Most men will say this because they dont look like they want to. Maybe not IFBB level, but certainly like damn near anyone on this forum. If they were told they could take a pill w/ minimal side effects and look like the men they critisize, 11 out of 10 would say yes. And a lot of women don't like muscular men because it makes them feel inadequate and uneasy. If you look ripped and they look like a shaved cookie monster, they'll feel bad about themselves. Uneasy because they'll always think you're out looking at more attractive women. Just make it easy on yourself, only talk to men at the gym or who compete, and marry a female convict at a local prison. No bullshit, just weekly conjugal visits.