders? How radical are you willing to change to achieve freedom?
You guys have gotten hints your entire life.

"It is only when you have lost everything that you can gain everything" paraphrased from Fight Club. Fight club is a movie in which a person's drive to material happiness leads to mental problems. Wake up

 

[Havah]

Well, if I am a psychologist or not is irrelevant. That's an argument from authority. Basically, if I say yes, that gives me more credibility. You can't make arguments that way! Just because a person is a MD doesn't make them correct or give them special knowledge. We like to think that way, but that's wrong.

Anyway, why don't you tell me about your daughter? Or her boyfriend? What type of guys does she date?

You got it all wrong
If you re a psychologist i could understabd why you d think the stuff you re saying is stupid
That d be dumb but i couldve understand

If you re not you re just downright stupid, and i dont deal with stupids

Take care

 

[Sworder]

You got it all wrong
If you re a psychologist i could understabd why you d think the stuff you re saying is stupid
That d be dumb but i couldve understand

If you re not you re just downright stupid, and i dont deal with stupids

No, you are doing text book projecting. You came in here and read the subject matter and it hit home hard enough to warrant a response from you. You want to deny it is true to yourself that's why your first sentence both this post and the first post is "You are wrong." When you say that you are basically saying "Yes, you are right but I want to deny it to myself."

Why are you so scared to talk to somebody "stupid?"
What type of BF does your daughter have? Humor this stupid guy

 

[johntt44]

The root cause to all of that is what I am talking about. Self love. Forget about the world.

Do you think the media can push people's psyche so hard that they want to change genders? How radical are you willing to change to achieve freedom?
You guys have gotten hints your entire life.

"It is only when you have lost everything that you can gain everything" paraphrased from Fight Club. Fight club is a movie in which a person's drive to material happiness leads to mental problems. Wake up

Material things are just things I need at this point. Life is about experiences and people. I hardly remember any cool bike or toy I had as a child. I remember going to the beach, park, etc with my family or friends. My mom sitting on the floor with me helping me with my homework...

 

[Sworder]

Material things are just things I need at this point. Life is about experiences and people. I hardly remember any cool bike or toy I had as a child. I remember going to the beach, park, etc with my family or friends. My mom sitting on the floor with me helping me with my homework...

What material things do you need? What year is your vehicle?

 

[johntt44]

What material things do you need? What year is your vehicle?

2014. I need a house and vehicles. I have a couple of nice bicycles and a couple nice watches(gifts) but that's the extent of it.

 

[LeoTC]

If you are going to flash that "Die Empty" tattoo, let's hear what makes you happy!

I really hope you get to a place one day where you get rid of that tattoo. You are conditioning yourself with negativity with that. Put a sun or something warm by the exit of your house. Condition positive messages!

I love every bit of ink I've put on myself, so I don't think so.

That's the beauty of being an artist, I write for myself. I paint for myself.

How you interpret my work is on you. But what meaning you might take is wholly your own. You don't get to project it back onto me.

You got it all wrong
If you re a psychologist i could understabd why you d think the stuff you re saying is stupid
That d be dumb but i couldve understand

If you re not you re just downright stupid, and i dont deal with stupids

Take care

Again, you need to learn think in the abstract. A psychologist hasn't read texts without being provided a larger overall understanding and context for the information their downloading.

It has nothing to do with authority. It has everything to do with differentiating empty knowledge from that which can be intelligently and practically applied.

Knowledge vs Wisdom.

 

[Sworder]

I love every bit of ink I've put on myself, so I don't think so.

Of course you love it. You are representing yourself with your ink on your body. You are projecting the image you feel and want to be on your body. And all that ink and the pain from getting it is therapy for you. It isn't a healthy thing to love your ink. You need to love yourself.

That's the beauty of being an artist, I write for myself. I paint for myself.

The beauty is that you are expressing your emotions through your work. You need to learn how to do it with your heart and soul. Am sure there are a couple pieces that are especially important to you as they correlate to an important life event.

How you interpret my work is on you. But what meaning you might take is wholly your own. You don't get to project it back onto me.

No not at all! You are saying something with your work, I can interpret it correctly or incorrectly. You agree with that? That your passion bleeds through your work right?