steckdose0
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you know what's great? if someone fails to pay alimony they leave their parents out of it. leave the kid alone. i understand the worry, which is natural for any parent, but damn at this point you're literally living his life. all you can do is tell him exactly what you told us and the rest is up to him.I remember my first Job/business. I was making 85-90K, I thought wow, this is cool. Then I get a letter in the mail from child support. I knew nothing about that stuff. I then went to my attorney, and found out I could potentially end up paying 27% before taxes till the age of 18, or longer in some circumstances.
What a wakeup call. My business was doubling in profit every year. So that means a woman would get $25,000 of my $ this year. $50,000 next year, and keep growing. And...even if I was making nothing, a judge could say you are capable of making X amount of $ per year, and you owe X amount.
Men need to educate boys about this. Life is not all fun and pussy. If you don't protect yourself, some slut can end up with a big chunk of your money, hook up with another guy, and laugh her ass off while she's milking you for your $, with the ability to jail you.
Most state have online child support calculators
also, what do you even want us to say? like how did you imagine this post going in your mind? that's like some dad talking about his daughter "i'm putting her on birth control cause ain't nobody bustin successful nuts inside my baby girl! if anyone does that it's gonna be me!"