LeoTC
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Let them wait! "Daddy is silly you guys have to watch that when you are older." "Daddy wants you guys to wait until you are 18 so you have a huge library of movies to go through on your 18th birthday."
17 or 18 is pretty similar. I would wait until 18 just because of the science behind it. Teaches them discipline too
I know how stupid this sounds. But you have a choice, either you are going to allow them to watch R rated movies and listen to Explicit language. Or you protect them and try to reduce harm as much as possible. Again, a lot of time we will project our own vulnerabilities by reaffirming ourselves. "I did this as a kid, therefore, (s)he must be fine."
I am serious about the R rated stuff. Keep in mind, I am not saying "If you let your kid watch R rated movies, he will be a problem child." I am saying this:
If you can choose as a parent between option No R rated and option R rated. Choose option "No R rated." If we put it this way, what damage can it do to keep this from them? Because I am telling you, and the government is actually right. It isn't a good thing for a child's development. And that will avoid them from getting friends that may have emotional issues. You don't want your kid to have a bunch of friends that have emotional issues. I can go on and on about this with paragraphs of support. But that would only serve as over compensation.
The worst that could happen is that your kid grows up to not have a care in the world and is too dorky. I wish I was dorky as fuck, we all grew up too fast.
If you guys have a daughter, pay especial attention as our women are extremely repressed in society. It is hard for them! I don't know how it is obviously as a male. But growing up having to be portrayed as a cum dumpster to men HAS to do something to your self esteem. We have a lot of male role models that rule the world, women don't have that of course they will feel lesser than men.
It isn't that straight forward. With bad language we reinforce Unhealthy ways to express your anger. You don't want to teach your kid to swear when they get mad! Swearing is bad, seriously, you can tell a lot of a person by how they speak. If an adult woman is swearing a lot in her sentences that says a lot about them.
Again, these a red flags if anything. It isn't. "He swears therefore he is an asshole." But if you want to think that every single word you choose is "random" I strongly urge you to rethink "random." Nothing is random here in life, when they generate random numbers they don't use algorithms strictly. They use radioactive elements and count the amount of electrons that are released. Even that fits on a bell curve however.
The drugs and alcohol is more conditioning somebody to use those substances to deal with GRIEF and anger. If somebody has a drink because "they are stressed." They have an alcohol problem or "unhealthy way to express emotions," even worse if they drink because they are sad or angry, that's exactly what you want to avoid.
The sex shows them that women are below us. It isn't good for them to see these things. They aren't able to consciously process what they are seeing. C'mon were you guys able of critical thinking sub 18? I was completely retarded until my 30s. And I am still figuring things out.
Yes, you are 100% correct. That is what we want to avoid. You want stupid silly kids, not mature adults. Maturity in kids is a negative sign.
I am not saying the answer is this and that. Because you still have the whole world to teach your child! I am saying there are certain things that have been established that are deemed harmful for a child's development.
NO NO NO!!!! You can't educate a kid man!! Stop forcing them to grow up.
Treat your child as if it is the most precious and delicate thing in this world.
Who knows what will happen?! It is known actually. Do you really think this is a mystery? Thing is. Nobody is going to jump into your life and tell you you are doing wrong. And you will justify your actions to save face for yourself. Nobody likes to admit to themselves they have done something wrong or hurtful. Especially to their kids. Holy shit man. That is some struggle! I am really happy we are able to talk about these things. It is a very unique subject.
What'll happen?
They'll wind up sitting at home all day reading and preaching family values. They'll isolate instead of living life, meeting people, dating, starting a family, having their own demon spawn.
Oh wait, that doesn't sound right. :/
