Interracial relationships

[Big_paul]

think im at a point I dont give a fuck who I end up with, and honestly, im leaning toward a little flavor. But not sure I wanna deal with the BS that could come along with it.

My mothers family shit their pants when my Irish mother married my Sicilian father. They finally came around.

At best it has to be a loud mouth minority who would actually be so offended to say anything, and if someone has the balls to do something about it, react how you see fit. I will refrain from offering my advice publicly.

I say lay pipe.

 

[koolio]

I started dating black girls back in 1982...for whatever reason they would come right up to me, start flirting, and by that night I was laying pipe...I nailed over 50 sistas from 82-90...I met my black ex wife in 1990...no one ever said a thing to me...maybe because they knew I would have beat their ass or maybe because the girls were always smoking hot...I have a mixed race daughter that is gorgeous...she only dates white guys...

 

[Schibetta]

I actually take it upon myself to smack people who verbalize their bigotry, it feels good and it's funny watching them bewildered and too bitch to do anything. My sisters got a black guy, someone asked her where our parrents went wrong and I beat him up and held him upside down in the store upfront of everyone. Humiliating him felt good but needless to say it was a legal mess.

 

[Hightower]

I actually take it upon myself to smack people who verbalize their bigotry, it feels good and it's funny watching them bewildered and too bitch to do anything. My sisters got a black guy, someone asked her where our parrents went wrong and I beat him up and held him upside down in the store upfront of everyone. Humiliating him felt good but needless to say it was a legal mess.

I thought at that moment you feel very good, feel superior and right.

 

[Hightower]

I’m married to a white woman, but black women are pretty much all I attract anymore being all big and mean. Black women are visual ppl, they look at muscle the way they look at rims on a car.

Black women are very, very attractive, like bewitching panthers.

 

[Schibetta]

I thought at that moment you feel very good, feel superior and right.

You thought what?

 

[Hightower]

You thought what?

Probably didn’t explain correctly, when you punished that guy, you felt that you were doing right and right.

 

[valuum]

I have a black sun tattoo and my last girlfriend was 0% white lol. I noticed how with black male white female couples other white people often looked down upon the white female. When I dated the black and native girl other minorities looked down on her.

Still that infinitely better than patronizing liberals who did the whole “oh that’s SO NICE” routine

 

[Hightower]

I have a black sun tattoo and my last girlfriend was 0% white lol. I noticed how with black male white female couples other white people often looked down upon the white female. When I dated the black and native girl other minorities looked down on her.

Still that infinitely better than patronizing liberals who did the whole “oh that’s SO NICE” routine

I don't really understand what this attitude is connected with?

 

[JayOne]

I'm black and all I bang is white girls, I grown with my dad in a white area. My mum is very much like when are you going to get a nice black girl (my mum lives in a black area). When I stayed with her a few years back she walked into me hitting a nice white polish girl in her bed... (I did not have my own bed at the time) well I did but it was a fold up one.

But who cares where I am from people tend to be secretly racist. I dint care at all I'd say go with the flow bro. You only here once

 

[Hightower]

I'm black and all I bang is white girls, I grown with my dad in a white area. My mum is very much like when are you going to get a nice black girl (my mum lives in a black area). When I stayed with her a few years back she walked into me hitting a nice white polish girl in her bed... (I did not have my own bed at the time) well I did but it was a fold up one.

But who cares where I am from people tend to be secretly racist. I dint care at all I'd say go with the flow bro. You only here once

What the hell is the difference what color of skin you have, the main thing is what kind of person. My life position. The humiliation of people in general is crap, which is about the weakness and inferiority of a person.

 

[Schibetta]

Probably didn’t explain correctly, when you punished that guy, you felt that you were doing right and right.

It didn't matter if it was right or wrong. I just knew he needed it.

 

[1tank1]

It didn't matter if it was right or wrong. I just knew he needed it.

There's a good life lesson to be learned here for young whippersnappers who think they can say and do whatever they want to, and cause offence/damage to others, and then think nothing is ever going to happen to them coz "the law" protects them.

Wrong! ROFL...

 

[Schibetta]

There's a good life lesson to be learned here for young whippersnappers who think they can say and do whatever they want to, and cause offence/damage to others, and then think nothing is ever going to happen to them coz "the law" protects them.

Wrong! ROFL...

Yeah law enforcement is a good thing on paper but is extremely flawed through corruption, it has also made men extremely weak and pussified. Americans seem to think they can offend whoever they want and there shouldn't be consequence. In the 19th century it was legal for someone to kill you if you crossed certain lines. Those days will never come back it's still human instinct to punish someone for threatening love/peace/security.

 

[Hightower]

It didn't matter if it was right or wrong. I just knew he needed it.

I agree and I'm not saying I'm wrong.

 

[Hightower]

There's a good life lesson to be learned here for young whippersnappers who think they can say and do whatever they want to, and cause offence/damage to others, and then think nothing is ever going to happen to them coz "the law" protects them.

Wrong! ROFL...

Such life lessons are very useful and necessary for the head to start thinking normally.

 

[pahick]

I had a long talk last night with "M", shes one of the black women I said about. Shes 38, 5'4 145 and very dark skinned. So sweet. Grew up city but moved to country for nursing. I felt like such a douche at first, I know she thought I was going to ask her out. But I didnt. I wanted to talk to her, let her know I do like her but I have concerns. Stated my concerns, which mainly focused on how we would be treated if we do proceed. I basically friend zoned myself.

She was very understanding, and actually opened up about her concerns, which mimicked mine. She told me shes treated very well by the people in our town, but her coworkers...even though they treat her well, when the subject of dating comes up and she mentions her interest in white men, they try to change the subject or ask her if she knows any nice black men.

I was surprised by that honestly. I hugged her and gave her a kiss, said no matter what friends forever. She agreed, and told me she only wants me to be happy. I want the same for her.

In this day and age, its still not easy folks. On one hand im glad I had the talk, on the other im kinda down about the whole deal. I know she would make a great partner, she is so country its not funny now. We have so much in common. It sucks that we both feel societal pressure thats way outdated.

 

[Schibetta]

I had a long talk last night with "M", shes one of the black women I said about. Shes 38, 5'4 145 and very dark skinned. So sweet. Grew up city but moved to country for nursing. I felt like such a douche at first, I know she thought I was going to ask her out. But I didnt. I wanted to talk to her, let her know I do like her but I have concerns. Stated my concerns, which mainly focused on how we would be treated if we do proceed. I basically friend zoned myself.

She was very understanding, and actually opened up about her concerns, which mimicked mine. She told me shes treated very well by the people in our town, but her coworkers...even though they treat her well, when the subject of dating comes up and she mentions her interest in white men, they try to change the subject or ask her if she knows any nice black men.

I was surprised by that honestly. I hugged her and gave her a kiss, said no matter what friends forever. She agreed, and told me she only wants me to be happy. I want the same for her.

In this day and age, its still not easy folks. On one hand im glad I had the talk, on the other im kinda down about the whole deal. I know she would make a great partner, she is so country its not funny now. We have so much in common. It sucks that we both feel societal pressure thats way outdated.

Don't ever let what undesirables think about you factor into your decisions. When you do that you let the cunts win. Never do that. More of us need to do what we want to form relationships with people from any race. It only hurts them, not you, when they try and express their disapproval, laugh in their faces then kiss her.

 

[Schibetta]

I had a long talk last night with "M", shes one of the black women I said about. Shes 38, 5'4 145 and very dark skinned. So sweet. Grew up city but moved to country for nursing. I felt like such a douche at first, I know she thought I was going to ask her out. But I didnt. I wanted to talk to her, let her know I do like her but I have concerns. Stated my concerns, which mainly focused on how we would be treated if we do proceed. I basically friend zoned myself.

She was very understanding, and actually opened up about her concerns, which mimicked mine. She told me shes treated very well by the people in our town, but her coworkers...even though they treat her well, when the subject of dating comes up and she mentions her interest in white men, they try to change the subject or ask her if she knows any nice black men.

I was surprised by that honestly. I hugged her and gave her a kiss, said no matter what friends forever. She agreed, and told me she only wants me to be happy. I want the same for her.

In this day and age, its still not easy folks. On one hand im glad I had the talk, on the other im kinda down about the whole deal. I know she would make a great partner, she is so country its not funny now. We have so much in common. It sucks that we both feel societal pressure thats way outdated.

You're seriously going to let the insecurities of a band of miserable dorks, pressure you into passing up on a good woman thus making you miserable as well? You have a chance alot of men don't get. Please don't fuck it up over this.

 

[Norse13]

I had a long talk last night with "M", shes one of the black women I said about. Shes 38, 5'4 145 and very dark skinned. So sweet. Grew up city but moved to country for nursing. I felt like such a douche at first, I know she thought I was going to ask her out. But I didnt. I wanted to talk to her, let her know I do like her but I have concerns. Stated my concerns, which mainly focused on how we would be treated if we do proceed. I basically friend zoned myself.

She was very understanding, and actually opened up about her concerns, which mimicked mine. She told me shes treated very well by the people in our town, but her coworkers...even though they treat her well, when the subject of dating comes up and she mentions her interest in white men, they try to change the subject or ask her if she knows any nice black men.

I was surprised by that honestly. I hugged her and gave her a kiss, said no matter what friends forever. She agreed, and told me she only wants me to be happy. I want the same for her.

In this day and age, its still not easy folks. On one hand im glad I had the talk, on the other im kinda down about the whole deal. I know she would make a great partner, she is so country its not funny now. We have so much in common. It sucks that we both feel societal pressure thats way outdated.

I didn't fully get it... did you decide to become friends, just because of negative perceptions of interracial couples from her coworkers and townsfolk? That is such a bizarre decision that I wonder if i misunderstood...

That must be some massive pressure... maybe have a think about whether that societal pressure really should drive such big decisions in your life? I do understand the concept of having some concern for society's opinions, but as a man standing on your own feet, in the end you got to do what's right for yourself. If the town is really shackling you, perhaps consider to move somewhere else...