Why do you train?

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I am curious, gents and ladies, what are the biggest motivators for your training/weight lifting/whatever you're doing that's abnormal compared to the lazy fat fucks we see regularly? I am especially curious about the freaks, the monsters, the shredded low bodyfat Greek gods, the powerlifters! What has MADE you this form of a monster? What drives you, and has driven you to this madness?!

I think back and there's one image I keep thinking of, my father. He was a mass monster freak when I was growing up. Most of the time he was the biggest guy in our local gym. He was the freak wearing a hoodie with the sleeves cut off, parachute/sweatpants and boots or wrestling shoes. Looking back, he was the man. He was strong, and lean. People respected him there, they would tell me so as I was growing up. How could I NOT want that?

I was probably 9 or 10 when I was under the bar at the bench for the first time. He was aggressive and persistent that I WOULD be strong and fit, never lazy and weak. This was a positive and a negative. I hated it as a kid, but looking back this taught me how to succeed, how to persevere and accomplish whatever goal you have in mind. I remember him almost forcing me to take my daily multi-vitamins, fish oils, extra vitamin C in elementary school. Eventually that turned into canned tuna, protein shakes etc, as well.

From 14 to 16 years old I rebelled to some degree and really didn't work out at all. I wanted to play video games with my friends and be lazy. I ate junk food, because everyone else did. That all changed when I was able to drive and learned pussy was achievable on-demand, now.

16 was the shit, I would drive to the gym, lift my ass off and then try to coordinate with any girls I could. Testosterone levels must've been insane for me at that time, fuck to have that back!

Today, many many years later, I still use many of the techniques I learned growing up. My dad was from my opinion of the golden era of weight lifting (80's-90's were the best IMHO). The physical techniques are handy, but I could've read a book or two and learned all about those. The mental hardness and focus required cannot be simply learned from a book, it is literally carved into you, or not.

I suppose to moral of the story here is: I started training against my will, and learned the value of hard work overtime. But, at the end of the day, pussy motivated me beyond anything else. Today I would say it's not the pussy that's the driving force, I would like to think it's the memories of my dad in the gym covered in chalk, sweat and masculinity. But, I have been wrong before, and I probably am now.

I would love to hear your stories!
 
2 reasons:

1) for football. My. HS was minuscule, less than 100 kids in my senior class so we had to play both sides of the field. I played strong safety at first on D but we went to spring training camps at a few good colleges and the coaches their convinced my coach to switch me to outside linebacker. On offense I played tail back. My positions required me to bulk up somewhat and be very strong and able to take hits. Lifting helped me accomplish that. Our quarterback's uncle used to be the head coach for the Browns and he made a few trips out and he always impressed upon us the need for dedication and hard work not only on the field, in practice, and watching game tape but also in he weight room. It stuck with me ever since.

2) my dad. He never lifted weights a day in his life but he is one of the stir test men I know. Not just physically but mentally as well. He grew up poor in Lebanon so he began working at 8yo to help provide income for his family. When he was in his 20s he went to Africa and worked for the oil companies out there. My dad epitomizes strength for me. I've seen him cry once in my 30yrs here when his mother, my grandmother, passed away and hat was only for maybe 5min before it was over. He didn't even shed a tear when one of his brothers passed away a few years later. To this very day he can do things I still dream of and cannot do. He's a mechanic. He heats up rusted boots till they're red hot and picks them up when they drop on the floor with his bare hands. It's left so many scars over the years you can't see any "fingerprints" on his palms and fingers. He doesn't even think twice and barely grimaces when he does this. He's been able to break loose some cross threaded bolts with his fingers. I did my brakes in my car a few weeks ago and I went over to use his tools. The bolt for the caliper bracket was at a weird angle and I couldn't get leverage to break it loose on the second side (also partly bc the car almost fell on me the first side lol) but he did it wih worse leverages and cut a chunk out of his hand when it broke loose and his hand banged against the strut. I was like you probably need stitches or somethig for that as it gouged deep. He laughed and went back inside to watch tv. He goes after the snakes, foxes, and coyotes at home when they fuck up his garden. There's a picture of him staring down a lion face to face from his time in Africa about 100ft apart. You could look at it and see he showed no fear. Almost daring the lion to charge. I looked up to my dad as how a man should be: provide for his family (he worked 3 jobs at one point to keep food on our table), never show any fear or overt emotion, never show weakness, and be strong as fuck.
 
2 reasons:

1) for football. My. HS was minuscule, less than 100 kids in my senior class so we had to play both sides of the field. I played strong safety at first on D but we went to spring training camps at a few good colleges and the coaches their convinced my coach to switch me to outside linebacker. On offense I played tail back. My positions required me to bulk up somewhat and be very strong and able to take hits. Lifting helped me accomplish that. Our quarterback's uncle used to be the head coach for the Browns and he made a few trips out and he always impressed upon us the need for dedication and hard work not only on the field, in practice, and watching game tape but also in he weight room. It stuck with me ever since.

2) my dad. He never lifted weights a day in his life but he is one of the stir test men I know. Not just physically but mentally as well. He grew up poor in Lebanon so he began working at 8yo to help provide income for his family. When he was in his 20s he went to Africa and worked for the oil companies out there. My dad epitomizes strength for me. I've seen him cry once in my 30yrs here when his mother, my grandmother, passed away and hat was only for maybe 5min before it was over. He didn't even shed a tear when one of his brothers passed away a few years later. To this very day he can do things I still dream of and cannot do. He's a mechanic. He heats up rusted boots till they're red hot and picks them up when they drop on the floor with his bare hands. It's left so many scars over the years you can't see any "fingerprints" on his palms and fingers. He doesn't even think twice and barely grimaces when he does this. He's been able to break loose some cross threaded bolts with his fingers. I did my brakes in my car a few weeks ago and I went over to use his tools. The bolt for the caliper bracket was at a weird angle and I couldn't get leverage to break it loose on the second side (also partly bc the car almost fell on me the first side lol) but he did it wih worse leverages and cut a chunk out of his hand when it broke loose and his hand banged against the strut. I was like you probably need stitches or somethig for that as it gouged deep. He laughed and went back inside to watch tv. He goes after the snakes, foxes, and coyotes at home when they fuck up his garden. There's a picture of him staring down a lion face to face from his time in Africa about 100ft apart. You could look at it and see he showed no fear. Almost daring the lion to charge. I looked up to my dad as how a man should be: provide for his family (he worked 3 jobs at one point to keep food on our table), never show any fear or overt emotion, never show weakness, and be strong as fuck.

Funny, there are certainly some similarities between our stories.
 
Chicks dig dudes with big ass guns enough motivation for me, but in all seriousness I'm a very physical person and I love growing stronger and stronger and looking better as I go about it!
 
Funny, there are certainly some similarities between our stories.

That there are. Only for a brief period of time did I lift for pussy. Mostly it was to be strong, fast, powerful, while, athletic, and really just to be like my dad. I cannot remember if he's ever taken a day off for being sick or in pain. Hes went to work with hernias and slipped discs and Oly went to the doctor when my mother begged and pleaded with him. At 60+ he still works as a mechanic and comes home barely able to walk bc of the pain. He somehow finds a way to go back and do it again the next day. 5-7 days a week. I try and use that mentality at the gym. If I'm hurt it's only temporary. The gym doesn't care if I'm hurt or sick. It only cares that I come in, lift what I'm supposed to, and come back next time.
 
My father was a Navy man...he lost both his parents when he was 15 and him and his brothers ended out on the streets. He lied about his age and signed up, The Enterprise was his daddy and the Statue of Liberty became his mother. He never really had a father so I don't fault him for the way he raised me, he did the best he could and I love him and respect him.
There was always strict order in my household, he woke my brothers and I up every morning with reveille. Ugh I hated that shit when I was in elementary school...Couldn't go down to chow until our beds were made, hospital corners, bounce a quarter off it. We had all our racks lined up in one long room that was a converted attic, I remember being kinda embarrassed when I got to middle school and was bringing friends/girls over and we'd sit there on the beds all lined up next to my lil brothers and watch the one single tv.(we weren't allowed to have a tv in the bedroom until I was like 13, he always said there is never time to sit around, always work to be done). We would wear jeans and button ups with our shirts tucked in, he taught us how to shine our boots. You took a shower every morning, and then expected to be downstairs for an inspection.
"Lookin' sharp boys..."
then the acceptable response was "Thank you Sir" or "that's what we do".

Strong work ethic, and pride in what you do came early. Then came sports, then came survival. I used to train to always be ready, but somewhere along the way it became a battle with myself. I wanted to kick my own fucking ass, and the other side of my brain would bite my lip till it bled and say "motherfucker come get you some...."

I'm a bit of a masochist.
 
My father was a Navy man...he lost both his parents when he was 15 and him and his brothers ended out on the streets. He lied about his age and signed up, The Enterprise was his daddy and the Statue of Liberty became his mother. He never really had a father so I don't fault him for the way he raised me, he did the best he could and I love him and respect him.
There was always strict order in my household, he woke my brothers and I up every morning with reveille. Ugh I hated that shit when I was in elementary school...Couldn't go down to chow until our beds were made, hospital corners, bounce a quarter off it. We had all our racks lined up in one long room that was a converted attic, I remember being kinda embarrassed when I got to middle school and was bringing friends/girls over and we'd sit there on the beds all lined up next to my lil brothers and watch the one single tv.(we weren't allowed to have a tv in the bedroom until I was like 13, he always said there is never time to sit around, always work to be done). We would wear jeans and button ups with our shirts tucked in, he taught us how to shine our boots. You took a shower every morning, and then expected to be downstairs for an inspection.
"Lookin' sharp boys..."
then the acceptable response was "Thank you Sir" or "that's what we do".

Strong work ethic, and pride in what you do came early. Then came sports, then came survival. I used to train to always be ready, but somewhere along the way it became a battle with myself. I wanted to kick my own fucking ass, and the other side of my brain would bite my lip till it bled and say "motherfucker come get you some...."

I'm a bit of a masochist.
I like your story. It's interesting, I enjoy reading out members open up about their past on this site. We have a lot of commonalities here, which is probably why there's always bickering and arguing.
 
Ive never lifted a weight for another person. It's always been for me. I was a late bloomer as far working out. I didn't start till my early 20s. Prior to that I was into all sorts of drugs and just a bad life style. Took me a few close to death or at least that's the way it felt before I decided I needed some other vice. I tried a few things here and there and nothing stuck or kept my interest always wanted to revert back to using. Then one of my friends need a workout partner so he could get in shape for his wedding. I agreed and haven't stopped since that day. In 9 years I've went from a 135 skinny fat person to about 205 and close to 10% BF.
 
That there are. Only for a brief period of time did I lift for pussy. Mostly it was to be strong, fast, powerful, while, athletic, and really just to be like my dad. I cannot remember if he's ever taken a day off for being sick or in pain. Hes went to work with hernias and slipped discs and Oly went to the doctor when my mother begged and pleaded with him. At 60+ he still works as a mechanic and comes home barely able to walk bc of the pain. He somehow finds a way to go back and do it again the next day. 5-7 days a week. I try and use that mentality at the gym. If I'm hurt it's only temporary. The gym doesn't care if I'm hurt or sick. It only cares that I come in, lift what I'm supposed to, and come back next time.
Pussy is a huge motivator for me WHILE I'm working out. My gym attracts the best looking girls in my city, so it's nice to give them a show.
 
Pussy is a huge motivator for me WHILE I'm working out. My gym attracts the best looking girls in my city, so it's nice to give them a show.

Lol I feel you. He way I've always looked at it is if a chick wouldn't be with me for the body I have then I don't need her. I've been fat, skinny, and in between so I've been all over the map lol. I also find man commonalities with TEK in that I am a masochist. I enjoy the pain and hurt, I thrive on it. The gym gives me that. I crawl out of the gym bc I can't walk sometimes and it leaves me with a smile on my face knowing the pain will go away only to come back at a later time.
 
Pussy is a huge motivator for me WHILE I'm working out. My gym attracts the best looking girls in my city, so it's nice to give them a show.
I hear so many guys say this and although I get jealous at times I'm happy where I'm at...I get a lot more done personally. We've discussed one of my gyms in length on another thread.

EDIT: I also don't know how much tail frequents the gym at 5am :(
 
Lol I feel you. He way I've always looked at it is if a chick wouldn't be with me for the body I have then I don't need her. I've been fat, skinny, and in between so I've been all over the map lol. I also find man commonalities with TEK in that I am a masochist. I enjoy the pain and hurt, I thrive on it. The gym gives me that. I crawl out of the gym bc I can't walk sometimes and it leaves me with a smile on my face knowing the pain will go away only to come back at a later time.
Fuck that, I'd dump a chick in a heartbeat for being fat, and I'd expect the same! I want to be held to the highest standards, and the same for her :)
 
I also find man commonalities with TEK in that I am a masochist. I enjoy the pain and hurt, I thrive on it. The gym gives me that. I crawl out of the gym bc I can't walk sometimes and it leaves me with a smile on my face knowing the pain will go away only to come back at a later time.

I was reading OGH's log and some other guys and just lookin at the volume they do in the squat rack. I was jealous of @brutus79 comment he made stating he didn't have good leg workout unless he hit the floor on his back screaming with his crippled legs kicking and flailing like an overturned beetle. I frequently have to take a knee so I don't hit the deck, usually puke in a trashcan at least 1-2x a month but I want that ^^^

So I figured I'd give it a whirl a couple weeks ago and did my dynamic stretching routine, 300 JJ's, 2 warm up sets of 20 reps, then 15x10 @225 backsquats. I didn't puke but I left a bucket of sweat on the floor and skull dragged my crippled get-away-sticks to the pickup like Lt. Dan
 
I was reading OGH's log and some other guys and just lookin at the volume they do in the squat rack. I was jealous of @brutus79 comment he made stating he didn't have good leg workout unless he hit the floor on his back screaming with his crippled legs kicking and flailing like an overturned beetle. I frequently have to take a knee so I don't hit the deck, usually puke in a trashcan at least 1-2x a month but I want that ^^^

So I figured I'd give it a whirl a couple weeks ago and did my dynamic stretching routine, 300 JJ's, 2 warm up sets of 20 reps, then 15x10 @225 backsquats. I didn't puke but I left a bucket of sweat on the floor and skull dragged my crippled get-away-sticks to the pickup like Lt. Dan
LOL! I did a 10x10 the other day with 275 backsquats, fuck that sucked.
 
I won't lie. I was just super skinny. Like sickly skinny. Used to get teased a lot (it's funny how when people are fat other people make fun of them behind their backs, but when youre skinny even people you dont know will say it to your face).

When I joined the military I was 6 ft 130 lbs (you read that right). I put on a little weight in basic, got up to 160.
Right now im about 220. No ones said anything in years that wasnt good.

Also when I was young I used to play a lot of sports. That was my get away from life. When I played I didnt think about life, just let my brain go blank and played. Thats the gym for me now. When Im with those weights for that hour or so a day, I can forget about all the sh*t happening outside and just get to clangin and bangin (In the Rocks words).
 
I was reading OGH's log and some other guys and just lookin at the volume they do in the squat rack. I was jealous of @brutus79 comment he made stating he didn't have good leg workout unless he hit the floor on his back screaming with his crippled legs kicking and flailing like an overturned beetle. I frequently have to take a knee so I don't hit the deck, usually puke in a trashcan at least 1-2x a month but I want that ^^^

So I figured I'd give it a whirl a couple weeks ago and did my dynamic stretching routine, 300 JJ's, 2 warm up sets of 20 reps, then 15x10 @225 backsquats. I didn't puke but I left a bucket of sweat on the floor and skull dragged my crippled get-away-sticks to the pickup like Lt. Dan

When I was on the platform at my meet, my last two squat and deadlift attempts left me dizzy, seeing stars and losing focus. Damn near passed out. I smiled knowing that I'd be doing it again in a few months. A friend from another forum sent me his lifting vids from his meet the other week. His last squat and deadlift attempt left him with a bloody nose and you can see the blood coming out in the vid. I smiled knowing that it may happen my next meet
 
Fuck that, I'd dump a chick in a heartbeat for being fat, and I'd expect the same! I want to be held to the highest standards, and the same for her :)

I like thicker chicks remember lol. Plus I've pulled enough tail and seen others do it while overweight that I realized it really isn't about looks as much as people think. We each have certain standards we prioritize over others and being ripped has never been one I prioritize. I so much rather a chick have curves than being 15% BF but thats me
 
I train because I can't be satisfied lurching thru life. Getting up drinking coffee being leisurely. Watching too much tv, getting fat, staying fat, working 70 a week. I been to all the above mentioned and it's not fun.

I always feel like there's a hostile ass hole inside that is demanding release. I used to get it from sports. When those days ended I picked up a rifle and wore the eagle, globe and anchor to inflict my pain in to others. And be a part of some thing I deemed worthy and serve a good purpose all in one package. Now those days are over I picked up wheelin fuckin fire breathing 4x4's in some of the sickest trails this country has to offer. Ive shifted back to my original love of training now and that is how I get my jollies off.

I'm a caveman at heart. Born from another time. Simple in nature and aggressive compared to many. I'm NOT a mall stalker or somebody that likes to blend in with the norm. I don't seek attention either. I really just wanna break some shit.

I need it:D
 
I train because I can't be satisfied lurching thru life. Getting up drinking coffee being leisurely. Watching too much tv, getting fat, staying fat, working 70 a week. I been to all the above mentioned and it's not fun.

I always feel like there's a hostile ass hole inside that is demanding release. I used to get it from sports. When those days ended I picked up a rifle and wore the eagle, globe and anchor to inflict my pain in to others. And be a part of some thing I deemed worthy and serve a good purpose all in one package. Now those days are over I picked up wheelin fuckin fire breathing 4x4's in some of the sickest trails this country has to offer. Ive shifted back to my original love of training now and that is how I get my jollies off.

I'm a caveman at heart. Born from another time. Simple in nature and aggressive compared to many. I'm NOT a mall stalker or somebody that likes to blend in with the norm. I don't seek attention either. I really just wanna break some shit.

I need it:D
Funny man, I am 75% Norwegian blood, 25% Scottish. So, I have the killer savage inside of me, too.
 
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