Paying for women when you go out! How often?

[Desibaba]

Personally i always pay for any woman i take out regardless of how much of a ho she is.But one of my close buddies disagrees.He feels that way they take advantage of you and you should let them take care of it at least 30 percent of the time.What do you guys do and think???You know like when you are going out to the movies or dinner,etc.

 

[Bob Smith]

It depends. Jewel and I ususally end up splitting right now simply because shes working and Im just getting started with my new job. It ends up being pretty fair and neither is really worried about "Well, Ive paid for..." Thats a good way to start arguements.

If a chick has a job or some cash, after the first couple dates, I say its time to split things. Doesnt necessarily have to be 50/50, but she damn sure gonna pick up some of the bills. Doesnt matter if its lunch or dinner or two movie tickets. Im not a sugar daddy (yet), so shes going to contribute.

 

[eleven11]

I must have misread the title because I thought you were talking about paying for p**sy, My wife makes me leave 50.00 bucks on the night stand. But these days thats still cheaper than dinner and a movie. .......11

 

[Desibaba]

It depends. Jewel and I ususally end up splitting right now simply because shes working and Im just getting started with my new job. It ends up being pretty fair and neither is really worried about "Well, Ive paid for..." Thats a good way to start arguements.

If a chick has a job or some cash, after the first couple dates, I say its time to split things. Doesnt necessarily have to be 50/50, but she damn sure gonna pick up some of the bills. Doesnt matter if its lunch or dinner or two movie tickets. Im not a sugar daddy (yet), so shes going to contribute.

Thats cool.I dunno i always end up feeling guilty later on if i let the chick pay for somethin.But thats the reason my best friend feels sometimes i get taken advantage of.Lets see what the rest of the meso crew does on dates.I would say that its a bit different if you are a married man with a housewife(then obviously it all falls on the guy).But what if its only casual dating.

 

[Rod]

If you can afford to pay for the date, then as a man you should. If you can't afford to pay for a date, then stay home. If she offers to pay fine, but you had better not accept her contribution until she has given you a firm refusal.

When you are in a relationship like BS and Jewel then the rules change.

 

[diesldud]

Thats cool.I dunno i always end up feeling guilty later on if i let the chick pay for somethin.But thats the reason my best friend feels sometimes i get taken advantage of.Lets see what the rest of the meso crew does on dates.I would say that its a bit different if you are a married man with a housewife(then obviously it all falls on the guy).But what if its only casual dating.

When I was single I always paid. To me its just part of being the man.

 

[joe shmoe]

as far as casual dating goes...the bitch better start paying soon. and i dont mean with just her ass. i'll pay the first couple of time. usually will go till the third thime. sometimes the fourth if she's specisl. if after that, the bitch doesnt even pick up a lunch tab, or some movie tickets, or the popcorn and soda at the movies after i got the tickets...cancell the bitch and get a new one! if she wants to go somewhere specific, she better pull out some cash or take it in the ass.

ofcourse, if the casual thing turns into a casual/serious thing and you're spending time in her house and she's constantly feeding you and has beer or wine(all out of the hoe's pocket) then yes, i'd keep paying for the times we go out.

i dont go for that whole thing about "the guy pays with cash and the woman pays with ass". BULLSHIT!! i'm not patting myself on the back or anything, but i ALWAYS satisfy the bitch first. sometimes even twice before i cum. so this hoe is getting satisfied in bed and i'm still expected to pay? HOMIE DONT PLAY THAT(stolen from 'in living color' "!! they wanted to be equal...so be fucking equal and pull out that wallet honey. some of these chicks wallets are tighter than their poop shutes. un-fucking-believable. they want it both ways. not all of them...but a high percentage of them.

if she doesnt do the above, then it will NEVER EVER EVER get to the point of beiong serious.

but then again...maybe i'd attract a better class of women if i stopped calling them bitches and hoes . ahh...fuck them c*nts.

have a nice day

 

[diesldud]

she better pull out some cash or take it in the ass.
ROFLFAO!!!!

 

[Desibaba]

Yeah i dont mind paying.I know im the guy.But at the same time i dont want to get taken advantage of either.I understand if a girl doesnt have a job or somethin but if she makes more $ than i do and expects me to pay all the time i think its kinda unfair.

 

[Bob Smith]

Amen, Joe!

 

[Sensational]

I always pay for dates that i ask a woman out on, and usually will pay for things in the relationship too. But as Joe said some woman take advantage of that. The woman I am with now buys beer and wine and we spend time at her house...so I pay when we go out. Its not a big deal, and it shouldn't be a big deal. Just find a chick that is willing to contribute at least slightly with the money~Sensational

 

[Hogg]

I pay the entire bill and have for many years. I earn double what ms. Hogglet makes and her money goes toward a piece of real estate that we will own together in joint upon tying the knot so I feel that we are in fact sharing expenses. Beyond that, knowing how strapped she is compared to my situation, I feel it is an act of compassion on my part to expose her to things that she might not otherwise be able to afford on her own.

My situation is probably quite different than many of you who are 'dating' so it is not a good example nor standard for those who find themselves in that boat.

 

[hardcore210]

Most of the time, I pay just b/c I'm trying to be the "nice" guy. I don't really mind since I make quite a bit more than any girl I've dated. But, my rule of thumb is if YOU ask her out or make the plans, then be prepared to pay. If it's HER idea, then she'd better open the purse! All other times (random, spontaneous) I'll pick it up and expect her to the next time.

HC210

 

[Rod]

You fuckin cheap bastards! All of a sudden you complete and utter assholes can't afford to take a lady out. Sad, sad, sad,,,, I only wish that that there was an emoticon to express how I feel. I guess that I will have to settle for a frown.

 

[joe shmoe]

All of a sudden you complete and utter assholes can't afford to take a lady out. Sad, sad, sad,,,,

go away.

have a nice day

 

[Rod]

"go away."

Smart response. Good one Joe.

 

[joe shmoe]

have a nice day

 

[chris gordon]

You fuckin cheap bastards! All of a sudden you complete and utter assholes can't afford to take a lady out. Sad, sad, sad,,,, I only wish that that there was an emoticon to express how I feel. I guess that I will have to settle for a frown.

gotta agree with rod here, when you first start dating a lady you pay, once you are in a relationship you can split it up a bit...ive been pretty furtunate in that most women ive dated , werent money grubbers , obviously...since i have none...lol

 

[patsfan]

If your in a serious relationship then I pay all the time because the money is really ours and it just shows class and respect to pickup the check.

Dating...well till I get laid basicly.

Pats

 

[Bob Smith]

I pay the entire bill and have for many years. I earn double what ms. Hogglet makes and her money goes toward a piece of real estate that we will own together in joint upon tying the knot

Well, tell her to get on the ball and empty out her house! Snap to it, woman!

If you dont mind me asking, what does the Ms. do?