Relationships, sex, Tren and contest prep

[AKphysique]

What up my Meso brothers and sisters. Just would like some feedback on everyone's personal trials and tribulations with relationships, gear, macro/caloric fluctuation and contest prep. I've been with my girl on and off about 2 years nowand I know she's the one for me, I've put her through so much and i try my best to treat her right but it always seems to get a little rough during contest prep. What are some things you or your significant others do to smooth this process?

 

[DrinkFlintWater]

Im still trying to figure this out myself....if im not being accused of "self-absorbed", non-social because id rather meal prep than sit at a bar, im just a fucking asshole cuz " im back on that stuff again" as she likes to say....its a losing battle. I need to find a girl that is into fitness and the only time we interact is in the gym or at a hotel room. Outside of that.....im good. Maybe this lifestyle is a solo endeavor that will only lead to one failed relationship to another.....who knows

 

[AKphysique]

@DrinkFlintWater were gunna make it bro! I'm right there with you

 

[49ER]

Not going against you guys but this lifestyle and especially tren makes us selfish assholes lol my girl does everything for me she gets it but i know i can be very selfish and only concerned about training and eating.

Its hard to keep a healthy relationship on tren ive seen all my buddy's through the years fuck things up and its always "the girls fault" what i learned in the last few years after a few relationships if the woman is complaining about something aboit us its probably for a reason

 

[AKphysique]

I hear that and I'm not denying it. I always tell her I'm sorry when I start my cycle

 

[Thenewera]

See.. I think you're all wrong.

If you want to be good to someone, you're good to them. I can be so pissed during prep, or a hard diet, and so "ready to explode" on tren.. but I don't take it out on the people in my life that are important to me. Whenever the situation, or whenever you think it is going to occur.. remind yourself: hey dumbass why are you about to act like this? Can you not handle your drugs or lifestyle?

Blowing up willingly followed with an excuse or pointed finger at any PED or diet regimen is what gives it a bad wrap.

 

[49ER]

See.. I think you're all wrong.

If you want to be good to someone, you're good to them. I can be so pissed during prep, or a hard diet, and so "ready to explode" on tren.. but I don't take it out on the people in my life that are important to me. Whenever the situation, or whenever you think it is going to occur.. remind yourself: hey dumbass why are you about to act like this? Can you not handle your drugs or lifestyle?

Blowing up willingly followed with an excuse or pointed finger at any PED or diet regimen is what gives it a bad wrap.

Well good for you for havimg so much self control unfortunately it is very common for the majority of people to change while they are on tren its no secret it changes your personality. I was on a year straight but stress and working long hours lack of sleep can influence your behavior.

My buddy right now is all of a sudden jealous of his girl and thinks shes cheating is gettimg snappy with her and has never acted like this before. Plus we dont know you for all i know your the biggest asshole in the planet and just in denial lol im talking real statistics 1st hand from experience from many forums and many friends going through problems that i recognize it is a problem for alot of guys

 

[49ER]

Sad part is the person on tren will never agree or even notice his change in behavior. Took me several years for it to sink in when girls tell me your acting different cuz of all that shit your taking. My friends that are acting stupid right now are in denial its there girls being "bitches" my buddy has the nerve to tell me tren actully makes him calmer when im fucken watching him spiral out of control with his attitude

 

[Thenewera]

Well good for you for havimg so much self control unfortunately it is very common for the majority of people to change while they are on tren its no secret it changes your personality. I was on a year straight but stress and working long hours lack of sleep can influence your behavior.

My buddy right now is all of a sudden jealous of his girl and thinks shes cheating is gettimg snappy with her and has never acted like this before. Plus we dont know you for all i know your the biggest asshole in the planet and just in denial lol im talking real statistics 1st hand from experience from many forums and many friends going through problems that i recognize it is a problem for alot of guys

You took me wrong. It happens to me too. I've noticed myself (even on high test) get really anxious and jealous. Just have to have that self reminder. It's no ones fault but yours. Really talking to yourself when you find you're getting mad helps wonders.

 

[49ER]

You took me wrong. It happens to me too. I've noticed myself (even on high test) get really anxious and jealous. Just have to have that self reminder. It's no ones fault but yours. Really talking to yourself when you find you're getting mad helps wonders.

Ok gotcha ya i try to talk to myself too but their is times i snap i dont hit bit i yell like a retard sometimes. It can be controlled but their is a pattern from lots of experiences. I have to hide my tren use now i tell her everything is test lol

 

[MisterSuperGod]

It happens to me too. I've noticed myself (even on high test) get really anxious and jealous.

Phew, so it not just me.
Noticed my mind likes to think that my girl is doing me dirty, when i know in my heart, she isn't.

No Tren involved, we're just talking straight Test here.

Don't recall that ever occurring prior to now.

With that said and from what i hear about some dudes using Tren and it fucking with their heads... Yeah, gonna take a raincheck on that shit for the time being.

 

[49ER]

Phew, so it not just me.
Noticed my mind likes to think that my girl is doing me dirty, when i know in my heart, she isn't.

No Tren involved, we're just talking straight Test here.

Don't recall that ever occurring prior to now.

With that said and from what i hear about some dudes using Tren and it fucking with their heads... Yeah, gonna take a raincheck on that shit for the time being.

If tren wasnt so amazing and didnt help my strength so much id never touch the stuff lol my theory is it brings out our worst character traits intensifys any insecurities. Some of my friemds have been with their chicks forever and they are far from sluts or even lookimg hott in some cases. Soon as the tren starts they think they are cheating and all kinds of crazy shit, some people start havimg problems at work and all of a sudden hate their jobs its crazy the shit ive seen lol

 

[AKphysique]

See.. I think you're all wrong.

If you want to be good to someone, you're good to them. I can be so pissed during prep, or a hard diet, and so "ready to explode" on tren.. but I don't take it out on the people in my life that are important to me. Whenever the situation, or whenever you think it is going to occur.. remind yourself: hey dumbass why are you about to act like this? Can you not handle your drugs or lifestyle?

Blowing up willingly followed with an excuse or pointed finger at any PED or diet regimen is what gives it a bad wrap.

Lol you clearly never have dated a Puerto Rican woman. Just playin, I have definitely come to understand, respect and control myself on Tren and I'm usually good at removing myself from the situation if I feel like it's heading south but sometimes it gets intense too quick

 

[AKphysique]

If tren wasnt so amazing and didnt help my strength so much id never touch the stuff lol my theory is it brings out our worst character traits intensifys any insecurities. Some of my friemds have been with their chicks forever and they are far from sluts or even lookimg hott in some cases. Soon as the tren starts they think they are cheating and all kinds of crazy shit, some people start havimg problems at work and all of a sudden hate their jobs its crazy the shit ive seen lol

Yep! 100%. I've learned that shit. Thank god im a massage therapist and I work in a chill atmosphere but it still gets to me. I'll get a client on a table and I'll just get one thought about how I don't like them and then it starts multiplying and I find myself hating everything about them. It's funny because they'll usually compliment me and I'll suddenly feel better. Shits crazy and I know what's happening but it still happens anyways

 

[SuperMaroid]

I hear that and I'm not denying it. I always tell her I'm sorry when I start my cycle

You dont need to say sorry. This is your lifestyle, and your passion. Everyone has baggage and she has to accept bodybuilding.

I've been with my girl for a year and a half. Sure shes not happy about gear or the way I act sometimes on it, but she knows thats apart of my life. And if she wants me, she has to accept that part.

If I'm feeling angry I try to sleep or play videos, or go to the gym again. Sometimes you cant help the anger but try your best not to direct it at her.

 

[trying to get big]

it doesnt matter how high i run my tren mgs i NEVER get irritated with my dog.....my wife i can look at tren and get pissed off at her

 

[AKphysique]

it doesnt matter how high i run my tren mgs i NEVER get irritated with my dog.....my wife i can look at tren and get pissed off at her

Lmao best response ever

 

[Sk8man101]

I don't think I'd ever get jealous with my girl.
If I ever do, I'll know it's the gear cause my girl ain't about that shit.
I will say I was nonstop horny on just high test and dbol that shit was out of control I can't even imagine it being worse on Tren.