I once had a 4 year old kid with significant cavities. He was a nice kid but had a hyperactive gag reflex and even with nitrous I couldn't work on him in the chair. Because of his gag we couldn't get x-rays but I could see he had significant cavities between his teeth based on the shadowing I could see.
I recommended to the mother we treat him under IV sedation (MD anesthesiologist comes to my office). Mom smiled and left.
1 week later she called me to tell me how incompetent I was because she went for a second opinion and that dentist (a general dentist) said the child's cavities weren't significant and he fixed everything in 20 mins.
I knew for a fact that this kid has 4 quadrants of difficult dentistry and there is no way anyone could do any treatment on this kid in the chair unsedated. It was very hard to hear someone call me incompetent on the phone when I knew I 100% right. I told her her son's problems could not have been fixed properly in 20 mins and I guaranteed these teeth would become necrotic and abscess.
Almost 1 year to the day my partner saw the kid on emergency and extracted 4 teeth that had been treated by the other dentist.
Point is I was 100% correct in every way yet that bat shit crazy mom is out there still thinking I'm an asshole. No doubt she tells all her friends. She may even be out there on a forum right now. Even though I was right! The only thing I did wrong was tell her something that didn't match her expectations.
Patients are crazy and irrational and agree with the first person who tells them what they want to hear because everyone wants to be their own doctor. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you but that's life....I'm positive you're here because you have an axe to grind and that's fine....but I'm also sure it's not as simple or onesided as you state. I will keep seeing Hulinsky until what he says doesn't make sense. So far he's been thorough, logical and done pretty much what I think is best.
Do have to talk to him about the AI but so far so good...
I recommended to the mother we treat him under IV sedation (MD anesthesiologist comes to my office). Mom smiled and left.
1 week later she called me to tell me how incompetent I was because she went for a second opinion and that dentist (a general dentist) said the child's cavities weren't significant and he fixed everything in 20 mins.
I knew for a fact that this kid has 4 quadrants of difficult dentistry and there is no way anyone could do any treatment on this kid in the chair unsedated. It was very hard to hear someone call me incompetent on the phone when I knew I 100% right. I told her her son's problems could not have been fixed properly in 20 mins and I guaranteed these teeth would become necrotic and abscess.
Almost 1 year to the day my partner saw the kid on emergency and extracted 4 teeth that had been treated by the other dentist.
Point is I was 100% correct in every way yet that bat shit crazy mom is out there still thinking I'm an asshole. No doubt she tells all her friends. She may even be out there on a forum right now. Even though I was right! The only thing I did wrong was tell her something that didn't match her expectations.
Patients are crazy and irrational and agree with the first person who tells them what they want to hear because everyone wants to be their own doctor. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you but that's life....I'm positive you're here because you have an axe to grind and that's fine....but I'm also sure it's not as simple or onesided as you state. I will keep seeing Hulinsky until what he says doesn't make sense. So far he's been thorough, logical and done pretty much what I think is best.
Do have to talk to him about the AI but so far so good...
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