Male Pattern Badness is a term I am happy to introduce into the public discussion. And while it is true that it is not exclusively men that suffer from it, let’s just say they are the most frequent victims. And when I say victims, I mean perpetrators, with everyone around them the actual victims.
Yes, something is wrong under that whirlwind confection of fine-spun gold cotton candy on his head, and I don’t mean a scalp condition. Go another layer or two down and something is truly amiss. I am not just talking about President Trump’s attitude toward women, which is demeaning and exploitative and self-entitled and cruel. This is a fairly widespread problem with powerful men, as we are seeing daily. The locker-room talk Trump spoke of is not exactly uncommon, and it is all too frequently followed by matching actions out on what is considered by some to be the playing field. Unfortunately, Trump has something still worse.
I am not a doctor, so I won’t say that Trump is a sociopath, and an editor would probably take that word out anyway. But that particular diagnosis aside, Trump is manifesting a pattern of behavior that is consistent and unusual,
and it won’t get any better. The key phase from this brief analysis? “Trump seems more self-assured.” That’s right. In the relentless downward spiral that is the Trump presidency, from dysfunction to disgrace to dismal policy, Trump is buoyant and sunshiny. This is what makes him so dangerous. When normal people blunder, they notice and feel some measure of corrective self-doubt. It is the absence of this check that marks the unbalanced.
It is a state of mindlessness that never self-corrects. The only thing that slows Trump down is the chaos he manufactures around him. But being slowed is not the same as being stopped. Every day he survives in office is another day stronger. His chaos may slow him down, but it also clears a path of opportunity ahead of him. A path that wasn’t there before within the norms of our democracy. He is destroying the standards that impede authoritarianism. He also happens to have the backing of a political party willing to sell every principle and past practice to deliver tax cuts to their donors. Trump, if nothing else, can spot lackeys when he sees them. So who’s to stop him? No wonder he feels encouraged.
So in the midst of this worst of all presidencies, Trump is undeterred. Now, yes, please do take a moment to consider Trump if and when he feels truly empowered. Is there a reason under the sun to imagine he will check his impulses then?
Another noteworthy quote from
this article: “No one who matters is doing anything but egging him on.” All that is needed for the forces of evil to succeed is for enough good men to remain silent. No, we don’t remain silent. We egg him on.