I know I am being a douche, but fuck it

What I've learned about women: They don't respect gifts.. women get complacent realitivity fast.
Women subconsciously wanna push the envelope. Being a total scum bag will get you nothing, being a suck ass, will also get you jackshit. Women wanna see how much they can manipulate before you put their asses in check.
Periodically my wife starts with the attitude, I'll hang up the phone on her ass, next day she's respectful.
Women are complicated AF.
 
I hooked up with a lifelong best friend almost 9 years ago to the day and haven't looked back. Good and bad times like you'd expect but she's my rock and I'm hers. It sounds cheesy but it's true. I almost get afraid at how much I love her, how much I love her son and our goddaughter.

We have sex about 5 times a week but we still get into a weekend marathon here and there, and she gives up the booty from time to time ;) I have no complaints about her at the end of the day gentlemen, this woman helped prop me up and drag me through the fire I had to go through to become the man I am. I'm confident I'd be sitting in a box underground or in a jail cell if she wasn't my rock.

I am blessed and I know it....
 
@franchise24 . Do you still love her bro? If you do we all have to deal with their shit. But cut out the gifts and see how she reacts. You and I are former vets and she's not your commanding officer. The rest of you fuk off with all the sex you get. My wife is 43 and a teacher. We have 2 kids at home and I get it once a week. Kids and careers ruin your sex life. Damn kids! LMAO
Yeah bro I still love her. But it's getting to a point where the everyday bullshit is affecting my PTSD. I have to find two to three days a week to be alone in order to get back right. At 40 years old we shouldn't be arguing about petty shit. I am good in a cabin with a German Shepherd and I will have peace of mind and quality of life.

The crazy shit is Tren doesn't fuck with me like this. Even when she's in my face yelling calling me all types of shit. I stay quiet and laugh.
 
What I've learned about women: They don't respect gifts.. women get complacent realitivity fast.
Women subconsciously wanna push the envelope. Being a total scum bag will get you nothing, being a suck ass, will also get you jackshit. Women wanna see how much they can manipulate before you put their asses in check.
Periodically my wife starts with the attitude, I'll hang up the phone on her ass, next day she's respectful.
Women are complicated AF.
Haha!!! The truth. No more gifts. She called to start up with while I was at the gym last night. Asking who are with? I'm with the fucking weights.

I took pictures of skin that ripped off the top of my fingers from wrapping my knees. I didn't realize how much I was bleeding from my other fingers till I got home and saw all the blood on my shirt and fingers.

I said to her if you're going to question whether I'm in the gym or not. Question me about being in a fight club with all the blood I had on me.
 
Haha!!! The truth. No more gifts. She called to start up with while I was at the gym last night. Asking who are with? I'm with the fucking weights.

I took pictures of skin that ripped off the top of my fingers from wrapping my knees. I didn't realize how much I was bleeding from my other fingers till I got home and saw all the blood on my shirt and fingers.

I said to her if you're going to question whether I'm in the gym or not. Question me about being in a fight club with all the blood I had on me.

Dude it sounds to me like she is the one up to something, or was up to something.......
 
Dude it sounds to me like she is the one up to something, or was up to something.......
I have thought that as well. Fucking killing me. Everyday is some new shit she starts. I just sold her Louis Vuitton bag. And I separated my account form hers. She was pleased this month. Because I told I had to take $6k from my check to pay off a bill. LOL. I'm debt free but I got her to believe it.

She will learn or hit the road. It's getting to the point where she is starting to call me while I am lifting to argue. The gym is my sanctuary, and it's therapeutic for me as well.
 
This thread has been good . We all go through this shit we need to pass on those words of wisdom
I been through the school of hard knocks myself..when I was a much younger man got myself beaten by a psycho-bitch when she had her manic moments. My family got involved...and it turned out the woman I dated was a true mental case. Never again can I ever trust a woman, because of that attack.
 
Yeah bro I still love her. But it's getting to a point where the everyday bullshit is affecting my PTSD. I have to find two to three days a week to be alone in order to get back right. At 40 years old we shouldn't be arguing about petty shit. I am good in a cabin with a German Shepherd and I will have peace of mind and quality of life.

The crazy shit is Tren doesn't fuck with me like this. Even when she's in my face yelling calling me all types of shit. I stay quiet and laugh.
I could never let anyone yell in my face like that, especially the women i pay and provide for. To be honest from your posts, it does sound like she has a gulity conscious and is accusing you when it is her. Dig deeper, everybody lies.
 
I have thought that as well. Fucking killing me. Everyday is some new shit she starts. I just sold her Louis Vuitton bag. And I separated my account form hers. She was pleased this month. Because I told I had to take $6k from my check to pay off a bill. LOL. I'm debt free but I got her to believe it.

She will learn or hit the road. It's getting to the point where she is starting to call me while I am lifting to argue. The gym is my sanctuary, and it's therapeutic for me as well.
Hang in there bro. This shit will pass. Sit down and just talk with her. Lay it on the line. See where she's at with everything. Good luck bud
 
I been through the school of hard knocks myself..when I was a much younger man got myself beaten by a psycho-bitch when she had her manic moments. My family got involved...and it turned out the woman I dated was a true mental case. Never again can I ever trust a woman, because of that attack.
Sorry to hear that bro. And by the way I will be at the post office at 9am to send out the Oly shoes to you.

I could never let anyone yell in my face like that, especially the women i pay and provide for. To be honest from your posts, it does sound like she has a gulity conscious and is accusing you when it is her. Dig deeper, everybody lies.
I pay provide pay expensive gifts that are not necessary. I always have felt that there was something deeper with her.
Hence why you went to teenage boys, so they couldnt kick your ass
:D:D:D

Hang in there bro. This shit will pass. Sit down and just talk with her. Lay it on the line. See where she's at with everything. Good luck bud
I am going to sit her ass down tomorrow after her expensive purse is gone. And now we will start from scratch. The sad part bro. She doesn't support anything I want to do. She doesn't support me opening a gym. She didn't support me as a personal trainer. But she likes the money that comes from it. Honestly after this conversation, we will decide if we will stay together or go our separate ways.
 
Sorry to hear that bro. And by the way I will be at the post office at 9am to send out the Oly shoes to you.


I pay provide pay expensive gifts that are not necessary. I always have felt that there was something deeper with her.

:D:D:D


I am going to sit her ass down tomorrow after her expensive purse is gone. And now we will start from scratch. The sad part bro. She doesn't support anything I want to do. She doesn't support me opening a gym. She didn't support me as a personal trainer. But she likes the money that comes from it. Honestly after this conversation, we will decide if we will stay together or go our separate ways.
I'm pretty sure you'll know if she truly wants to work things out. Otherwise you have to let her go. Its making you miserable. Check in with us. Hope it goes well.
 
I'm pretty sure you'll know if she truly wants to work things out. Otherwise you have to let her go. Its making you miserable. Check in with us. Hope it goes well.
Yeah bro it is making me miserable. Even in the gym she is constantly texting me with some bs. That is my therapeutic sanctuary. When I retired form service I made a decision to have quality of life. What ever that might be for me. Traveling, Staying a cabin away from all the BS city life. But this shit is eating in to my quality life. I can't let that go much longer.
 
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