Good experiences with women. Do they exist?

[trtbuilder]

Lot of butthurt men in the replies.

We can care about women's mental health without abandoning men.

I was pointing out that women's addiction patterns are different. Maybe read it again.

I reread it. It's just as dumb. Sorry I destroyed you in 1 sentence and you have nothing to refute it with.

 

[bananafeet]

I reread it. It's just as dumb. Sorry I destroyed you in 1 sentence and you have nothing to refute it with.

I said that women experience mental illness. Somehow you've invalidated that with the male suicide rate?

I guess I've been destroyed then...

 

[trtbuilder]

I said that women experience mental illness. Somehow you've invalidated that with the male suicide rate?

I guess I've been destroyed then...

I mean, your entire post is basically saying that women are a problem because they're more mentally ill, more likely to use drugs and alcohol and more likely to be secretive.

None of that holds up when you see that men are actually much higher users of dtugs and alcohol and men are four times as likely to die of suicide. I wonder why they go for suicide? Because we are told to be a man and most never learn how to communicate in a healthy way which also leads to more secrecy and lies.

Basically you made a flawed argument that doesn't hold up under even the slightest scrutiny and now you're trying to backpedal.

 

[bananafeet]

I mean, your entire post is basically saying that women are a problem because they're more mentally ill, more likely to use drugs and alcohol and more likely to be secretive.

None of that holds up when you see that men are actually much higher users of dtugs and alcohol and men are four times as likely to die of suicide. I wonder why they go for suicide? Because we are told to be a man and most never learn how to communicate in a healthy way which also leads to more secrecy and lies.

Basically you made a flawed argument that doesn't hold up under even the slightest scrutiny and now you're trying to backpedal.

I said the mental health is deteriorating in women.

Due to the nature of their addiction and behaviour it's less visible and less outwardly destructive so it gets less attention.

Mental health in men has always been an issue but the rate hasn't gotten worse.

 

[gainslol]

Mental health in men has always been an issue but the rate hasn't gotten worse.

That's like focusing on a slow leak in a boat when there's a gaping hole taking in a ton of water.

Sure we can acknowledge both but that's actually the problem in its current form, the majority of what's acknowledged and addressed is women's struggles, while men are suffering more severely and at a higher lethality.

I get what you're trying to say but I see this same thing happen anytime the struggles of men get mentioned. It's that whole "well women have it difficult too" that sidelines the topic at hand.

Many women (not all) will do this all the time when they say things like: "Oh because men don't cheat on women" or "right, because men can't be toxic" and "so you're saying that men don't ..." etc.

It's a form of bringing the focus back to women (whom society currently considers to be the bigger victim who need to be protected at all cost, even if that means at the cost of men).

 

[aromatizer]

women are just dudes with vaginas

BZZZT. yeah...nah bro. recipe for disaster.

 

[bananafeet]

That's like focusing on a slow leak in a boat when there's a gaping hole taking in a ton of water.

Sure we can acknowledge both but that's actually the problem in its current form, the majority of what's acknowledged and addressed is women's struggles, while men are suffering more severely and at a higher lethality.

I get what you're trying to say but I see this same thing happen anytime the struggles of men get mentioned. It's that whole "well women have it difficult too" that sidelines the topic at hand.

Many women (not all) will do this all the time when they say things like: "Oh because men don't cheat on women" or "right, because men can't be toxic" and "so you're saying that men don't ..." etc.

It's a form of bringing the focus back to women (whom society currently considers to be the bigger victim who need to be protected at all cost, even if that means at the cost of men).

You are looking at the issue in a binary way and saying "if men are worse off women must be winning".

In fact the truth is much more sinister. If men suffer women suffer, if women suffer men suffer.

The women who caused me the most trauma when I look back had very big mental issues themselves. Self harm, alcoholism, bisexuality, food addiction etc etc

The point of that lady in the videos was the breakdown of the family unit has exposed more children to trauma and abuse.

I don't see how what I'm saying is controversial.