Ian Smith
New Member
I think this is a good topic.. what is your biggest regret.. If you could have one moment back so you could handle it differently,, what would it be.. A time in your life that you now wish you would have turned left instead of right,, remained calm instead of getting pissed.. Surely we all have atleast one...
Personally, I had a female friend for several years when I was in college,, just friends,, we both moved apart,, then one day found ourselves living in the same city again,, long story short,, I became angry when I found out she was dating a black man,, and pretty much told her I never wanted to speak to her again.. I know now that it had nothing to do with the fact he was black,, I would have felt that way no matter what color he would have been because I had become attracted to her,, I admit there was a time in my life I was extremely prejudice,, but that all changed after I decided to take an honest look at myself and try to figure out where all the anger came from.. But anyways,, up to now, thats my biggest regret,, because there have been several times since that happened that I wished I still had her friendship,, but now she isnt my girl,, nor my friend... I wish i would have known what I know now then... And that aint no Bullshit story Phreezer..LOL. (Inside Joke)
Personally, I had a female friend for several years when I was in college,, just friends,, we both moved apart,, then one day found ourselves living in the same city again,, long story short,, I became angry when I found out she was dating a black man,, and pretty much told her I never wanted to speak to her again.. I know now that it had nothing to do with the fact he was black,, I would have felt that way no matter what color he would have been because I had become attracted to her,, I admit there was a time in my life I was extremely prejudice,, but that all changed after I decided to take an honest look at myself and try to figure out where all the anger came from.. But anyways,, up to now, thats my biggest regret,, because there have been several times since that happened that I wished I still had her friendship,, but now she isnt my girl,, nor my friend... I wish i would have known what I know now then... And that aint no Bullshit story Phreezer..LOL. (Inside Joke)
