Proud, straight fashionista here.
To be fair, much of how you are treated in life is a function of how you allow yourself to be treated by others. By dressing well (i.e. not faddish), you demand the respect of those around you. I am not so superficial or shallow to believe that clothing or a "look" is the most important thing in the world, but some dudes are into cars... I'm into good clothing.
If your body can support it, there's nothing wrong with skinny jeans. In fact, I love the look of guys in skinny jeans, rolled up bottom cuffs, and a nice pair of Johnston and Murphy brogues or boots.
Step your clothes game up, especially your shoe game, and watch the pussy bow before you.