I said their value system is incompatible with ours. You disagree and that is fine. I have my position, based on my personal experiences and you have your position, based on your personal experiences. I lived in Europe for eight years and experienced the vast difference in value systems. Needless to say, I did not harbor any hatred towards Muslims. I treated them with dignity and respect. I respect your feedback and I respect you as a human being. For the record, I don't want us to allow any refugees into the country, so this is not limited to Muslims. We have plenty of internal issues to iron out with our own people. We don't need to add to it. There is plenty of suffering within our borders too.
I have been to Europe as well, many times and for extended periods, as well as have family in Paris mainly but also several other cities in France. They still love their children just as much as we do here and Europeans do in Europe. You're saying they are incompatible and I'm asking for the headlines, stories, reports, etc of where they're incompatible. Do you think a refugee running for their life and that of their family is troubled by incompatibility or did you mean an extremist?
You sound like a level headed person so I'm sure you treated them with dignity and that's commendable in this day and age. I guess my issue with your comment is that I agree we have issues of our own to deal with here but most, if not all, those issues don't involve life or death. We have homeless, we have injured vets, we have families losing their houses, we have people losing jobs, a shitty economy, etc etc etc but these issues aren't killing people by the thousands.
You see it as Muslim refugees coming here or refugees in general whereas I'm looking at it as these are human beings that are suffering and could use any help they can get. We would be no better than animals if we continue to turn our backs on our own kind (and I'm not talking race, religion, ethnic background etc but about species). We are in a budget deficit and have many unresolved issues but if it is within our power to help I feel like we should. If money is an issue let's go after the government and it's wasteful spending. The US government spent $187,587 to find out if Japanese quail engage in risky sexual behavior while on cocaine, $200,000 on a tattoo removal program in California, $3,000,000 was granted to the University of California Irvine to study video games, $615,000 given to the University of California Santa Cruz to digitize memorabilia of the Greatful Dead, $2,600,000 was spent to teach Chinese prostitutes to drink responsibly, untold billions of dollars are spent on an illogical war and drugs and incarcerating non-violent offenders, and too many more things to list. All this wasted money could have been spent on not only helping Syrian refugees but also our own issues that you pointed out.
I don't view it as us or them. I view at as doing what needs to be done and doing the right thing. The people profiting off these wars don't want it to end as it would mean their income and revenue would take a hit but at the end of the day the Syrians are just as much human as we are and deserve to be treated as such.