I have recently gotten married to a badass chick but we are more than likely going to go gen an annulment in the am. Im pretty fucking messed up because i finally found a woman that gives me most of what i need. The fucked thing is that we are drinking a little bit and messing with another compounds and its killing us. She is ready to throw in the towell amd I'm close to losing it. I know that alcohol amd me don't mix, been a sober member of alcoholics anonymous for most of my adult life. She has never had any kind of program amd is crazy when she drinks. I have to accept what comes from this and move on but fuck, this is painful. I love her and she loves me but she isnt willing to look at her part. I guess we'll see where it leads, I'm really not too happy these days. Thanks guys for any thoughts or input.
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Damn bro, sorry to hear it. I've struggled with sobriety and in my marriage as well. What worked for me so far was getting sober for myself and letting my wife do her thing. I'm no good using or drinking and holding someone else accountable for my sobriety doesn't work. She continued to drink, I was sober. After a few years of that she eventually realized she wanted to be sober too. A bunch of rough patches along the way when I didn't think we were gonna make it but as of right now we're both sober and doing better than ever.
My advice, for what it's worth, is work on your sobriety and stay with her if she's willing. Maybe she'll come around eventually.
My advice, for what it's worth, is work on your sobriety and stay with her if she's willing. Maybe she'll come around eventually.
Thx roast. We were only together for a few months and we both knew that we wanted to do this together. Its a really touchy mess today, these days. When were well, we're not issued at all but you know what happens when we drink or use. Been chipping a little and like anyone here that knows opiares, chipping isn't a reality. Been good mostly until we met. Still hitting the gym but when i get loaded for 3 days and then try and make a pr, thats not happening. Thx again bro. I'm glad that you and yours are better these days. I'll keep you in the loop. Good to be back on MESO and see some of the older cats here.
johnnyBALLZ
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Doesn't sound like a good situation to be in, Manny..
I'm not trying to sound like a dick but what the fuck were you thinking marrying a girl after a few months?!
Onwards and upwards my friend, don't get caught up in that shit again..
I'm not trying to sound like a dick but what the fuck were you thinking marrying a girl after a few months?!
Onwards and upwards my friend, don't get caught up in that shit again..
Johnny, have you seen my avis recently?? 
jk. Seriously, sh3 is a badass in the gym, hella awesome woman, just when she drinks she turns into a fucking twat and runs her mouth. She kept it under cover until recently. My bad is that im fucking around and kniw that i cant afdord to. Weve been hitting mtgs and she wants to wk her steps so we'll see. How you been man? @johnnyBALLZ
jk. Seriously, sh3 is a badass in the gym, hella awesome woman, just when she drinks she turns into a fucking twat and runs her mouth. She kept it under cover until recently. My bad is that im fucking around and kniw that i cant afdord to. Weve been hitting mtgs and she wants to wk her steps so we'll see. How you been man? @johnnyBALLZ
No problem bro, hope you're able to get back in recovery. We all know life is a mess without hope of getting better until you're sober. Good luck man!
doubleaa
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Ya ive beem there bro. Its one of those deals where you both have to want it and know what you want. I was in a relationship were she wanted to be clean but i i didn't. You know im sure that no body can keep you clean or eachother for that matter. You have to find yourselves on your own and and then there can be a chance for a something somwhere down the line. i wish the best of luck to you in finding yourself and yout true happiness that is within you. Got to love yourselve before you can love anyone else.
Sorry to hear that bro, take her out and have a conversation about changing the lifestyle up for each other. An probably gotta quit hanging out with the friends that always wanna go out.
@roasthawg @doubleaa @yohyoh , thanks guys. I guess we all have been here along with a whole lot of the other guys here. It's a messy ass existance when we have hostages. Today we are eachothers. Ive been in and out of recovery since i was 16 amd have had good solid recovery so i know what yall are saying. There isn't time to fuck around. I'll keep you all in my thoughts and prayers to whatever makes this world turrn.
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